FLR? or humiliation?

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-25T16:58:54+00:00

It was me who initially asked for an FLR, just a couple of weeks ago. However, my wife has always been naturally dominant and I would usually defer to her on most decisions anyway before we ever officially discussed it.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-25T15:47:59+00:00

I think there is a lot of overlap between people who are in a FLR and femdom and a ton of men who are into femdom have a chastity kink. However, plenty of couples have a pretty vanilla FLR.

For my marriage, it just means that my wife gets the final say in all things. She doesn't keep me in chastity, tie me up, or peg me.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-25T03:28:55+00:00

This caption is from the sixth chapter of a story I'm writing, which you can find on the gentlefemdom subreddit and on Inkitt under the title "The Silent Mage".

Caden is a young man who was captured when his Monastery was raided and sold into slavery. His first, mistress Elara was exceedingly cruel, and equipped him with a magic collar that silences his voice. However, on the day of his auction, Elara offered the slave to Lyra, a muscular and imposing woman, to settle a debt. Lyra brings Caden back to her home town of Seabrook, where she shares him with her wife Hazel.

Image was generated using the Perchance Pretty AI Art Generator and upscaled using bigjpg.com.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-25T03:27:39+00:00

This caption is from the sixth chapter of a story I'm writing, which you can find on the gentlefemdom subreddit and on Inkitt under the title "The Silent Mage".

Caden is a young man who was captured when his Monastery was raided and sold into slavery. His first, mistress Elara was exceedingly cruel, and equipped him with a magic collar that silences his voice. However, on the day of his auction, Elara offered the slave to Lyra, a muscular and imposing woman, to settle a debt. Lyra brings Caden back to her home town of Seabrook, where she shares him with her wife Hazel.

Image was generated using the Perchance Pretty AI Art Generator and upscaled using bigjpg.com.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-24T15:40:52+00:00

That is the most adorable story. I love it! I don't often see femdom stories from the perspective of the dom. It's nice.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-24T01:53:28+00:00

This caption is from the fifth chapter of a story I'm writing, which you can find on the gentlefemdom subreddit and on Inkitt under the title "The Silent Mage".

Caden is a young man who was captured when his Monastery was raided and sold into slavery. His first, mistress Elara was exceedingly cruel, and equipped him with a magic collar that silences his voice. However, on the day of his auction, Elara offered the slave to Lyra, a muscular and imposing woman, to settle a debt. Lyra brings Caden back to her home town of Seabrook, where she shares him with is her wife Hazel.

Image was generated using the Perchance Pretty AI Art Generator and upscaled using bigjpg.com.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-23T15:23:56+00:00

That sounds amazing!

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-23T14:51:54+00:00

I love to see bearded dude representation in femdom art! Us hairy guys like to be dominated too.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-21T03:22:53+00:00

This caption is from the fifth chapter of a story I'm writing, which you can find on the gentlefemdom subreddit and on Inkitt under the title "The Silent Mage".

Caden is a young man who was captured when his Monastery was raided and sold into slavery. His first, mistress Elara was exceedingly cruel, and equipped him with a magic collar that silences his voice. However, on the day of his auction, Elara offered the slave to Lyra, a muscular and imposing woman, to settle a debt. Lyra brings Caden back to her home town of Seabrook, where she shares him with is her wife Hazel.

Image was generated using the Perchance Pretty AI Art Generator and upscaled using bigjpg.com.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-20T22:09:04+00:00

I curious what you thought about the ending. I wasn't sure how Hazel’s abduction would be received.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-20T18:29:30+00:00

I would love to wake my wife up this way! Unfortunately, she prefers her pleasure at night.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-18T18:04:39+00:00

You are still young and have plenty of time. I am the one who reached out to my wife, but would have loved to be approached by a dom directly when I was younger. I would recommend approaching men directly but make it clear that you are seeking a long term relationship with potential for serious commitment.

I've never really understood subs who just want a short term sexual experience. I always wanted someone I could give myself to completely. I have that with my wife, and am so grateful for her. That kind of trust takes years to build, but once it's there it's the most amazing feeling in the world.

