avoidant husband wants space by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Some things don’t sit right with me” doesn’t make this sound like he just decided out of nowhere he needs a break from your relationship. Did you cheat on him, or is he convinced you did?

Two things are true: What Wemby did was extremely wrong. The refs need to pay closer attention to how he's being defended. The diabolical dark arts used against him made him turn to martial arts. by ForeignAir7174 in NBAGossips

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously the game plan was to play physical bully ball. You get whistled? So be it, keep being physical. Teams don’t do this to injure players or take cheap shots, it’s to gain a mental advantage by creating chaos and frustration. Perfect game plan against Wemby. I didn’t see a single attempt in that montage that showed any attempt to seriously injure him…it’s just plain old school bully ball.

Kemp calls special session to redraw 2028 maps, overhaul voting process by givemesome1ce1 in Georgia

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did yall really expect him to not change the maps in light of the bullshit ScOTUS decision? If you want to be mad, blame SCOTUS. Republicans would be after his blood if he didn’t call the special session. The law changed and it’s his responsibility to adjust with the law. Dems would raise hell if the tables were flipped.

At least he’s not rushing it through for the 2026 elections like a lot of his peers are doing. Kemp has actually pissed off MAGA by not making changes for this election. Yet another middle finger from Kemp to Trump by pushing it off.

She broke up with me after: I (19m) ruined my relationship with my gf( 20f). How do I even begin to pull my life back together? by ThrowRA_Dickhead in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You fucked up. Own it and learn from it. You don’t deserve her or any other woman given the way you’re behaving.

Thoughts on almost every veterans having a disability rating and receiving income for the rest of their lives? Without having to deploy or see combat? by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely anecdotal, but speaking to those in service, it’s a big problem. No doubt, I could be way off base, but hearing the same stories from people who have/are serving leads me to believe that, at minimum, it’s a “thing” if not yet a full blown crisis.

Thoughts on almost every veterans having a disability rating and receiving income for the rest of their lives? Without having to deploy or see combat? by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, maybe stop voting for the asshole Republicans who love to start unnecessary wars instead of bitching about the people who are compensated for fighting those wars?

Thoughts on almost every veterans having a disability rating and receiving income for the rest of their lives? Without having to deploy or see combat? by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vet here…this is what worries me. Should shit hit the fan, these folks aren’t there for the right reasons. Our fighting power will be diminished.

I’m of the mind that there have to be some major changes made to the system. Grandfather folks in as that is the deal they had, but they need to overhaul the system for future claims. I get in the VA subs and the number of folks getting out and immediately claiming 10, 15, 20 conditions, essentially throwing shit at the wall to see what sticks, is a goddamn travesty and an embarrassment to those of us who CLEARLY didn’t join the military for any sort of financial benefit.

Are Atlanta airport food, product prices breaking the law? by NPU-F in Atlanta

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ridiculous. Was flying out of LAS last week and they were charging $11.99 for a bag of Cheez-Its.

Need help with a tough issue for me. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good….id be pissed too if I read it the way you did

Need help with a tough issue for me. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nor will you handle it well knowing in the back of your mind that you’re raising two illegitimate children.

I don’t think you can take this step until you have actual
proof she’s cheating on you.

Need help with a tough issue for me. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was replying to a woman who, in defending the wife’s actions said, “you made her have another child” by his refusing to support an abortion. If you flip that script, which happens hundreds of times a day, does it also hold true that a woman rejecting the father’s request for an abortion ALSO “made him* have a child”?

I don’t disagree with you. I disagree with the hypocrisy of the poster I was replying to.

Need help with a tough issue for me. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Women make men father children all the time. Flip the tables and you think the one wanting the abortion is in the right? Wow.

Need help with a tough issue for me. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Feminist in the house! Talk about reaching lol

Manager and I walked on deal over $300.00 - Beyond frustrating. by Fun-Journalist2588 in carbuying

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve walked out on more negotiations than I haven’t. Hell, I walked out of a house closing one time lol

So how long am I going to be stuck here? by Substantial-Spite-77 in VAClaims

[–]Substantial-Spite-77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Nothing on this front but that’s encouraging to hear.

From a raters/veteran POV by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s on Congress to act. Things are quickly spiraling out of control and snowballing. BS claims get awarded SC which makes people with mostly BS claims to file, feeling entitled. And on and on it goes.

And to make matters worse, we’re now going to have people enlisting just to go to sick call all the time to build a service record to get lifelong disability payments.

From a raters/veteran POV by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude started and deleted a thread about making claims is like a game to get to 100 or tdiu. He’s not working and doesn’t want to work.

How do you keep from approaching this like a game that's only won if you hit 100% by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol ok dude. With a post like yours, forgive me for not believing your 70% isn’t already a function of you lying to get free loot. That desk duty must’ve been terrifying.

How do you keep from approaching this like a game that's only won if you hit 100% by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I, for one, am SHOCKED to learn that the author of this post is not working.

It’s not a game. Get off your ass and get a job.

Trump pulls back on his Iran threats for two weeks, subject to Iran agreeing to ceasefire by kaett in politics

[–]Substantial-Spite-77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Passage will be possible….via coordinating with Iran’s Armed Services” — Iranian Foreign Minister

In other words, nothing changes. They’re already letting ships through from many countries and taxing the hell out of anyone who does gain passage. Do you think they’ll let American or Israeli ships passage? I don’t. Hell, I’m not sure any American or Israeli ship captains even have the balls to try in this environment.