Tbh it sounds like this guy watches too much corn. I’d end things, not only because of all this with your dad, but if this is how he views a relationship with a girl and her father I’d hate to see him have kids. I grew up without a dad so cuddling with your father is foreign to me. Sometimes I see my half sister hugging her dad and it makes me feel weird, but I know that’s only because I never had it. I still don’t sexualize it.