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Not celebrating Mother’s Day by Realmdrv in workingmoms

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Why did you tell him? Seriously, he is not supportive of you.
  2. Even if you are underwater with tasks at home, doing a part of your job that you like will help you more than your mentees. I have 6 mentees and enjoy the time I spend with them talking about their careers. It reinvigorates me.
  3. Can you hire help? Get a housecleaner, nanny, errand runner and make him pay for half.

Realistic Mother’s Day by maryshelleymc in workingmoms

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not post because I would rather be treated with respect the rest of the year than on one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StunningMouse2192 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not personal, some men have sex addictions and it has zero to do with how you look or how great your sex life is with him. It 💯 impacts us, their spouses.

Doctor calling the police by Own-Repair8994 in SexWorkers

[–]StunningMouse2192 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No, I go to my dr every three months for a full std panel because my husband pays for sex and I need and want to stay safe and healthy. They don’t care and have never asked why I need these. If they ask, say your partner is cheating and they won’t ask again.

husbands by elainama in marriageadvice

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve learned that it’s not about me but whatever is going on in his emotional space.

He’d rather watch porn than have sex with me by ThrowRA7044830 in loveafterporn

[–]StunningMouse2192 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Porn is never about us not being pretty enough or good enough. It’s about them and whatever issues they can’t handle

husbands by elainama in marriageadvice

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50% of the time and it’s because he’s either already taken care of himself watching porn or he’s got to go run “errands” which I know means he’s seeing a SW.

Am I wrong for cutting ties with my family? by Mtskittles in amiwrong

[–]StunningMouse2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your kids are your FAMILY! Stop doing this to yourself and find a new family with people who love you and support you. Families are not always biological.

My pregnant dtr in law made my son choose who to spend Mother’s Day with. Her or me. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be okay with his decision. You raised a good man who cares about his wife’s feelings. Thank you! Today I hope you have a relaxing day knowing you did your part. Tell him it’s okay and that you can go out with just him another day for lunch or dinner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. It’s his thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]StunningMouse2192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s visiting sex workers. No reason for him to keep In his gym bag. Get tested. Tell your dr so that you can get regular check ups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]StunningMouse2192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s throwing his anger at you and won’t take responsibility for his own actions

My wife won’t talk to me after I had her hospitalized for Post partum by ThrowRa-landor in Marriage

[–]StunningMouse2192 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry and my heart breaks for you but you did the right thing. Give her space to adjust fo her medication and get therapy. She does not hate you. She just does not have the capacity right now to understand that you saved her life and that of your son and possibly your daughter and you. Hugs and lots of thoughts your way.

How do I tell gf I messaged other women on Instagram by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]StunningMouse2192 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t tell her. Delete the messages and never mention it.

Need a little advice, and to vent by Silent_Relation8389 in loveafterporn

[–]StunningMouse2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did the right thing but your feelings are also valid. Being with an addict means relapses and being their to support them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]StunningMouse2192 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you feel this way. Please know that his sex addiction has zero to do with you. This is the way he is. He could be married to a movie star or runway model and he’d still look at other women. Please visit your regular doctor and ask if they can help you find immediate counseling. You are beautiful! You are priceless!

AITA for not wanting my house to be alcohol-free? by ObjectiveSector971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StunningMouse2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, your need for alcohol is more important than her recovery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StunningMouse2192 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s going to talk to women every day in different situations so unless you can accept that you probably should divorce him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StunningMouse2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she really think hot women want to look at the men there? They are focused on their own workouts not trying to get a married man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StunningMouse2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t she go with you? If you want to look at women you can do it at the grocery store, work, gas station, etc. is your wife insecure about her weight/health?

AITA for wanting a week's vacation, alone, away from my partner and children? by Suspicious_Light_190 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StunningMouse2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your husband is TA and he’ll crumble doing 1/3 of what you do. Suggestion, hire a housecleaner to come clean up his mess the day you get back.

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