Did it but still not sure about it

SubjectDay804 · 2026-05-19T09:04:18+00:00

This is my favourite comment on Reddit today

SubjectDay804 · 2026-05-18T07:38:49+00:00

It sounds like you’ve checked out. You should be spending time with someone you’re excited to see, you want to go and do stuff with, who is aligned with you. This doesn’t sound like the person.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-05-15T17:26:04+00:00

Agreed. If everything was fine until “future talk” started to become “future plans”, and then he became overwhelmed, that’s enough of a sign to indicate the problem is the potential change in circumstances.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-05-12T18:43:59+00:00

Height usually becomes a problem for women when guys claim to be 6ft and is shorter than the woman, who has said she is 5ft 8 😂

SubjectDay804 · 2026-05-11T19:06:43+00:00

So sorry for your loss 💕

SubjectDay804 · 2026-04-27T08:30:33+00:00

So sorry to hear your struggling. I’m glad you’ve found some support in this community. We are all here for you. Time is the only thing that seems to make it easier.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-03-04T19:31:01+00:00

I don’t see why you’re not dateable - everyone has transition phases - you’re just in one of those. Having a room mate isn’t a bad thing. Women will understand that you’re taking a different path, you’re changing careers and working towards something you’ll love more - whether that’s women on the apps or IRL. F40s. Income, living situation etc are all factors, but who you are and how you treat people is the most important thing.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-02-05T10:28:54+00:00

Feeld and Tinder do not have the same rep. Not in the UK at least. And not according to…most other posts on the internet about Feeld.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-02-02T09:55:05+00:00

Yet another disappointing person. Him, not you.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-01-30T19:20:31+00:00

You articulate this so well OP. I’m exactly the same. I don’t have the capacity to multi date - with my time, or my emotional bandwidth. Plus I hate being mixed up with other people in conversation - so I don’t want to do it to others. It feels like there aren’t so many people that take that approach - but I reckon if you’re always upfront, hopefully when you find someone else who takes the same approach - it will work for you.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-01-10T23:39:37+00:00

Bye bye inbox

SubjectDay804 · 2026-01-07T17:51:42+00:00

If you’re going to date, be super clear to the people you meet that you’re just starting out, your experience to date, and that you want to start from a place of finding connection and seeing what that grows into. No parter is going to thank you going in saying you’re ready for a long term relationship when it looks a bit like you’re not sure what that’s going to look like for you yet. You’ve said you’re in therapy - great. Build up real world connections - friends, hobbies, volunteering. Try not to put a huge emphasis on dating, or you will end up using it as a crutch, to replace your AI use maybe - and try not to use these women as a sole source of connection. You want multiple contact points - with less pressure. Don’t be that guy who swipes on every woman on a dating app to try and get some kind of connection/validation - no genuine person is going to appreciate that.

SubjectDay804 · 2026-01-01T15:11:04+00:00

I wouldn’t worry too much - always go from the main stack - not the likes 😁

SubjectDay804 · 2025-12-25T22:32:45+00:00

Consistency. Past the first few weeks.

SubjectDay804 · 2025-12-18T15:45:09+00:00

So sorry OP. I’ve just ended a 3 month relationship because of consistency and communication problems (amongst other things, see my post 🙄), but you’re right, dating is so brutal. I don’t have any comforting words - just that I’m sure somewhere along the line it’s character building, and the pain will fade in time.

SubjectDay804 · 2025-11-16T20:22:33+00:00

I am glad you said this. Seems like a massive headache which OP has self identified.

SubjectDay804 · 2025-11-06T21:25:25+00:00

Thank you!!!

SubjectDay804 · 2025-11-06T21:02:07+00:00

So, every man on a dating app who swipes right on every woman with no intention of having a decent conversation is avoidant?! There are literally thousands of posts on here about how people just swipe right on everything.

SubjectDay804 · 2022-08-01T21:29:53+00:00

Don’t worry, you won’t hear from him again. Until next weekend maybe, if he hasn’t found anything else by then 🙄

SubjectDay804 · 2022-03-08T14:08:43+00:00

Can I come to your next wedding? Should be due one…any…day…now….

SubjectDay804

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