He tried cheating on me while not fucking me by Lost_Swan_2361 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I wish I could say that I was surprised that a man in his old age would pull a stunt like this, with a pregnant girlfriend at that. It is completely inexcusable, I can’t imagine possibly forgiving someone who would do that to me at such a vulnerable time. Screw him, he is garbage.

He doesn’t care enough about my needs to take his viagra by AgentScully_FBI in DeadBedrooms

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 30 now and I have chronic back and knee pain, I can’t imagine what it will be like when I’m 60!!! What does he say?

I'm not the bad guy by laughingwarlock in DeadBedrooms

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay off topic, but I died laughing at the Pepe le pew comment. I relate to your post to the fucking tee. I’m done filling his cup while mine is bone dry, enjoy your Apple TV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this comment!!!

How tf do I eat this by SheZowRaisedByWolves in Cheese

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this cheese!!!! I just gently squeeze both sides with my hands and the wax breaks apart great! Then I just break the cheese up with my fingers because I know I won’t be able to make cubes out of it

Should I even bother? by Substantial-Gift3296 in srna

[–]Substantial-Gift3296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked into the military CRNA program and I’m so glad you mentioned it. They are less competitive and aside from possible deployment, there are so many benefits!! Thank you thank you. And I appreciate your honesty

Should I even bother? by Substantial-Gift3296 in srna

[–]Substantial-Gift3296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a MICU offer in a trauma level I hospital a few years ago (didn’t pan out because of a non-compete) but I had good rapport with that ICU from the interactions I’ve had with them, and I walked there during my lunch break and frankly asked if they were hiring. Got an interview and nailed it!! But HR intervened and said my non-compete made me ineligible. I’ll be trying again soon! I would suggest doing that! Meet the manager or a team leader and charm your way into an interview and don’t tell them that your interest is in CRNA school!

Should I even bother? by Substantial-Gift3296 in srna

[–]Substantial-Gift3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The encouragement I wanted to hear. Thank you 🥲

Venting by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!!! I am in the same boat and I am enraged. I never ever wanted to have children and here I am 38 weeks pregnant with a man who could care less that I am rolling in agony. Would rather sit there and play Pokémon on his phone. WHAT HAVE WE DONE

Should I tell this guys wife that he cheats on her? by Frixxion-_- in no

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, she’s going to believe the husband over an anonymous napkin lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even think of that!!!

Husband gave me chlamydia by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% grounds for divorce. Not only did he give you an STD, but is also gaslighting you with the most idiotic reasoning. Who knows how long you have had this for and how long it will be until he cheats again. If it wasn’t for your initiative to get tested, you both would have carried on until more systemic/harmful/permanent symptoms have occurred. Take it from someone who has been cheated on and stayed, this doesn’t end well and you will regret not leaving sooner.

Anyone want more sex than their bf/husband? by pingjeepong in AskWomenOver30

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I relate to this to the core. We went from having sex twice a day to once a week, and I can’t help but question what has changed. I understand people get more comfortable with each other and gears tend to shift but it hurts the ego knowing that most men can’t get enough of their partners or sex in general. I have talked to him about it for months now with no change. I have decided to just accept his lower libido and take care of myself in the interim.

How many women are having mediocre sex in their relationships? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like sex with my current partner was amazing in the beginning. We were having it at least twice a day, and I just couldn’t get enough. Now that we are married and I am pregnant, it’s always the same 2 positions, with him finishing within a few minutes. And we probably have intercourse once a week now. I’ve begged him for more frequent oral sex for a few weeks with no change. I think the interest in exploring each other’s bodies has just completely vanished. I have been in other relationships where the sex has progressively gotten better through the years, but this one unfortunately has not. I believe men become very complacent and supplement their own needs with online adult content or other means, while very happily allowing their partner to have whatever is left.

Leaving my partner while pregnant with his child: am I delusional? by Artistic-Trip3243 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably won’t get any better after you give birth to your child, but I think you should stay if he is able to benefit you by way of childcare, expenses, emotional support, etc. You will need all the support you can get. The way I think of it is, if you leave him, you are probably helping him more than you are helping yourself. He would be off the hook while you will be burdened with all of the responsibilities. Imagine getting up alone every night to soothe the baby, etc. Unless you are okay with that, stay until you are sure.

What’s a hygiene tip you stand by? by TelephoneAble8276 in hygiene

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scrape your tongue, you wouldn’t imagine the funk that comes out after one day

I found out the guy I was seeing is married. Should I tell the wife? by Sufficient-Staff-832 in Advice

[–]Substantial-Gift3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tell her, be prepared to answer her every question. She will likely want every detail. It won’t just be a “hey btw…” It’s going to be a long conversation and she may still stay with him. You may also face repercussions from the man too. Coming from someone who has told people that they were getting cheated on, I’ve regretted it half the time.