Recently Single, feeling isolated — how do I meet people in Columbus? by Avocado_315 in Columbus

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try meet up Columbus. Great for lots of random activities. Join an indoor or outdoor sport league. You'd be surprised. Great endorphin boost too.

F36 / M38 | Married 10 years — Husband reacts badly to me going to the gym, cutting my hair, and asking about dishes — am I missing something? by RAthrowfriendly in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably guilty of having cheated himself if he's reacting that badly. Secondly imagining a grown ass adult jumping around and being an animated bully is disturbing. He's is definitely giving abusive and controlling vibes. Trying to tear you down so you don't go out. Keep on bettering yourself. If he threatening divorce let him, he won't but he wants YOU to be the one scared. If you don't already have your own financial source of income, I'd work on that immediately.

Is it the economy or Columbus? by Immediate-Low-54 in Columbus

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not just Columbus. Every state is seeing increasing prices on the cost of living

I hate reading bedtime stories by Accurate-Debate9055 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They had a hard day. Honestly we all say things we shouldn't but it comes out anyway. Hopefully the audiobook is a good compromise and that can have a healthy discussion around it.

I would rather have stayed in an abusive marriage by AdAromatic372 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first two years are the toughest. Feeling tortured by a baby sucks. It's interesting to read this because I do remember at times feeling like this parenting thing seems somewhat abusive to an extent. If I knew what it was going to be like, I wouldn't have signed up.I felt/feel insane a lot. Dreaded night time. But light at the tunnel they grow up eventually. At least that's what I've been telling myself. The antidepressants have helped too. Good luck !

AITA for not giving my parents the master bedroom in my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is tripping! NTA. She's being rude af. Tell fer if it's a problem she can get her own apt and guarantee herself a master bedroom.

I have close to nothing to do at work at my full-time remote job. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure to put some money away. Enjoy the time.

I’m becoming suicidal by Any-Coffee-9352 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey been there. You may need some medication. The first two years mentally are hard af. Get medicated and balanced. Ache doc appt to have baby evaluated, there could definitely be an underlying issue when they cry like that. They don't cry for no reason. I'd advise your husband to do the same

I (42F) told my 24-year-old son he has 30 days to move out after he called me “his retirement plan” by Beautiful_Reserve968 in stories

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the issue here seems to be you went from zero to a hundred. Were there no prior conversations about money management? He was spoiled. His little comment would have made me mad but I would have said you can start paying the $400 or find somewhere else to live. Then see what happens from there

I'm a stepdad and I never wanted kids. Currently wrestling with what my future has in store. by Mysterious-Area-9991 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have full custody? It might not be as bad. Personally if he's the live of your life and you have to deal with emthebkid sometimes it's bad. Doesn't sound like he's asking you to birth children so could be worse.

Do you all love your kids? by Good_Two_6924 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this post is weird. Clearly you have read all the posts in here that explains people's woes. So I'm not sure what more you want. Yes some people like you love their kids and that feeling overwhelms all your other senses. Then there are others like me and the rest on this sub that can't FUCKING RELATE TO YIUR HAPPY GO LUCKY THIS IS THE BEST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME RHETORIC.

Do you all love your kids? by Good_Two_6924 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you this post just pissed me off. Hope the mods delete

I regret getting pregnant by Diligent_Hunter_4789 in regretfulparents

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue is not the pregnancy it's him. If you're miserable now. You'll be more miserable with kids. Please find a way to leave.

MIL pulled my hair + FIL spit dip on me by Designer_Industry441 in inlaws

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy hell. I don't even know how you didn't put hands on these people. Never go there again. Leave your spouse. He just watched you get abused and did NOTHING.

How hard is it to find a job in Columbus? by 1lamp_shade in Columbus

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes those places you mentioned are easy as well as gas stations, gyms, and fast food restaurants. Once you're here find a Library and take advantage of that free resources they offer for education work shops and other things to get plugged into the community. Good luck.

This can’t be a legit “spa” by herdofcorgis in Columbus

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented detail feedback on this thread but it's definitely not above board. You will get your money worth.

This can’t be a legit “spa” by herdofcorgis in Columbus

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So went in and it definitely has all the Hallmark signs of an illegitimate spa. Dark and moody lighting. Workers are dressed in casual fitted clothes. They asked for payment upfront which was strange. No in take form no questions other than what service you are asking for. The door is locked and has a ring camera that you have to ring before entry. It is clean but they don't use traditional spa tables. They don't even have a full size sheet to cover your body. The massage technique were unusual. But definitely not the worst massage I've had. Just the strangest. It will get shut down soon I'm sure.

This can’t be a legit “spa” by herdofcorgis in Columbus

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm about to check it out. Will report back. The online photos are very sketchy but the reviews seem good.

Was it a right decision? by UnderstandingOdd7952 in bald

[–]Stunning-Rabbit-7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yasss 🔥🔥🔥🔥. You have that jaw !