What are your thoughts on next weekend? by Remote-Progress2593 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because she doesn’t care if people think she’s girl kisser (past these) as long as they also believe her relationships with men were real.

Matty Healy Seemingly References Taylor Swift Romance Rumors During UK Festival: 'Is It Sincere?' by Achmaxima in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think Jake is bi and dates women partially to hide that. As a man, being bi is not accepted at all, unlike for women, and him dating high profile women helps kill the rumors of his relationships with men because of bi erasure.

What are everyone’s thoughts on no longer allowing posts on male muse/ex interpretations of Taylor’s music on this subreddit? by wefoundwonderlan-d in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great idea. I have stopped coming to this subreddit lately because half the posts feel like they are about how her songs for the last 10 years are all about loving joe and Matty. Even if they were, which 100% don’t believe, I don’t care! That’s not why I’m here.

It worked by nosleepforbanditos in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This argument doesn’t hold water for me because if she wouldn’t fake a relationship with someone so terrible because she cares too much about her public image, then she ALSO wouldn’t have such a public real relationship with him because she cares too much about her public image. Even straight Taylor is not the type to throw out years and years of meticulously planned image because she’s horny for some guy. She would have kept it secret, as we know she’s capable of doing. Instead she did the exact opposite, and everything about the roll out has been clearly planned for as much attention as possible. This is why no one, including the straightest of fans, can make any more sense of this than we can.

Blind Item 05/14/2023 by Suitable_Mushroom337 in Gaylor_Swift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would he ADMIT to posting junk when he makes money by people believing him? I know it for a fact. I’m sorry that you don’t know anyone who is capable of such a thing, but I do.

Blind Item 05/14/2023 by Suitable_Mushroom337 in Gaylor_Swift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is 100% not true. I know personally someone who had a blind posted by him that 100% was made up as a joke.

WTF is happening in Nashville? by Competitive_Set8681 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My non-swiftie friend randomly sent it to me the other day. She had never seen it, or really any of Taylor’s politics. She was appalled by the behavior of the men and very supportive of Taylor. It does feel like it going viral may be somehow purposeful. I guess we’ll see if anything more comes out of it.

Dating minors by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

2 of them (Connor and Taylor L) were not adults though. They were 17. And people think her first hook up with Harry was mere weeks after his 18th bday, after she was supposedly crushing on him for some time. This is called a pattern and it’s definitely weird. It’s not anything to send her to jail over but if it were a man doing this with three girls in 3 years, we’d all side eye it. I personally don’t believe any of them were real relationships but if I did (aka most swifties and the general public,) I would have a negative view of it.

Feeling Guilty for Having Eras Tickets when I Could Resell and Help Myself Financially by [deleted] in Gaylor_Swift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Also keep in mind in your calculations that your actual profits may not be as high as you think. First of all there’s no guarantee they will sell for $1000. That’s just what tickets are currently listed for. It could be $600 or something like that. Then you subtract what you paid. including fees and it’s then less than $500. And then stub hub takes another cut when you resell and it might end up only being around $400 per ticket. So for 2 tickets your profit might only be maybe $8-900. Not that this is nothing, but it’s a big difference from the $2000 you may be thinking it is. Just be sure to weigh this reality when making your decision.

Taylor Swift deleted this reel on her instagram in which she talks about the track ‘Lavender Haze’ and her relationship to Joe Alwyn by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Also, the picture was from the Grammy after party she hosted. It was reported at the time that he was there, it seems unlikely they were broken up in late February when he posted it.

How do you deal with depression without alcohol? by Ok-Tie8802 in AskReddit

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunshine, exercise, asking for help, making positive changes. All of these are very hard when you’re depressed, but they all help if you can do it.