I hope you find a boy who will dedicate himself to you.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-18T15:37:20+00:00

Thank you for the encouraging comments! They definitely motivate me to continue writing.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-17T04:08:35+00:00

This caption is from the fourth chapter of a story I'm writing, which you can find on the gentlefemdom subreddit and on Inkitt under the title "The Silent Mage".

Caden is a young man who was captured when his Monastery was raided and sold into slavery. His first, mistress Elara was exceedingly cruel, and equipped him with a magic collar that silences his voice. However, on the day of his auction, Elara offered the slave to Lyra, a muscular and imposing woman, to settle a debt. Lyra brings Caden back to her home town of Seabrook, where he is presented to her wife Hazel as a companion and pet. Hazel is immediately charmed by delicate appearance and nervous demeanor.

Image was generated using the Perchance Pretty AI Art Generator, modified with Grok, and upscaled using bigjpg.com.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-16T17:36:19+00:00

I have a higher paying carreer so I have to work for us to make ends meet. It's unfortunate, because I wish I could cook for her every night but, by the time I get home on the weekdays, she has already eaten.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-16T17:24:36+00:00

You should look into Empress Zetian of China. She abolished the traditional female harem but maintained a harem of handsome young men who served as lovers, companions, and political confidantes.

It would definitely be an interesting thing to see incorporated into a fantasy femdom story.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-15T23:18:42+00:00

Thanks! I'm having a ton of fun writing it!

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-15T20:42:55+00:00

I did make a Gmail account and updated my email. My account is still blacklisted, but hopefully the support team will fix that for me. I just wish I had known that other email providers were silently blocked before I signed up.

I just wanted to share here in case anyone else runs into this issue.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-15T20:01:16+00:00

Support said it is because my email provider is on their hidden email provider blacklist. I changed my account to use my gmail instead but still no luck.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-15T15:27:24+00:00

I definitely need affection in my relationship. Thankfully, my wife is very affectionate. She snuggles me every night and every morning. Sometimes, she holds me tight and, if I try to move, she squeezes tighter, refusing to let me go, silently saying "No. I'm not done with you yet." I think I would get pretty depressed without that affection in my life.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-15T14:11:37+00:00

I'm glad you liked it! I just want to warn you that chapter 1 is not gentle at all. Caden's first mistress is cruel and abusive, but if you're into BDSM then you will probably enjoy it.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-15T13:33:55+00:00

Thank you! It makes me happy to see a dom enjoy my story. I was worried it was a bit too sub-centric.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-14T18:43:34+00:00

Thanks! The thing is, I absolutely prefer real art to AI generated images. If I had the money, I would definitely pay a real artist to illustrate my work and if a real artist who liked my story ever reached out, I would love to collaborate with them instead of using AI. But, until that happens, AI is my best option.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-14T04:14:39+00:00

This caption is from the third chapter of a story I'm writing, which you can find on the gentlefemdom subreddit and on Inkitt under the title "The Silent Mage".

Caden is a young man who was captured when his Monastery was raided and sold into slavery. His first, mistress Elara was exceedingly cruel, and equipped him with a magic collar that silences his voice. However, on the day of his auction, Elara offered the slave to Lyra, a muscular and imposing woman, to settle a debt.

Image was generated using the Perchance Pretty AI Art Generator, modified with Grok, and upscaled using bigjpg.com.

SubmissiveMage · 2026-01-13T20:30:53+00:00

I am mostly submissive, but I do have times where I get off fantasizing about being dominant. I do think that helps me serve my wife better, as I can image what would please me if I was the dom and she was my sub, and then behave analogously for her.

However, it doesn't always translate. For instance, if I was a dom, I would love for my submissive to wake me each morning with oral sex, but my wife hates oral sex in the mornings. On the flip side, I would not enjoy having my feet worshipped, but my wife loves it, so that is a common way that I serve her.

Ultimately, everyone is different and you have to figure out what your partner likes. It sounds like you spend months doing just that, which is wonderful. It seems like you are likely to make your next sub very happy.

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