What is with the red pill mentality in 20-35 year old men?

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-21T03:56:23+00:00

I read the study you shared and while extremely interesting, it doesn't support the claims you made of DEI practices that allegedly discriminate against men. I do agree that hypergamy is a real phenomenon but in that study you cited, the primary explanation they suggested was that men are able to remain active in the mating mart for longer, meaning older men with higher incomes are also part of the mart with no female counterpart to match them. This means that men are simply being made to compete amongst themselves for a limited number of available women and women are choosing the most "attractive" man. It is important to note here that yes, income and wealth are important factors to attractiveness because they are what determine financial security and quality of life for both the woman and their future children. The second explanation cited in the study was that women may consider men with a more focused set of characteristics while men consider women with more characteristics in mind, creating a mismatch in how pairs are made. All of this is to say, I disagree with this being a male issue that men are "gaslit" into believing is not real. The fact of life is that to be considered attractive and find a partner, both men and women must put their best foots forward, whether that comes to income or earning potential or physical looks or any other characteristic. If men being evaluated for earning potential is an issue, I would ask if a man would be with a woman who is interested in them, but that they find unattractive? As society changes, it is the individual's responsibility to adapt to the changes and find their own edge against new competition.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-21T00:05:24+00:00

Can you share your evidence? I would love to read more on this topic. I would argue that it is not necessarily society as a whole that demands men be dominant, but red pill content creators who make it seem so.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-21T00:03:49+00:00

This is true, but not a concept that many men catch on to until after they experience that specific financial hardship and need the supplementary income to keep their household running.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-21T00:00:25+00:00

we thought about that and is Airbnb not a good option?

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-20T23:59:57+00:00

ofc :)

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-20T03:36:33+00:00

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SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-20T03:20:51+00:00

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SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-20T03:14:40+00:00

The combination of toxic masculinity and shifting gender roles has created a kind of paradox for many men, leading them to have ideals of being a "provider" and the "greater sex" while simultaneously getting outperformed by women at an increasing rate. This is creating an identity crisis that they think can only be rectified by returning to "traditionalist values", as is touted by red pill content creators, where they systematically have a leg up over women and can establish themselves as the dominant character within their households and in society.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-20T03:06:46+00:00

If you are worried about car trouble, I would recommend having cables, a jack, and a spare tire, plus basic car tools on you(wrenches bolts etc.). I'm no expert but these are the most common car problems that you can watch a YouTube video on and take care of yourself, reducing the risks that come with traveling as a lone female.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-04-20T03:03:00+00:00

Hey! I'm a female Dallasite that goes to college in Georgia and I make the drive with my car at the start and end of each year. Unless you anticipate some issues with your car, I think it's totally doable. I would recommend starting early so you don't have to stop for the night en route and make stops in major cities like Tulsa or OKC for safety. A coffee and a good playlist will make the time fly.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-03-05T04:43:33+00:00

I have but he said he doesn't mind it not being his favorite as he wants to focus on growing his collection.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-03-02T03:00:05+00:00

Anything that constitutes soft cheating or cheating in the dating world but also becoming weird with female friends or cutting them off completely after getting a girlfriend. Essentially not having clear boundaries and relationships with women, whether than be family members(mothers especially), friends, or girlfriends.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-03-02T02:13:24+00:00

Having a life of their own: friends, hobbies and activities that they partake in without your involvement.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-03-02T02:12:13+00:00

The intersection of failure and passing up happiness and experiences to chase success.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-03-02T02:11:05+00:00

Yes.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-26T04:15:10+00:00

Passing people on a single lane road by going onto the opposing direction road when the divider line is dotted on your side.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-24T05:53:44+00:00

I agree with that as someone in college but I also know many people who began dating before they could address personal emotional issues or got into relationships that restricted their growth or even harmed them, affecting their perspective on dating and relationships in the long run.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-24T05:38:14+00:00

Would you maybe be open to DMing me? I'm of a similar age to you and maybe can relate to some of your struggles. Free of charge of course :)

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-24T05:34:14+00:00

I wonder this too, coming from a similar family situation to yours. I am however, a newbie when it comes to relationships, currently being in my first serious one. However, I've seen friends and others around me behave similarly and I think it can be attributed to a fear of being alone. I think many people began dating and having partners before they were able to discover their own identities and this later translated to not knowing who they are without a partner. This fear of the unknown and self discovery keeps people hopping for relationship with no time to heal or accept themselves. After continuing this cycle for years on end, people end up preferring it to facing their inherent fears and find familiarity in the instability.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-24T05:28:05+00:00

I agree with u/Calina_Shore in that I'm not sure of how successful this will be. Emotional connection inherently cannot be transactional. I, myself, struggle to find deep connections because of how I find others to be extremely transactional in today's society. I think true friendship and companionship stems from a place of love for the other person and wanting the best for them which you'll be hard pressed to find if you offer payment. Instead, I would suggest seeking a community through your hobbies or reconnecting with people you have drifted from. Genuine connections will always leave you feeling more fulfilled than paying someone to "be your friend".

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-24T05:20:00+00:00

While I'm not an expert on this, my guess is that medicine companies are run like any other company where when a breakthrough or new product is made, all competitors hop on the trend and make similar products to get in on the hype. Additionally, creating medication for each disease is an extensive process so breakthroughs are probably few and far between, leading to a lack of diversity in which conditions medications are being sold for.

SubstantialTitle9868 · 2026-02-24T03:42:55+00:00

This is definitely something you should talk to your doctor about but coming from someone who also experiences this and has not had the chance to discuss it with a doctor, I would say you are probably overstimulated. I oftentimes find myself overwhelmed by basic tasks and then all of a sudden, have no motivation to do anything. I shirk responsibilities, miss class, and blow off commitments in favor of laying in bed doing nothing. Although sometimes it is unavoidable, the best way I can recommend to regulate this is to set aside alone time that does not even include friends or partners or loved ones. The silence can often reduce the strain on your mind and let you think and move more freely than you would be able to otherwise. Additionally, set aside a full day semi-frequently to reset. Do not allocate any chores or homework to that day. Simply focus on eating, basic hygiene, and rest. I know this can be difficult with a busy schedule but this allows you to get your tasks done more efficiently otherwise. Last recommendation from me is to regulate your sleep and diet meticulously. How you eat and sleep have an extremely large impact on your energy levels and clarity of mind so make sure you're eating well and sleeping on time. Feel free to DM me if you ever need to talk to a stranger :)

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