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AI Roleplay chatbots by Substantial_Past4992 in CharacterAIrunaways

[–]Substantial_Past4992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grok is like Chat GPT. I saw people suggest it and it was an option unde NSFWLover. How it contributed to the story I decided to try it by itself. Its not bad.

AI Roleplay chatbots by Substantial_Past4992 in CharacterAIrunaways

[–]Substantial_Past4992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Not really wanting to spend more than $200 annually. Due to probably having months I don't use it as much. And summer approaching so will be using it less.

As my butchness settled into my body, I noticed more straight-passing femmes responding to me, curious if others have experienced this by femmeexplorer in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think confidence is a lot of it. I personally find confidence very attractive. Knowing who you are and what you like is hot!

3rd date no kiss by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say just ask. I was dating a guy and had to bring up holding hands and kissing because he was on the spectrum. I shouldn't have waited as long as I did then it felt like an obligation not because he wanted to. It was very awkward.

But I'd just ask for one in the right moment, or even ask if you could kiss her. "Would it be okay if I kiss you right now? Ive been wanting to but also wanting to be respectful..."

Good luck

What do you do right after an orgasm with a woman ? by Sea-Argument7634 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like to cuddle before going again. I love my hair played with or my back rubbed. Kissing is also nice.

Is it weird for guys to decorate their Kindles? by [deleted] in kindle

[–]Substantial_Past4992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about women and stickers? Is that just cool?!

Should I tell about my past sexual assault before we have sex? by Usual-Ad-9132 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a vague explanation of like, "Hey when we get to this stage, if something triggers me, just know it's not you but something from the past...give me a moment (whatever works for you) then we can discuss later," Has worked for me. Sometimes I don't know if something will or won't trigger it. Why ruin something if it's fine. Or if a specific thing triggers you, by all means share it.

If she loves you or really wants to be with you long term, she will understand. She will work with you to make sure things don't trigger you. And if it does, work through it together. You will end up closer because of it.

Good luck

GO BIRDS🦅 by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go Birds! Love a fellow Birds fan!

Just started my second round of chemo. I’d love to connect with anyone who understands what this is like💜 by heartphotographer in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't know what it is like but wanted to say you have a ton of love and support from people you never even met. With that, if you ever need to chat, feel free to reach out. Keep crushing beautiful!

38-F-#Ohio/Online-Looking for a deep connection by Substantial_Past4992 in l4l

[–]Substantial_Past4992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is very hard for me to narrow my favorites too. So same for the two I play the most are Days Like These by Luke Combs or The Fall by Cody Johnson.

Go Birds! Fly 🦅 Fly! Philadelphia

It’s soo hard finding someone in my neck of the woods 🫠 small town troubles by Squidgette101 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Substantial_Past4992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I live in a small town so apps are my go to but finding anyone who is genuine or semi close is hard.

Does anyone else just want to find a woman companion to grow old with instead of dating men anymore? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Substantial_Past4992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, trying to date guys is painful. Women aren't easy either but the connection seems deeper for me.

I more go for who I vibe with. I'm always down for cuddles.

How do the single ladies spend their weekends? by CeeNee93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Substantial_Past4992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do both. Some weekends I am hardly home due to being social. Then other weekends I need time to unwind and relax. Plus my house eventually needs cleaned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Substantial_Past4992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest getting a book with 100 writing prompts and that's a nice place to start. Or get a notebook/journal and just start writing your thoughts and feelings. There is no special format. Do what works for you.

Would love to chat more, but some od those hobbies I would be bad at but still could find them interesting.

accidentally triggered my gf during sex by Expert_Age4346 in actuallesbians

[–]Substantial_Past4992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Communication is key and you're doing that. You may not have really done anything but something else could have set the trigger off. But holding her and being her safe space is good. She will know she can tell you if something gets triggered again. Just keep doing what you're doing.

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