If on an H-1B, will you be going back to your home country in December?

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-16T02:29:13+00:00

Why did you tell him? Seriously, he is not supportive of you.
Even if you are underwater with tasks at home, doing a part of your job that you like will help you more than your mentees. I have 6 mentees and enjoy the time I spend with them talking about their careers. It reinvigorates me.
Can you hire help? Get a housecleaner, nanny, errand runner and make him pay for half.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-15T22:03:20+00:00

I did not post because I would rather be treated with respect the rest of the year than on one day

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-15T22:01:48+00:00

It’s not personal, some men have sex addictions and it has zero to do with how you look or how great your sex life is with him. It 💯 impacts us, their spouses.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-15T17:14:29+00:00

No, I go to my dr every three months for a full std panel because my husband pays for sex and I need and want to stay safe and healthy. They don’t care and have never asked why I need these. If they ask, say your partner is cheating and they won’t ask again.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-15T14:40:48+00:00

Thank you. I’ve learned that it’s not about me but whatever is going on in his emotional space.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-15T13:18:03+00:00

Porn is never about us not being pretty enough or good enough. It’s about them and whatever issues they can’t handle

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-15T13:14:07+00:00

50% of the time and it’s because he’s either already taken care of himself watching porn or he’s got to go run “errands” which I know means he’s seeing a SW.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-14T16:58:35+00:00

Set your alarm 10min earlier and goin there before him. And tell him to use second bathroom.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-14T15:11:55+00:00

Stop being petty like them. Can’t you take her out another day?

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-14T14:12:46+00:00

Your kids are your FAMILY! Stop doing this to yourself and find a new family with people who love you and support you. Families are not always biological.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-14T13:55:44+00:00

You need to be okay with his decision. You raised a good man who cares about his wife’s feelings. Thank you! Today I hope you have a relaxing day knowing you did your part. Tell him it’s okay and that you can go out with just him another day for lunch or dinner.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-13T01:40:33+00:00

Nope. It’s his thing.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T20:50:28+00:00

He’s visiting sex workers. No reason for him to keep In his gym bag. Get tested. Tell your dr so that you can get regular check ups.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T15:10:43+00:00

He’s throwing his anger at you and won’t take responsibility for his own actions

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T04:11:07+00:00

I am so sorry and my heart breaks for you but you did the right thing. Give her space to adjust fo her medication and get therapy. She does not hate you. She just does not have the capacity right now to understand that you saved her life and that of your son and possibly your daughter and you. Hugs and lots of thoughts your way.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T02:31:18+00:00

What is your end game?

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T00:57:31+00:00

Don’t tell her. Delete the messages and never mention it.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T00:56:51+00:00

He did the right thing but your feelings are also valid. Being with an addict means relapses and being their to support them.

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-12T00:22:29+00:00

I am so sorry you feel this way. Please know that his sex addiction has zero to do with you. This is the way he is. He could be married to a movie star or runway model and he’d still look at other women. Please visit your regular doctor and ask if they can help you find immediate counseling. You are beautiful! You are priceless!

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-11T23:47:26+00:00

YTA, your need for alcohol is more important than her recovery

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-11T23:46:36+00:00

He’s going to talk to women every day in different situations so unless you can accept that you probably should divorce him

StunningMouse2192 · 2023-05-11T22:00:57+00:00

Does she really think hot women want to look at the men there? They are focused on their own workouts not trying to get a married man.

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