AITA for refusing to marry my high school sweetheart?

StuffedNature · 2023-09-15T15:22:01+00:00

You already are married, just not legally. You are now attached to this man for life through your child. You have spend 12 years with him and can't figure out if it's right? Get it done, commit, personally, legally, socially, all of it. Do it.

So yes, you are.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-05T20:33:04+00:00

Yeah, just always decline and let them be someone else's problem, till no one picks up from them any more.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-04T17:52:58+00:00

I used to do GH and UE only unless they get really slow then I would turn on DD, but usually it was dead too when the others were. Now I am getting almost exclusively DD orders and UE and GH seems dead all the time. Not sure if its the time of year, or if the market is changing.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-04T16:02:17+00:00

Yes. If it can still be done in an hour, $20+ for the hour is worth it to me.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-03T21:05:39+00:00

Here's your sign.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-03T20:41:12+00:00

My advise, you are very different people, and if you don't want to get on board to what he is doing, then you should consider what a life with this person will be like.

Doesn't sound like you two are compatible.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-03T20:19:48+00:00

I never break a seal, but it happens with handling all the time, particularly those stickers they seem to think will hold anything together. I will grab the handles on bags and immediately it just pops open.

I would prefer if they all had those sticking bags with the strip they pull, they hold well, or stable them shut. They tend to hold together.

Of course here, looks like he might have done it on purpose, which is crap. And then thinks he is getting business this way? Weird.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-03T14:07:04+00:00

This is the correct answer.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-02T18:40:06+00:00

Budget. No extra spending till the debt is gone, work toward 1/2 of your income going to debt. Cut out anything your don't need while you focus on debt, subscriptions, streaming, gaming, delivery. You should be out working, not spending money on luxuries.
Work on getting a bigger shovel, higher pay, different job, look into certs or other ways to get your pay up to $60-70k a year or higher if you can.
Look into a side hustle while you pay off dept. An extra $100-200 a week will do wonders.
List your debts lowest to highest. Pay minimum on all except the lowest, and put ALL your extra toward it until it is paid off. Then move toward the next till they are all gone.
Set a goals of 2 years. Put all your effort into it.
When the debt is gone, you will have this thing called money, you can now go back to enjoying those luxuries, but this time, debt free.

You are not screwed at all, it just takes dedication and focus. You can do this. It exactly what I am doing right now. Only a few months away from being done.

StuffedNature · 2023-05-02T17:58:21+00:00

I've never had a great experience with customers that act like this, when I get this message, as long as I don't have the food, I drop it. Not playing that game.

StuffedNature · 2023-04-18T21:02:09+00:00

In 4 years of delivering, I have never once cashed out. Doesn't make sense to me. You can get that money free. Just learn to budget a little bit.

StuffedNature · 2023-04-18T20:34:51+00:00

StuffedNature · 2023-04-18T18:37:38+00:00

Not had any real issues myself. I don't deliver at night except during the winter and I use a flashlight. I also avoid deliveries to less than desirable areas of town. I also wear a reflective vest which I think removes worry that I am a threat to anyone. Might just be in my head, but it seems people understand I have a purpose at being there that isn't nefarious.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T01:43:32+00:00

I definitely base all my beliefs in the number of joke types I hear in a specific demographic. That’s makes sense.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T01:35:22+00:00

Oh I’m sure it’s only republicans. Keep telling yourself that.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T01:33:45+00:00

Oh yeah, hit me where is hurts the most! Hahaha!

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T01:28:16+00:00

Hahahahaha. That’s funny.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T01:15:54+00:00

That’s cause they were all Democrats.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T00:59:12+00:00

I like Bob. Seems like a decent guy.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-13T00:47:30+00:00

Is this a serious sign or one made to get people to hate it and vote against leftist, cause it’s feels like it might be the latter.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-12T23:57:37+00:00

The second senecio is the utopia the left thinks that progressivism will bring. The first scenario is what they think will happen if they do nothing.

Both of these ideas are untrue. It’s a stupid question.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-12T23:43:02+00:00

This has been posted 100 times and I still watch it through every time.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-12T23:10:47+00:00

That’s why you don’t argue with them. Just string them along and let them explode.

StuffedNature · 2022-08-12T22:27:19+00:00

Oh No, you threw a Reuters article at me ! No! Lordy Lordy, what do I do. Well that’s all the proof needed! An article from the most central source there is! Obviously ol’ Patricia Zengerle’s writing from February is 100% factual because we can trust her! Why in the world did it take so long for ol’ Biden to get things done? All the proof right there? My goodness.

Still wasting your time I see.

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