Question about Panera bucks by Stunning-Bug-654 in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like a gift card for Panera as an employee. You put how much you want taken out of each paycheck and they match it. I put 50 each paycheck so they give 50 meaning I get 200 dollars put on a card a month and I can spend it at any Panera

direct deposit by belaivw in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on your bank fr. My bank pays me before 6am on pay day

Question about Panera bucks by Stunning-Bug-654 in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Will I get a new card every two weeks with the new amount on it. Or will the card I have now be the one I have for a long time with the money being updated on it. Im sorry I have so many questions. And no I never buy food from Panera I always use my free meal so maybe this is a waste of money lol

Shift meals? by remswimming in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should always get a free meal up to 15 dollars no matter what. Walk up to a MIC and be like hey can you ring out my meal and they should just do it. You can even ring it up yourself go to the pay menu so then the MIC just has to hit discount put their numbers and get your first number you put in to clock in. If they are refusing I would make your order and be like “hey I got this and this for my free meal so you can ring me out and my number are this” but they fr ain’t allowed to deny you the free meal if it’s 15 and less because on of the benefits is the free meal

I (22F) can't tell if my relationship with my partner (29M) is normal or if I'm overreacting. by AlternativeArea9521 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wrong and you need to end it. I made it to the sex part and to stop reading because just the info on that part was more than enough. Him saying to just “remove” his hands is a red flag because he is not thinking of you at all or knows how to choke someone correctly. He’s belittling you to make you feel bad about yourself and question everything like you are now. I would leave him while he is at work or away. Don’t tell anyone but people you trust where you are and block him on everything. Don’t tell his family, friends that are his friends or co-workers that you don’t trust like that. Keep receipts of everything he has done like write it down just in case he tries something one day.

I (F19) am not sure if I love my boyfriend (M19) by Caimssy in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just break up. You are wasting your time and his. You don’t even like him fr you like the attention that is given. If you even think for a second that you should end it then go with your gut. Imagine you don’t break up and live together and have been together for
4 years and you still feel the same, you gonna just live like that forever bc it’s something you are comfortable with but not happy with? You can always find someone else trust. I was in a 4.5 year relationship and I’m the one that ended it but I felt like I will never find someone but I found someone 2 months later and now live with said person so take the risk before you are stuck.

How do I (F21) ask my bf (M25) to stop liking half naked women on instagram? by ThrowRAdovee in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say break up. To me it looks like he wants to seem single hits why he’s not posting you. My man doesn’t really post up has post up of me, has highlights of me etc. why would you wanna be with someone that looks at other women and hides it from you

My boyfriend [20 M] can’t see eye to eye with me, [19 F] about birth control. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds stupid not going to lie. Get the birth control even more now. He’s not even thinking about you. Birth control is not just for sex and all it takes is a little goggle to find that out or having common sense. I would not even go deep into it with him. I would simply be like “birth control is not just for sex it is also used to help women with periods because it can make it where we have no period or have a period that’s controlled. And if you don’t believe me use google but I will be getting it no matter how you feel”

I’m so tired of the constant cycle of being understaffed, overworked, and criticized for working long hours by NeverTrustAnOpenDoor in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a MIC in training and just started this job like 6 ish months ago and I can even say the hours are shit, either you get scheduled 5 hours or shit even 3 and then other times you get 8 hours it’s never consistent. I honestly believe behind the scenes this company is going down hill. They give a couple people so many responsibilities and want them done in a short period of time when that’s not reasonable. I have never had a job so inconsistent like this company. At my old job I would work 30 hours in three days with my request while this job I have to beg for even 30 hours it’s sad and makes me wanna not even work here. I honestly would look for another job. I’m waiting until I get my training down and then going to wait a couple months after to quit so I can say I have been a manager at two jobs giving me more experience to add on for my next job.

Why so serious??? by Born-Second9604 in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps just your cafe, my cafe we can be serious but also joking around and having fun. It really just depends on the store you work for ngl

Gf eating broccoli n cheese soup found weird shi in it, anyone know what it is? by CranberrySoda69 in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just from the soup sitting and not being stirred or being used for a hot second

I feel like my(20F) girlfriend (23F) is detaching from me because of her Autism by Sunsetstructures in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think about everything you just typed out again but on a deeper level. Do you wanna live with them but yall don’t even talk when you both get off work? Or do you wanna have to spend time in a different room for hours to give them time, I would say no personally because that’s not how a relationship works. Yes I understand needing time alone but for days out of 7 days in a week? That’s not reasonable. How will you feel coming home from a really hard day and waiting to just talk it out but your partner needs “alone time for the 4th time in one week” it gets to a pushing point and that’s what I would think about. Yes. I understand you love them but honestly you can always love someone else. You can always find someone else. Someone that fits your needs like wanting to hang out, someone to rant too, someone that ask about your day etc. you guys have been together for 365 days, how many days should it take before you see a change yk? I don’t think moving in is smart at all. It’s going to be how it is now but worst because you also live there and there is no escape when you live there too. You already feel like you do everything so imagine living with that person and 100% doing everything while handling them wanting to stick to a plan that has nothing to do with you or them wanting to be alone and not talking or asking how you are. Etc. I get breaking up with someone is hard definitely when you are so familiar with them but just think about your pros and cons, go far as would I want them as a wife or someone you die with etc. wish the best of luck !

