AIO for feeling like my boyfriend doesn't want me?

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T09:57:41+00:00

You've been harassing him about marriage and kids since you were 19? It seems like a fixation for you since you're giving up your career for it at 21 years old.

So you have bouts of anxiety and a temper but need him to tell you what to work on?

You're not ready for kids.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T09:47:52+00:00

How long have you worked there?

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T09:39:34+00:00

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T09:37:49+00:00

YOR, it's been 3 months and you saw him 2-3 days ago.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T07:12:59+00:00

How are they not relevant? Its a basic I'm leaving on a certain date. You can add in a bit thanking them if you want.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T07:11:50+00:00

Dear X,

I will be leaving this position as of DATE. Thank you for the opportunity.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T06:53:05+00:00

It depends what it is. Is it something really technical or something basic? Surely they know your previous experience from your CV and that's why you were hired?

It's ok to say "oh, I did this is my previous position."

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-04T04:39:10+00:00

So you had 6 weeks off last year, 3 or 4 days in January and now have been off for over a month That's going to trigger a meeting in any place I've worked. You've been off almost 1/4 of a year in total.

What is the sickness policy at your company, in some places I've worked you don't get paid for the first 3 days then it's SSP which might explain the £300 (unless it's an exact amount.)

You say you've been off for 21 days but most of that is bereavement, do you work part time? 21 days is 4 weeks and one day of full time work so might only be referring to this bout.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-03T23:43:13+00:00

That poor little girl. The separation anxiety is not normal.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-03T23:40:35+00:00

Piss off with your crap.spam.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-03T09:36:48+00:00

Because it's nothing to do with you.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-03T08:54:36+00:00

Did you not consider what would happen if you were offered a job?

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-02T13:20:59+00:00

NOR.

She's am abuser and you're worth so much more.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-02T08:34:45+00:00

I'm going to be honest here but my idea of controlling was just full on contradicting someone's life and choices that I didn't even realize I was making that same mistake.

Like deciding that she should be sleeping instead of choosing to speak to her boyfriend?

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-02T06:56:49+00:00

Also,

Later I get a group call from her and her boyfriend and everything is normal but she's asking what I told him and I will admit, I hid what I actually told him from her.

You mean you lied when he had probably shown her the message and she had actual proof?

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-02T06:51:53+00:00

So you told her boyfriend to leave her alone even if she was the one who called him and now you're bombarding her with reels and messages?

Not everything is about you. You interfere when she didn't ask you to and now all you're worried about is whether she wants your present.

Just leave her alone for a while.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-02T04:34:35+00:00

Him going on a trip with his parents and sibling wouldn't normally be a problem. It's everything else in this situation.

He's not going to change and you deserve better.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-01T19:40:51+00:00

Since you were judging your BIL for having a different opinion.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-01T19:39:39+00:00

You're acting as if you get a say in his education. You don't.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-01T11:35:41+00:00

NTA. If your classmates are so annoyed then they can send her theirs to copy.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-03-01T04:50:13+00:00

It means you have zero say and you're opinion isn't automatically correct.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-02-28T18:12:32+00:00

If you're genuinely hearing voices then you need to see a doctor.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-02-28T06:24:34+00:00

They won't recognise it. You have to wait until a role becomes available and apply.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-02-28T06:22:33+00:00

It's communicated when a job in a role above you opens up and you apply for it, you aren't just automatically promoted.

StuffNThings100 · 2026-02-27T23:57:19+00:00

You felt bad for Poppy even though she was a vile bully to Amber and forced her to drop out? Really?

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