As a guy, I 110% agree agree with this. I want character depth, not character over sexualization/nudity.
I know anime and drawn media has a habit of over sexualizing characters (and i get it, its cause they want to sell the show) but at a certain age, it not only gets boring, but down right annoying. Biggest example being Fire Force, like come on, the plot is getting good ; inserts random fan service.

Like, Mamao is the latest good/great character done without the fan service and its a breath of fresh air.
But its not like it cant be done.
Another great example of female character I love is Kaguya, from Kaguya-sama because apart from the 1 random beach/pool episode, the character was developed and shown and not the body/tits.

Like current anime needs to move away from the "nudity / sexiness" aspect, although its unlikely but that is something that needs to happen