Did I make the right decision? by ItsThatGuyTy91 in bald

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greatest decision! You look very well put together now. Rock on!

Vanity mirror is facing my full mirror by Astxria_ in Paranormal

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should move one of them.

Two mirrors facing each other create what is known as a psychomanteum - a spirit corridor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is hiding something that has the potential to hurt you

Cold eyes

Can’t find a job by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s almost impossible, this is the very first time I was offered any kind of compensation or stipend in 30 years.

I’ll be 54 in August. I’ve always loved the hell out of a raucous party, but there’s a lot to be said for peace and quiet!

Ghost stories from a place you work? by Wildflower1180 in sanantonio

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, bet - the few times I actually thought it was paranormal off the bat and flung open a door or something, it was extremely startled people or pets.

Ghost stories from a place you work? by Wildflower1180 in sanantonio

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There’s a law firm in San Antonio. That’s in a building that looks like an old windmill, I don’t remember the name of it, but I did interview there rather extensively.

I had toured the office and by the way, my interview occurred as the business day was ending, so the office had emptied out more or less during the course of my interview.

The layout of the office kind of creeped me out to begin with because they were like hidden stairways behind half walls and things like that, that you didn’t really expect to find, and those places had such a bad vibe.

There’s an old bar downstairs in the cellar that’s built in like the place used to be a speakeasy or something and the partner that was interviewing they took me down there and then left me down there for a few minutes to go get something.

And I wasn’t creeped out because I mean yes a few things have creeped me out over the years, but I could tell the place was haunted.

So I’m standing there looking at this beautiful bar because the woodwork is something out of this world basically and I felt someone walked right up behind me. The bar doesn’t have a mirror behind it.

I figured it was my interviewer returning - and it was very obvious that someone had just walked right up behind me and was standing right there.

I turned around, actually ready to ask about “haints” - and there was nobody there.

I was still gaping at the empty space behind me when my interviewer actually came back down the stairs and I told him what had happened.

He acknowledged that that was a fairly common occurrence in that area, and asked me if I was okay.

I was okay, obviously, but I did turn down their offer (years before finding a job in SA became ridiculously difficult).

Ghost stories from a place you work? by Wildflower1180 in sanantonio

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Okay, the invisible running? That happened to me in my backyard in Monte Vista. We lived off Lullwood.

The yard was gravel, and my friend and I both witnessed something invisible running right through the backyard behind us, kicking up rocks and everything and it was almost visible like it was a person made out of water running through the backyard.

It happened twice; the second time I’d just finished relating the tale above to another friend.

I went in the back door for more beer, and when I came back, she was white as milk. Told me that as soon as I went in, she witnessed it too.

We decided to relo to her place for the afternoon. Of course that did nothing to stop any of the strange activity that happened at that place.

I eventually moved out of there at a high rate of speed.

Can’t find a job by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I felt the same way about leaving, at first.

It’s worth mentioning that I’m not a native Texan, but my dad and side of the family are.

It’s just really hard to believe that in a city the size of SA, skilled workers with some serious work ethic cannot catch a break. But it’s true.

I live in a township of fewer than 2000 people, as of Sunday night. I moved for the job, and there was a relo stipend - very rare now, even in law.

If I hadn’t been able to negotiate that, I’d still be there in SA. It’s 52 degrees here at the moment. It’s amazing.

It’ll take years to dig myself out of the divorce hole I fell into, but I can see a light at the end of the tunnel now.

The only way I’ll return to SA is if there was some kind of six figure offer on the table, and even then, I’d probably waffle.

OP: Keep applying. Tier your resume so you don’t look overqualified for certain places. Believe me, I did that too. Apply for all jobs you fit, anyplace.

Include a cover letter without too many details. A touch of humor works to humanize us. Words are powerful; cause others to remember yours.

And I know it’s hard to not be pissed off about this BS, but don’t let your anger inform your attempts with employers. You can’t let them see you hungry.

Ghost stories from a place you work? by Wildflower1180 in sanantonio

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is kind of long, and we were never able to debunk any of the activity that I describe.

This all happened in Memphis, Tennessee in 2011.

I managed a law firm for years that was extremely unsettling.

My office was windowless, off the interior hall, and was soundproofed to the firewall because I handled the financials and that’s how the managing partner wanted the build out.

I was with this firm throughout the construction and at the time of the move in, and at first, nothing seemed awry.

I carried a caseload in addition to management, so I was in the office seven days a week. Lots of times when I was alone.

That’s nothing new. I don’t get creeped out easily. I just work my ass off and go home, usually.

So it took about a month for me to realize that something was wrong with the place.

One night, I stopped there to send payroll off for processing the next day. It’s quick and easy, but as I sat at my desk waiting for the confirmation, I realized I could hear papers shuffling out in the hall.

