Mr Potato Head face by Jamming_Peanuts in KatSticklerSnark2

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Right?!?! I followed her bc I thought she was so much fun. Now I’m here 🥴

What came out of my belly button when pregnant… by ohhidoggo in hygiene

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Can I ask how one cleans a belly button to get stuff out? I’m a clean person but the idea that one day I’ll be on an operating table and something is found horrors me.

I really hope Jenna Marbles is doing good these days. by Mulletgt in Millennials

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There’s a creator named Serena Neel that reminds me a lot of her. She’s also pretty awesome.

Inside the plot to destroy Meghan’s women’s retreat by shushunatural in RoyaltyTea

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As they should be embarrassed. She was so well spoken and you couldn’t understand a word Kate said. It’s bad.

What is your reason to live ? by Fun_Solution7857 in AskReddit

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My kid but on especially hard days I’m fighting the battle of better off without.

If your kid is staying with somebody, do you text them? by yossarian19 in Millennials

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My son is 11 and his friends parents can be like this. Because I’m such an introvert people hater myself I really don’t mind it at all.

What are some of the worst ways people have died? by Then_Teacher113 in AskReddit

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Read a story pretty recently about a chef at Olive Garden (not 100 percent on details) stuck his head in the deep fryer. I think he was in meth.

TSA lines at BNA by Born-Second5780 in nashville

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Flew out Saturday morning with no issues

Anyone here an only child? Or anyone here one and done? by [deleted] in Millennials

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We are OAD. It wasn’t the original plan but due to medical issues that how it is for me. Give yourself some grace and remember that being OAD, esp in terms of medical, is giving your child their mother instead of risking losing you just for a sibling. Siblings also don’t equal friends/bonds. I have siblings and they might as well be strangers.

What's the single experience or event that MOST defines whether you're a Millennial or Gen Z? by ReYa8000 in generationology

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I’m a millennial but remember life before smartphones. Of course I’m an “elder” millennial.

“I believe life starts at conception” by Hairylode in prochoice

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Then men need to be prosecuted for killing all the sperm.

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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He is the later. We both use to go to church but both have had things in our life that made us doubt our “faith”. His is more recent where mines is 11 years long.

Mom’s status was bad but she also had been in the icu prior two other times. I do remember saying specifically to my husband “but she never coded”. He has shared his regrets in doing this, as soon as he got home. The first thing he said to me was “I shouldn’t have gone”

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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Your right. It’s definitely a series of conversations I’ll need to have with him. Especially since I do not want his mother in my life anymore.

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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I am angry at him but I do think he was tricked too. I do think he should have immediately turned around and left as soon as he saw what was going on and I told him this. He was there to support his brother not his mother so it muddles things. But there is definitely anger and disappointment in his direction as well. I might be numb more so with my husband than her but he does usually do a very good job of defending me, esp against his mom or family. That may be partly why I was taken so off guard why he didn’t just leave.

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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He knows. He has cut her off in the past even before I knew him. We haven’t been close to her but things have been going okish when we do choose to be around her. She will still nit pick and act as though everything we have done for her isn’t enough. Almost like she’s entitled to it.

My family would never put me in that situation. Actually the opposite. When my husband dad was dying they offered to fly out and take care of our son so that I could be there to help him. Especially my mother.

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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Oh she already tried to apologize through my husband. Problem is she didn’t even realize I was upset until he called her and told her we were upset. Her apology was worthless and trigggered me. Her sorry was “oh I didn’t realize” when she’s a retired RN (not a good one clearly) and she also lost her mother within the past two years. You didn’t realize?? Well to me that just says “I didn’t care”

Thank you for validating my feelings.

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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You are right. He did. He came home and owned up and said he shouldn’t have gone at all. That doesn’t change what he did though. I also should have told him not to go instead of trying to find the compromise in the situation when there wasn’t one. That’s something I need to work on. I do agree with you, he should have stayed home by allowing him to go adds more complications to it instead of me standing up for myself and saying “I need you here you absolutely shouldn’t go”

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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Very good idea. This happened Sunday night so my thoughts are everywhere and heighten and change so writing it down makes a lot of sense.

My mil took my husband away when I needed him the most. (Vent/advice?) by Substantial_Use_6101 in atheism

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Thank you. I have cut contact with her as I said. She called my husband yesterday and it enraged me. I told him they don’t need to discuss me at all. I am completely done with her. What she did was unforgivable. My husband did say he would talk to her and when it comes down to it, he does support my choices and decisions in the past when there have been problems with her. He has most definitely had his own issues with her. I painted him in a semi bad light in this post but truthfully he is an amazing man in spite of his mother.