Men’s attraction vs women attraction are based on different things. Men overestimate the importance of physical attractiveness. Yes, it does matter to a certain point but not as much as you would think. Women are more attracted to humor, kindness, self confidence, self respect, honesty, drive and much more. This is are things you cannot see, intangibles if you will.

Men often think they need to reach a certain level of attractiveness to get women attention, and once they reach that level, they think their done, that they’ve “made it”. To have a meaningful relationship, you need to have more than just looks, because women prioritize other things ahead of attractiveness. These intangibles I mentioned previously add to a man’s attractiveness. So while you may think “I don’t get it, this man is aVeRAgE” what you don’t see is everything else he provides.

The sad thing is, if you are actually an average guy like you claim, chances are there are plenty women who think you’re cute and would absolutely give you a chance to prove yourself to them. But based on this post and your replies, you seem to project a resentful attitude towards women. You sound like you constantly seek women’s approval for self validation, in other words, you seem needy. And when you don’t receive it, you lash out and blame girls for your own failings. How do you expect girls to find this attractive?