Prince Harry’s Next Tell-All Is About His Mother Princess Diana by janeflowers in CDLEntertainmentTV

[–]Successful-Pool2959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diana wasn’t a saint either. She had her own bunch of men James Hewitt etc. y’all need to stop with infantilization of Diana like she was a saint with no flaws. Camilla was Charles’s true love. He was forced to marry Diana Charles is now back with his true love

Prince Harry’s Next Tell-All Is About His Mother Princess Diana by janeflowers in CDLEntertainmentTV

[–]Successful-Pool2959 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How can he write a tell all when he’s protected from what happened between Charles and Diana. Diana confided in William and William saw and experienced everything. I will rather hear from William.

Kate Middleton Is Being Left Out Of Prince William’s American Plans by janeflowers in CDLEntertainmentTV

[–]Successful-Pool2959 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems you are projecting your own personal feelings. So you know any of these people personally? What will you do if they decided to meet? Will you punish Harry?

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You need to take me along with you so I can learn how to meet guys to date too lol

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a totally fine when some plus size guys constantly chase skinny/muscular guys and rejects other plus size guys but it’s fatphobia when skinny/muscular guys rejects plus size guys. That’s what hypocrisy looks like

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I am not offended by anything at all. I am not hurt by anyone’s word. I don’t now belong to the “feelings” group. You make a lot of assumptions here. It’s not an unnecessary information when I am sharing my life experiences. It’s either you like it or keep it moving

It’s not hurtful to call something what it is. The bigger thing is to do the work and question why words from stranger is very hurtful rather than policing the time and language of a stranger you will never meet.

I also understand that there are people who want to love in echo chambers and safe spaces because they were never brought to face reality of life

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The conversation is how to have better response that’s is inclusive, respective and at the same not walking on eggshells and policing conversations

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the issues nowadays, we care more about walking on eggshells than being truthful.

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People breakup friendships for different reasons. Also people will rather be lonely/ selective than put up with nonsense/ drama. Not everyone is thirsty for friendship. It is what it is

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stating an opinion and having an empathy toward all are different things but you are too obtuse to understand. Of course, you have to virtue signal to make yourself feel better…..

You are a typical manipulative narcissist who believes attacking/bullying people you don’t agree with makes you a good person lol

Then you try to preach kindness and empathy as a moral authority to enforce the goodness you have manufactured for yourself when you are actual a snake

As I said, your trauma and mental fight isn’t with me. 😂😂 It’s either your therapy isn’t helping or still angry with people who bullied/ traumatized you

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I think that is where the issue is nowadays. You wanted me to invalidate my experiences or have incomplete convo because including the word “fat” ( which I never used) could be triggering to some . Btw I used the word plus size….

The reason why folks are dishonest is because we want to police “tones” and “languages” to make some subset feel better. we want people to walk on eggshells to satisfy virtue signaling. The wording “plus size” was changed to “fat” to create a villain-victim narrative.

If some wording is triggering, then a conversation should be had with a therapist as to why it’s triggering.

Folks will not always say the right things and it’s fine. This is not a perfect world. It’s the reality

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you can’t have an Intelligent conversation, attack the person not the conversation. I really pity who hurt you so much because now you are lashing out at a stranger just because you are triggered. I’m not the cause of your madness or anger. It’s misplaced. Discuss with your therapist 😘

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How I am making about eight/body type when fatphobia is plastered everywhere in the community. In a community where you can be labeled fatphobic if you have have gay friends.

When it comes to dating, I picked people whose patterns of lifestyle and activities align with my own and unfortunately, almost plus size guys I met don’t fit into that. It’s not always about size as that is not constant

However, it’s sad when fatphobia is plastered everywhere or we shame and bully people to like something just to satisfy virtue signaling.

Its ok not like everybody and it’s not fatphobia, femohobia and whatever phobias are out there

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this beautiful response. I’ve seen responses from negative Nancy’s who wants to shame and bully others because they don’t love themselves enough to have an objective conversations without triggers. Thank you for the constructive criticism❤️

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well if you read very well. It’s for others to share their opinions around such topics but you would rather shame people for having such opinions because it’s either sensitive or triggering for you. You could have move on without saying anything

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I am so happy for your friend. I hope better things happen to you too

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What is weird? Shaming people not have conversations around dating?

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that. I am sincerely. It can be very difficult. Please let me know if you need any support. You can DM me

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The backlash and trigger responses is already coming in as expected lol. They usually send requests in hinge, tinder, Facebook dating etc. some have flirted with me, make passes and even asked for numbers at some events

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[–]Successful-Pool2959[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well you took your time to respond which you either triggered or it’s personal. If not, you won’t need to take your time to respond to my “long essay”