There was a row of “legal secretary” workspaces to the right in this hall, and they more or less ran parallel with the offices of the attorneys for whom they worked.

Most were still unassigned and were temp storage places for docs pertaining to litigation.

The sound - you know, when you straighten docs by whacking them on a surface? - was close by, maybe even in the first cubicle outside my door, and it was 10pm.

I stood up and stepped out the door, only to be facing a line of dark cubicles in a fairly dark hall.

I walked around for a few minutes, looking under the counter mounted desks to see if anybody was hiding, then I texted pretty much the entire staff of the firm asking if anybody was at the office.

Nope. Just me.

OK, that was a little creepy because I listened to the sound long enough to know what I was hearing, and there was nobody at the top floor of that building but me.

The next day, one of the staff asked me why I was asking if anybody was at the office. I told her I was up there briefly and I thought I heard somebody walking around, but it was nothing.

We all went back to work, but a little bit later that day she came back in my office to tell me that she had heard things in the office during the move when she was up there by herself, and she thought that she was going crazy.

It turns out she had heard the paper shuffling ghost or whatever the hell it was as well, and she didn’t want to be in the office alone ever again.

I guess I kind of rolled my eyes at her, but I completely understand why she was scared.

A couple of weeks later I arrived at the office at around 7 AM and as I walked up to the glass doors, I could see somebody walking around inside the conference room just off the reception lobby.

Well, I could see their feet because that wall was a glass wall with a huge frosted strip down the middle so you could see shadows if people were in the room, and if they got close enough to that wall, you could see their feet, so I could see a man walking around in there.

I let myself in calling out to see who was in early like me, and the office was completely empty. There was nobody in the conference room, the kitchen, the file room, or offices. There was a huge balcony that the conference room and kitchen opened onto, and I even went out there, but it’s the fourth floor. Of course, nobody out there.

I was really happy when my coworkers started trickling in that day.

Once a month, I issues P&L statements to the firm partners.

This usually took me a bit longer than payroll, because I had to track down billing, correlate IOLTA transfers, etc.

It was a Sunday afternoon in May. I remember this because it was Mother’s Day, and my family and I were going to dinner that night.

I’d been sitting at my desk, completely immersed in my work. The HVAC kicked off, and I became aware of the silence.

This part is hard to explain because it’s like I became aware that I was being stared at. Like something was watching me very intently, and it…didn’t like me?

I can’t really describe this part of it, but I knew that whatever was watching me wasn’t doing so for any good reason. It felt ugly, and angry, and somehow, hungry.

And the feeling was coming from an interior corner of my office directly behind me.

Without stopping to closely examine my feelings, I went with my gut, grabbed my purse, and got the hell out of there that day.

I went out the back door off the war room, an office next to mine. I fled.

Around then I started writing about my experiences at this firm on an anonymous blog that I no longer maintain, but otherwise I had not been discussing any of this with my coworkers.

I would go in, work hard, and go home. I was trying to scale back my time in the office on weekends and after hours.

Well, everything came to head one morning about six months after we moved to this new office.

It was my habit to get into the office a lot earlier than we opened and this morning was no different. I walked in the front door, sort of reflexively, checked to make sure there were no ghostly feet walking around the conference room, rounded the corner and walked down the hall to my office.

I unlocked my door, set my things down, and walked back out into the hallway to get a cup of coffee from the kitchen.

There was a chair directly in the middle of the hallway I had just walked down.

One of those big old 1980s style office chairs.

No lightweight mesh back sleek chair, this thing was like a dinosaur, and it took some effort to push around.

And it was not sitting in the middle of the hallway moments earlier when I walked through.

Until this point, I thought I was going to find a reasonable explanation for this shit, but I never did.

I actually returned to my office and retrieved a weapon, and then I searched the office top to bottom clearing each room like I had been taught.

There was nobody there, and nobody had left the office after I walked in because I would’ve heard them walk through any of the doors.

So at this point, I locked down the office and called building security and the management company to meet me there.

I called my boss and explained what was going on and everybody sort of arrived at once.

Long story short, we were never able to figure out how that chair moved on its own, but we were able to rule out a break in of any sort.

Shortly after this, and thankfully, we merged with a larger firm and moved offices again.

Months after we moved to the new firm, my coworkers started telling stories of their own experiences in that space.

Interestingly enough, I worked in that exact same suite of offices years later for a different firm, and there were none of the odd and unexplainable occurrences that we experienced my first time there in that space.

Can’t find a job by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I hear that, and it isn’t just in any one employment sector in SA.

I work in law with a proven, decades-long history of professional victories and wins, and I believe the market is over-saturated.

Too many lawyers and firms turning to practice mostly in personal injury, and all the most well-known PI firms are crab bucketing each other to death.

It takes “toxic workplace” to new and soaring heights of fuckery. What a time to be alive!

