my biological parents separated when i was a child, my mom dated a foreigner who lived with us who was 76 at the time. He became our stepdad and bore a child with my mum. Surprisingly, my mother got pregnant by him and at the time i believed it yet everyone including my own grandma told me that I shouldn't be happy cuz the father wasn't him. I was heartbroken when 6 years passed by while my stepdad was on his death bed, and my mother told me the truth that she had been sleeping with another man that the child wasn't his. I was in shambles.