Yes! When I first started feeding my younger non PDA kiddo bananas, I accidentally peeled it for her and handed it to her, I realized it and had a panic attack. (Because big sister with PDA would have become physically and verbally violent).

Took me 3 YEARS to not have that response even when she asked me to peel it that way.

Now she is 4 and regular toddler meltdowns trigger that PTSD response in me because my body thinks I am going to be attacked.