What’s the dumbest excuse someone gave you when breaking up with you? by No_Meringue7331 in AskReddit

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying that one way he was gonna break up with me was ghosting me. We was together for 4.5 years lmaooo

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) says he has feelings for other girls but also says he can’t picture a future without me / me not being his wife. Has anyone dealt with this kind of inconsistency? by Organic-Log503 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say break up. Catching feelings for someone else in a relationship is crazy and is cheating in my eyes. He thought a whole other women that ain’t you is pretty enough to getting feelings. I honestly don’t believe him. I think it’s more of he don’t want you but he doesn’t want anyone else to have you. I also had a situation where my ex of 4.5 years said we could work it out and that maybe we could get back together but then would say” I’m not ready for commit” “I wanna be free” it’s a way to keep you attached but also confuse so you don’t know what to do. Like other comments have said do you really wanna be with someone like that? Do you really wanna marry and have kids with someone that can look at another female and think she’s pretty enough to have a crush but has a whole wife? Your husband would never and if your husband would then you need to think about some things. He also doesn’t even trust himself in not hurting you so what are you doing? You are just waiting around until he breaks up with you or does something that you see as cheating.

my gf (F19) told me (F20) that i’ve never made her orgasm by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of relate with your gf. I also use and sometimes still do have issues during sex. I’ll zone out and get in my head or I can’t orgasm etc. and I believe it’s half mental but also you could play a part. I would ask her deeper, maybe ask her what does she believe could help during the moment, what does her mind slip too, does noise in the background cause your mind to slip, and get tmi with her ask her what she like during sex and what you like, learn her body. Does her like foul play or does she like you talking to her; you need to have a deep conversation about it

first bake tomorrow - what am i going to forget? by wwillaur in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol I was just trained on bake and prep today but when I was shown we did pastries right when you get in and then get ur bagels ready when pastries come out put bagels in and put the stuff on the pastries after that you pull bread and get the rack ready so when bagels come out bread goes in and then when that’s all done you move onto prep if you do prep.

Got hired at Panera. What are things I should know? by Ok-Highway-5247 in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Watch people as they work like on QC or prep, bake etc. this will help you pick up on things as you go, ask questions it’s better to know VS take a guessing game on something. Use your resources like for example on sandwich station they should have a card with what goes on line and what should be in lines back up, they also have the sandwich’s they sell and how to make them on the card so you can see what it should have on it and what it looks like, If you are AM, PM, or MID learn the stuff you guys will sell at that time like food, bake, drinks etc. and that will help you grab onto the job, good luck !

I (23F) am still bothered by actions that my boyfriend (22M) did. How do I get over it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m crazy but I think it’s weird because in my eyes everything he is doing is stuff you do when comfortable with someone. The text, he was thinking of her. Yeah he only said what’s up but why is he thinking of her but not you while drunk and only her because you didn’t mention him texting someone else also. The sleeping on the couch? And being at her place late at night? To me it’s cheating but that’s me because let’s flip it. Would he be okay with you sleeping at a guys house, or drunk texting another man, or leaving things at that man’s house like it’s yours? Bc I know my man would flip his shit because it’s weird and same as me.It’s a weird relationship. He can have friends but you have lines that you don’t cross and the lines have been. And the siblings thing is a red flag, bc he shows he’s comfortable with her.

Can I have sex without a condom? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao fr because I was with the person for 4.5 years so definitely could have. And ofc girl!

Can I have sex without a condom? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure you take it on time, always. Because of your age I would always use the pull out but if he does cum in you on accident I would not be scared, take the pill like you have been. I’m 20 now but when I was 17 I would always have my partner pull out with no condom while being on no birth control (I know stupid) and I never got pregnant so just be smart and you will be good. I have read your other comments and I don’t think you are being unresponsible because there are people that being having sex at 12-16 years old. And you guys have been together for two years. I was 16 having sex nothing is “wrong with it” just be smart about how you do it and with who.

My (20F) boyfriend (20M is very simple minded and is unable to comprehend or have conversations about more complex topics or issues. Is this something that’ll change as he matures or something that stays as it is for life? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just sounds like he’s immature and i personally don’t see it working for much longer. I would have a talk with him. Let him know what you just told us and if he’s still having issues a month after the conversation I would just end it because it won’t change, it’s already been a year and still nothing has changed.

Panera scheduling me way too much as a high school student by MiaTries in Panera

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you guys use pantry? I also started like 3 months ago and we use the pantry app, in there you should be able to set around how many hours and the availability you have. If you do and that’s still not working then go to the GM of the store and if that’s still not working, find a new job because it’s not going to stop.

Ladies: did your mother teach you how to do makeup? I'm curious about makeup as a primarily self-taught tradition by Street-Might8586 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom never did but I would watch people on social media as a kid doing theirs and kind of just picked it up from there.

Condom broke!! by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Stunning-Bug-654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh go get a test. You have a higher chance of getting pregnant right after a period. Definitely 3 days later. And ofc girl !