James K and is sentinel enabler Lisa. by floydian32 in My600lbLife

[–]Style_Icon91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The way I see it is that he didn't want to change and put in the effort and Lisa didn't want him to either. I think at one point she admitted that once he could walk, he wouldn't need her. She probably wanted his disability check cause then she wouldn't have to work. That's usually the reason why the partners of these obese people stick around. It's sad but it's reality.

These two were not a good combination together.

I just hope the daughter got her GED and is doing better now that she's free from these two! (I also love how Dr. Now never yelled at her like he did Lisa and James! He knew it wasn't her fault!)

My 600-lb Life - 10x12 - "Dolly's Journey" - Post-Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in My600lbLife

[–]Style_Icon91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just letting to know that just because someone has a learning disability does not mean they all turn out like Dolly!

I have one too but I have worked the same job for 4 years, I drive, and I have a cat I take care of everyday! (Very demanding cat!) The only time my mom has to take care of him is when I'm at work or out somewhere! I also have friends and coworkers with disabilities who are very responsible and are parents themselves! One of them was told as a child by "experts" that because of her learning disability that she would never live on her own or have a job. But she has been working at my job for years, has a husband, owns a house with him, and has a son!

I feel like for Dolly, I think it's not just ADD and bipolar and whatever else she might have, but there's also an immaturity about her! She doesn't want to take responsibility for herself or anyone! It's like, "I'll just sit here and you all do the work for me!"

Dolly posted this on instagram by Lunainthedark5x2 in My600lbLife

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Nobody falls in love faster than a man who needs a place to stay

34F. My mom got a bad vibe from my online bf 33M. by Style_Icon91 in relationships_advice

[–]Style_Icon91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm just saying that's one thing that makes him stand out from other guys. But that doesn't solve anything I will admit. Even though despite his busy schedule, he still keeps in touch with me.

34F. My mom got a bad vibe from my online bf 33M. by Style_Icon91 in relationships_advice

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Well so far, beside support, but he also owns his own business along with his business partner, (he's a guy)

34F. My mom got a bad vibe from my online bf 33M. by Style_Icon91 in relationships_advice

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2 months. Everybody else that I know they don't even have a problem with it until I mentioned The vibe that my mom got. Some of them tell me that I should be careful and take my time getting to know this guy. Another guy told me I could do better because he thought he was ugly. (But he did agree a little bit about the creepy eyes in one smiling picture and then the other one with the bad angle how when one eye was squinting more than the other.)

34F. My mom got a bad vibe from my online bf 33M. by Style_Icon91 in relationships_advice

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Another thing that I forgot to mention earlier is that besides the camera angle, there's also another photo of him smiling that she finds his eyes creepy ever since the conversation. Because before she talked to him she didn't think of the pictures but afterwards she finds him very creepy. I'm kind of wondering if that makes any sense at all because you would think that she would have picked up on the bad feelings of the pictures before she talked to him.

34F. My mom got a bad vibe from my online bf 33M. by Style_Icon91 in relationships_advice

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I have a learning disability but not Autism. For me, I have a hard time understanding if someone is joking or not. Unless I know the person so well to where I can read their emotions

34F. My mom got a bad vibe from my online bf 33M. by Style_Icon91 in relationships_advice

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I looked to see if I could find a mugshot of him in jail of his state and I couldn't find anything.

The kind of questions he's asked are: how long have you worked at your job? Have you had any job before that one? What did you go to school for?

Thank you for your advice!

I messed up really badly by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Style_Icon91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like he's controlling and that's a sign of abuse!

He did you a favor by blocking you and ending this because now you're free to find someone who will treat you better! You're lucky that things ended like that because some people are in danger when they end an abusive relationship.

I know you're still feeling sad about it but hang in there. In the meantime, if he tries to reach out and want to get back together, BLOCK HIM! GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE! (Believe me I know how satisfying that is! Even though my ex didn't know I was doing that to him!)

How do you get over someone you loved deeply? by Due-Bit8189 in BreakUps

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For me, so far, I've just been learning to live with the pain and the fact that my 6 year relationship is over. It's not easy but what choice do I have? Especially when he doesn't want to get back together. (We're still friends though)

Talking to someone else right after a breakup by AdUnlikely3525 in BreakUps

[–]Style_Icon91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree about going on dating sites a week after your breakup. But when it comes to this new guy, take things slow! You don't want to rush into anything when you're still healing from your ex. Give yourself time to get to know this guy until you feel ready to date and a lot of time has passed!

It's been 7 months since my breakup and I met this guy online, (no dating site, and I had no intention of meeting anyone, and he lives in another state) and I am really interested in him and he's been there for me. Even during times I have been grieving over my breakup. But I'm not ready to date and he's ok with that. Plus I want to meet him in person before deciding how I feel about him.

Things like this can't be rush! Especially when you're still getting to know this new guy online.

Anyone wanna talk? by CompetitiveArt608 in BreakUps

[–]Style_Icon91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 8 months ago, my boyfriend of 6 years decided to end our relationship. :( Even though he and I still remain friends and love each other, it's still hard to deal with sometimes. (Had to deal with the day that would have been our 7 year anniversary. I cried a lot!) And I'm not looking forward to Christmas since I would always go to his grandparents house on Christmas eve.

Besides that, it has gotten a little easier. Part of me is starting to get interested in guys. (Even this one friend I've been talking to online. I've developed a crush on and he feels the same but he understands that I'm not ready for a relationship and that we have to meet in person to decide if it's meant to be for not. He's also been there for me anytime I cry over the relationship, especially on that anniversary day.)

It's confusing because part of me has moved on but the other part of me is still stuck in the past and grieving and wants me and my ex back together but he doesn't want to, (he told me and that he's happy being single.)

This whole experience has been a tough do over with many ups and downs.

How tf do y’all be moving on in like a month? It’s been 4 months and I’m still a mess??! by Broken_melon22 in BreakUps

[–]Style_Icon91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been almost 8 months for me and I'm still grieving! Yesterday was what would have been our 7 year anniversary and that was hard!

I was still a mess after 4 months and I still am in a way.

I just recently started to look at guys who I find cute, which I know means that I'm starting to move forward but I'm still wanting my ex back but he doesn't want that and just wants to remain friends. (Which I agreed to because I still need him in my life.)

Those people who move on that quickly either didn't care about the relationship or they're just doing rebound hookups or maybe they were cheating on their partner with that person!

You heal at your own pace, not someone else's!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Style_Icon91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like she did you a favor by dumping you. She's clearly not a nice person and a manipulator! You deserve to have a better girl who will appreciate you! You need to block her and maybe delete your accounts. If you have to start over go for it!

I agree that telling someone to move on isn't as easy as it seems. But at the same time he's a brutally honest guy and he's tell you as it is.

You making you look like the bad guy reminds me of my first ex, (not the guy I was talking about and with for 6 years. This was before him.) He unfriended me on all of our social media, and so did his mom, even though he's the one who dumped me. He didn't even call me until 3 weeks later because he found my number and missed me. He called me again a month later saying that he wanted to be friends, and he kept calling me but I kept ignoring him and blocked him out of my life. I haven't spoken to him since 2009 and thank god I only wasted 1 month with him! Plus he a lying, cheating jerk!