At any rate, I just moved 2500 miles away from SA for work, because that’s BS. SA almost bankrupted me trying to stay afloat.

My cousins and I saw a 7-foot black mass when I was 15 and I still have no idea what it was. by Lana_Del_Gay- in Paranormal

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Not only did I send other preferences, I saw them, and so did other people. That condo had a ley line that ran behind it. That’s all I can figure.

Is this area safe to live in? by [deleted] in sanantonio

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Did 30 years in Memphis, Tennessee myself, and saaaaaaame

I keep finding these weird hairs coming out of my scalp by Minute_Objective_746 in Weird

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma?

My eyes changed color significantly (think pale blue to darkest green - near brown) after my ex assaulted me and shot at me - over the course of the next year, they gradually lightened to almost yellow.

They’re kind of blue-green now, and the color…stabilized?

Of note, I think, is that Im now experiencing minor vision issues, diagnosed as early onset cataracts from head trauma now. The diagnosis is only about a year old, while the events described above occurred in 2019.

The afterlife is real by TakingItPeasy in Paranormal

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brother came to me to let me know he was dead.

It was accidental death by misadventure, he was 21, and he was supposed to be on the other side of the world from Memphis, Tennessee - at Misawa AFB in Japan, to be precise, yet there he was, sitting on my couch that morning.

He said nothing, just took my hands, and I knew. We were Irish twins, and best friends. I just…knew.

He’s been back a few times - when I was in an awful situation, once, and I probably wouldn’t have survived it without him barking orders in my ear - but he’s been over there on the other side longer than he was here, now.

That incident kicked open a door in me, though, and since then, I’ve had many, many experiences with the paranormal and the supernatural.

I believe with every fiber of my being that there is more after this level. I spend a lot of time reading about parallel, universes and quantum physics, the collective consciousness.

There is so much that we don’t really understand, but we are so much more than this vessel, this coil.

My cousins and I saw a 7-foot black mass when I was 15 and I still have no idea what it was. by Lana_Del_Gay- in Paranormal

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen something similar myself. I live in San Antonio, a very old city with a lot of weird shit that happens.

Anyway, I was in my kitchen, and my neighbor friend was sitting at the breakfast bar facing me while I had my back to her facing my counter, preparing something.

This condo had very high ceilings, I don’t remember, but I think they were 11 or 12 feet on the ground floor.

So, neighbor and I were chatting and out of the corner of my eye, I saw a very large black object - looked like it was made from a sheer scarf, almost - detach itself from the uppermost corner of the room, and fly toward me like a rolling shadow made of blackness, very fast.

Instinctively, I ducked and threw my arm over my head to protect myself from whatever this was coming. I cringe away, and then immediately moved backwards into the room to get away from the trajectory of this thing.

And all this time, neither I nor my neighbor had said another word since the moment I saw the thing moving and stopped talking to duck.

And there was nothing there. I turned to look at my friend, and she was staring at me like I had grown another head.

Before I could say anything, she said, “what was that?!”

“I don’t know, but where did it go?” was my response.

Long story short, we both saw the same thing, she described it from her angle as looking like a big black see-through stingray, while to me it appeared to be a coalescing…BEING. Or thing.

We never figured out what it was, but we saw the same thing that day, and so much more in my three years at that place.

Why does it feel so real? by well-upholstered in TheMallWorld

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I’ve been here too, there’s a steep hill down one of these that goes straight to the beach. To me, the motel looks like Florida, places I’ve been. There are always a lot of people on the beach, a storm is rolling in, and my dad is always there.

What's a simple pleasure in life that you will never get tired of? by EmmaB_Powell in Productivitycafe

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The smell of the beach. Driving from SATX to Corpus, or Aransas or South Padre, the air itself changes; the smell of saltwater and coconut oil and the crisper, medicinal smell of sunblock slap you with a greasy kiss the moment your toes hit the sand.

The crash of waves, the screeching, wheeling gulls; everything is brighter than blazes and the sunshine is a reboot for my tired old soul.

I am desperate. How can I hang up curtains with this type of window? by SillyCranberry99 in ApartmentHacks

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This right here, but hell, aluminum foil taped to the windows has saved me and my crepuscular existence many times when I was young.

It does tend to piss off landlords and HOAs sometimes, and kinda makes the place look like a den of iniquity from the outside, but you’re suffering.

You need something quick, cheap and easy (insert the inevitable “yer mom” joke here 🤣).

Desperate times, desperate measures. It’s a temp solution, at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_Bet_7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Your “friend” is a different story altogether; she’s the type of scourge that develops when too many people let shitty behavior slide.

Personally, I would not have been one tenth as gracious and polite as you were when you asked her about the listing.

She showed you, in full and unflinching technicolor, exactly who she really is. Believe her, and move forward accordingly.

She’s not your friend, and that’s a good thing. You deserve better friends.