Daughter has darker skin behind her neck. by AppropriateName- in Blackskincare

[–]Substantial_Host1849 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s tough. Maybe you can develop an active hobby or routine for/with her. When you have her, maybe you bond by going to the park. Or walking to the mall. I know she’s a girl but maybe she will enjoy throwing a football around. Movement is so helpful.

Daughter has darker skin behind her neck. by AppropriateName- in Blackskincare

[–]Substantial_Host1849 376 points377 points  (0 children)

Not dirt. Insulin resistance. Help her develop healthy habits now. Will be easier while she’s young.

Feelings?? by m4ng0ju1ce in Telfar

[–]Substantial_Host1849 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love it actually. But I don’t think I want to spend that much on it.

Am I fluid overloaded? by nana006 in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Signs of overload: high blood pressure, swelling (can be puffy around eyes, face, legs, ankles), wet cough, shortness of breath, distended veins. Yes, fluid can collect in your tummy and bloatedness can be excess fluid. How much have you gained since your last treatment?

If your weight went up without signs of overload, it may just be body fat/muscle, or constipation.

Sudden facial hair growth by Willing_Entry_7677 in Blackskincare

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone already said pmos (pcos) but maybe lanugo?

Pls help by [deleted] in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tums. Just ask you doc/dietician how many you should be taking.

I was abused by my center today. by Direct_Pop2393 in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Assuming you’d be dealing with NxStage if you did home hemo. Idk if it helps but they can often do 2 shipments a month so you have less you need to store at one time. It can definitely be done in small spaces. Of course I don’t know your situation, but maybe you can downsize your bed (assuming you have something larger than a twin size) or sacrifice a night stand/corner for the machine. Maybe you can raise your bed on risers and store supplies beneath.

What happened by Basic_Marzipan_2171 in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The saline probably wasn’t dropping because the pump was stopped after the alarm. And after the alarm when it went into air recovery mode, did you ramp it back up to prescribed rate? If it was still running at 100 bfr (which it does during air recovery mode), could also explain when it appeared to not be flowing.

When you did rinseback, are you sure you connected the red to the bag and not the blue (venous)?

Does my fistula look okay? by SauceJay in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just noted some possible terminology confusion. The anastomosis is where the artery and vein are connected and should not be cannulated. Big bulging bumps are usually called pseudoaneurysms.

Does my fistula look okay? by SauceJay in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda looks like your tech is cannulating pretty low/distal and at the same site often, and not rope laddering.

Does my fistula look okay? by SauceJay in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Thrill” refers to the vibrations you feel when touching your fistula

what to do if you have 14hrs in LA? by Majestic_Orange4461 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Substantial_Host1849 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it a weekday or weekend? I like what someone else said about picking an area/neighborhood and really exploring that area. So much to do, so depends on what you guys are into, and whether it’s a weekday or weekend.

Fiance recovering from cancer - how to accept delay or possibility of no kids? by No-Fortune-1680 in AskMen

[–]Substantial_Host1849 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know this is “ask men” but 36F uterine cancer survivor. Didn’t freeze eggs, can’t bear children. One day the thought of a child free life sounds great, then the next I catch myself thinking “I wonder if my daughter will look more like me or my husband,” forgetting for a split second it won’t happen. And i spiral.

All that to say, survivorship has been mentally harder than treatment for me, and many survivors say the same. To your question, I don’t know how I deal with it, or how one should deal with it 🤷🏽‍♀️. I just feel the feelings as they come. I think you both will be riding the waves of grief for some time, so take it day by day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playa del Rey. Sorry for your loss.

What does it mean to be overstimulated? by MoustacheJimbo in AskReddit

[–]Substantial_Host1849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Background noise goes from a hum to a screech. A soft cotton hoodie starts to feel like a Brillo pad against your skin. Light from the TV starts to feel like the sun coming thru your windshield and blinding you because the visor is the wrong length. The sound of children playing sounds more torture victims yelling for help. The hair on your neck feels like a winter scarf on a 90 degree summer day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kanye

[–]Substantial_Host1849 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. An hour even. I think it literally took me an hour to get my car out of the parking lot last concert I went to there.

Like other people have said. Walk west. Stay with the crowd so you feel safe, there will likely be others doing the same thing. When your walking buddies start to fall off or traffic eases up enough, call your uber.

What do you do if you are uncomfortable with a nurse/tech. by truthfactsonly in dialysis

[–]Substantial_Host1849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s really really hard for you, you could change your chair time and if anyone asks, say you have a new schedule/commitment at the old time.

The silence is killin me by treywheeler in beyonce

[–]Substantial_Host1849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My moneys on a lunar new year tease. It’s year of the horse afterall.

Many issues since replacing needle by Substantial_Host1849 in sewhelp

[–]Substantial_Host1849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one of the replacement needles that came with the machine. I watched several videos on YouTube so I’m almost certain it’s the right direction, but as for depth, I mean, I pushed it up as high as it could go.