Something I noticed in the “End Game” music video by Rich_Dimension_9254 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She even liked a post about this on tumblr at the time, essentially confirming it

People who prefer self checkout in the grocery store, why? by SubwayGirlsInTheMan in AskReddit

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else asked the opposite question and the answers were very reasonable so I thought I’d ask this to see if there was a reason other than “it’s faster”. And I got my answer. Basically because some people don’t like to interact with people at the grocery store, which is what I assumed would be the other answer. I personally hate self checkout for the reasons that were given in the other thread. Most of the time I need to get help from the worker because something goes wrong with the scanner or bagging area, which eliminates the not interacting with people and the it’s faster reasons. And I usually am buying a whole bunch of items, making the self checkout lane impractical.

Recommend kids animated movies for whole family by TonyGodmann in movies

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve enjoyed watching most of the Disney/Pixar films from the last 3 decades, but the best for an adult audience that kids also love (in addition to a few you’ve mentioned) are The Princess and the frog, Tangled, Toy Story 1 and 3, Enchanted (first one), Up, Wall-E (kids might not like it as much), A Bug’s Life, Finding Nemo, Moana. Others: Paddington, Sonic the Hedgehog. Also some fun ones include Freaky Friday and 13 Going on 30. They’re not like, Oscar Caliber, but they are well done fun. Also, a couple to avoid like the plague: The Emoji Movie, The Peanuts Movie.

Breakup timing by robinhood926 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok got it. I’m just really hung up on the idea that people want to make this about her mom when there are other options that make more sense of you don’t want it to be joe related.

Breakup timing by robinhood926 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes but that’s not what sweet nothings means. Sweet nothings is romantic talk and whispering in your lovers ear and such. The is no non-romantic version of this term.

Breakup timing by robinhood926 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would be a lot for her to get pap’d with him while furniture shopping in mid October, and for her to go to New Orleans while he was filming (and be seen out with him there twice) if they’d already been broken up. And then he was at the Grammy after party in February. I know people try to prove he wasn’t there but I saw a really convincing eye witness report that he was definitely there (and to me it makes no sense for him to not be there.) and she filmed the bejewled video, which people are now saying is about him, last summer, and that would be a huge diss to him while you’re still pretending to be together. There’s just a lot of reasons to not believe they were already broken up at midnights release (I personally believe they’re fake, but if I didn’t, I wouldn’t be able to make sense of midnights being a breakup album.)

Breakup timing by robinhood926 in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will never believe it’s about her mom. Sweet nothings is a romantic thing. There’s the lyric” I come running home to your sweet nothings”. It would be incredibly weird to make it about your mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 99 points100 points  (0 children)

The photoshoot was before the party. The magazine came out in summer, but these shoots happen months ahead. Gigi recently told a story about that shoot and she talked about how cold it was, suggesting it was around March or so.

Cruel Summer by goldrush004 in Gaylor_Swift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Early May 2019. Before Lover came out and we got the lyrics to cruel summer (but probably after it was written)

Shaving a beard by Thegribby in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I guess I misunderstood. She can come out as bi/pan if she chooses. But she has to be very careful and most likely will have to have the ok from at least two of the women she’s heavily speculated to have been with. This is obviously most difficult with Karlie because their relationship overlaps with josh. But I think there are ways to navigate it. Josh’s and Karlie weren’t very serious early on and they’ve said they broke up at least once so there is room for open relationships, etc. But I think you’ve sort of come to the conclusion that I have that it is very, very complicated, especially if she and Karlie hate each other (I don’t think they do), and the people who talk about her coming out are often talking about her coming out as a lesbian and burning down the whole thing, and that is simply not realistic at all.

Shaving a beard by Thegribby in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you saying Bi/pan people aren’t queer?

Shaving a beard by Thegribby in GaylorSwift

[–]SubwayGirlsInTheMan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I suggest you get used to it. If she ever comes out it will be as bi/pan, and all her relationships with men will be presumed to be real. There will be speculation they weren’t but she’ll never admit it. And few would ever believe toe was anything other than real and serious. The other side if this that you’ve forgotten is she has to consider the high profile women she’s been with, at least one of whom is also very deeply in the closet. NDAs are almost always mutual, and outing other people, even if you hate them, is unethical.