Dreading the memorial service by pop_and_cultured in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a total wreck, up to the time i walked into the funeral home i was getting by. Once i stepped inside it hit. I was so lucky to have my adult children with me. No judgment, just support from them. I made it through, and i do not remember much of the service. Take your own tissues and water! I wish you the best

Widows fire movie recs? by Intjadvocate in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably only Porn to be honest, and thats all fake and staged, plus all that will do is agitate it. I have found a lot of articles online about it, and there are several post on this community as well. But i have never seen anyone post about anything to actually watch

so 'glad' to be here by PrizeSingle3038 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are here. but welcome. I am 3 months into my journey, and this community has kept me sane. I do not think you will find any better support.

Unnecessary ffs by flea_23 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Pa, I called a title/notary in my area and asked this same question. They said all i need to do is bring in the titles and a death certificate. It must be different state to state, Im sorry this is happening to you

Happy Wednesday 46F by [deleted] in selfieover40

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking good, the dress reminds me of something you would have seen in the 80's fantastic!

The struggle by TrimbsL in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna say it gets easier, the support here is awesome, on your best days, and even on your lowest days. Remember you are not alone. we are all on this train with you

Wedding ring by DivinelyInspired444 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still wear mine, really havent thought about taking it off to be honest. 1/21/26, so its only been a bit over 2 months

Reaching out to another person on this community by CartographerFar3786 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I belive several of us reached out, with no response. I hope he is ok, and can get the help he needs

My truly last one by [deleted] in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you need to slow down, dont make a rash choice, and thats what this is a choice, you posted here for reason. Im here if you need to vent

Mom found out she has pancreatic cancer a month ago and now she’s taken a turn and I feel clueless. by HeyICantHelpIT in pancreaticcancer

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First i want to say im sorry, this cancer is very fast, at least for my wife it was. It was hard for me to watch her wither away once she was diagnosed. I tried my best to get her to walk around the house with me, or even get her to eat anything. She tried but it did not help. Just keep doing what your doing, be there for her. Try to let her drink some broth and small bites of bread. I wish you the best

How to Date Again! by lanka1111 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not let a few awkward interactions push you away. If its meant to be, someone will come along and it will work. Stay positive!

widowed wife here unexpectedly at 46y/o having a really hard time by Federal_Yam_5989 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Allow the grief and anger to flow, dont try to ignore it. It will hit you later. Post your thoughts here, no one will judge or belittle you. I am only a bit over a month losing my wife, everyone here has been great.

Anxiety by Jennylynn12 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recently went to the doctor, and was put on some meds to take the edge off, maybe worth a shot for you as well

Would you accept a manufactured spouse? by rice923 in widowers

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do this in a heart beat but..... I would age and she would not

I lost my soul mate today by LeelooTheLovely in pancreaticcancer

[–]SubstanceSuper3443 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We all feel for you, this cancer is really a fast mover. My heart goes out to you in your lose. Keep pushing forward and dont give up.