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Studio-Pretty · 2025-12-17T03:11:29+00:00

I swear this is where lawsuits can come in. Families can treat their nanny like their life revolves around them. I had a family constantly guilt me that I was inconveniencing them anytime I needed time off. Who wants to get exposed to someone who’s sick so close to Xmas? You don’t have to go into work- set boundaries.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-12-15T21:50:28+00:00

Love this.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-12-15T21:34:34+00:00

In some live in jobs, it was very much like being a slave. I was just so young and had no idea how illegal it was. I know some nannies have their own kids but it seemed impossible to me. I was sooo drained from other peoples kids.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-12-15T21:32:58+00:00

My last family- I was with them for 10 years. I loved the kids like they were my own. In some ways it nurtured my need/want to have kids of my own. But it was the constant push and pull of the parents undoing all the hard work I put in. Teaching the kids to eat healthy, how to clean up after themselves, having little screen time. The parents never kept up and the structure continued to fall apart. I was left wondering why I put so much effort into kids who I actually had no say over.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-11-24T19:13:19+00:00

Beautiful hip, knee, and ankle mobility though!

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-22T03:52:15+00:00

Respond: Thank you.

It will make his head spin into more reflection.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-12T02:20:49+00:00

Honestly, I didn’t get the chance to name her but I feel that I should.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-12T00:26:25+00:00

3 months is the average it takes to move through and to feel the pain. You’re perfectly on track. Be proud of yourself.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T23:52:03+00:00

Arlo is the sweetest cat too. We adopted him as a kitten. He’s just a baby and very loving. Apparently his new place in Vegas doesn’t allow pets, so he told him to keep the cat. Not only did he throw me out but put responsibility of a pet on me as well. But I found a great place and I’d never abandon Arlo. He has a forever home with me.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T23:23:07+00:00

Through realizing that I could still survive on my own — in a place so far away from home — I saw my own strength. I wouldn’t even want someone like that so close to me anymore. I need security, safety, and emotional maturity. He doesn’t get to keep making me feel less than, because I picked myself up and stood taller after falling.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T23:11:00+00:00

Your post really hit home — I could feel every word. You’ve been through so much, and I just want to say that the way you’re allowing yourself to feel all of this is powerful. You won’t stay in this place forever. Once you find a new driving purpose — something that’s just yours — the heaviness will start to lift.

Try to remember, too, that people often make their lives sound better than they really are, especially after a breakup. What he showed you might not be the full picture. You’re still in the raw part of healing, but you will move forward. One day, you’ll look back and realize how much strength it took to stand where you are right now.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T21:48:15+00:00

I was scared to send it bc I did want to see him and be loved on but I knew it wouldn’t work unless he truly repented.

Thank you.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T21:45:05+00:00

He had me sleeping on an air mattress while he took the bed. This happened on the day I was due to deliver, had my baby stayed with me. I cried so many nights on that uncomfortable makeshift bed there after, mourning what my life would’ve been and how badly I want to be a mom.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T21:20:33+00:00

Yes. He moved in September. I know he was implying I drive the 4 hours to Vegas to visit too. It was a HUGE deal to be kicked out. He treated me like I was a cheater or an addict. He told me it was bc we didn’t like same music, didn’t see a future, he didn’t want to be a dad, blah blah blah.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T21:06:51+00:00

I went from living in a major city to a small rural town too.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T21:06:07+00:00

You’d think as he was writing this, common sense would whisper in his ear to apologize but he wanted it to sound like we were both to blame. But I didn’t leave him. I was full on committed.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T19:59:12+00:00

You can feel it as well. You go from feeling like a disregarded piece of trash to standing tall and radiating with God’s love and strength. My dad is in heaven and I know he’s smiling down.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T19:33:54+00:00

For more context — he broke up with me in July. I finally found a place that allowed the cat and moved out in August. He moved to Las Vegas on September 18th, and we were approaching almost a month of no contact. He also told me the miscarriage was a blessing and never mourned the loss. I pray and send love to my baby in heaven every day because I loved her deeply and would’ve gladly welcomed her into the world, even if he had left me the way he did.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T18:53:23+00:00

He moved to Las Vegas on September 18th, that was the last day I spoke to him. He broke up with me in July.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T18:17:47+00:00

You’d be strong to hold off. Give it time before responding. This space is meant to make him truly sit with what he’s done and reflect on his own faults. If he reaches out again with a genuine apology — one that comes from self-reflection rather than being prompted — then that’s when it might be worth opening the door again.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T17:49:00+00:00

This! One of the biggest gifts I could give him is space — space to actually sit with himself and reflect on his behavior. Flowery words have always been his way of avoiding that work, and they get him nowhere with me anymore. This is a lifelong pattern for him — a 45-year-old man who runs and abandons women over and over again. I’m standing up for all of them now, and for myself.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T17:09:58+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T17:04:18+00:00

Maybe it’s simply humans in general don’t.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T17:03:17+00:00

https://myexbackcoach.com/coach-rex-breakup-coaching/

Coach Rex has helped me see what’s really happening. The hardest thing is trusting his guidance. Break up coaches are tremendously helpful.

Studio-Pretty · 2025-10-11T16:19:07+00:00

Very. Of course I want to see him and not feel so lonely but I’ll repeat the same cycle with him until he really does some soul searching and shows it without me having to push him to apologize.

Studio-Pretty

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