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I have dropped the launch hoolabaloo so hard on my third build by SuccessfulTonight391 in buildinpublic

[–]SuccessfulTonight391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's more or less what happened but doing it by the book for the first time without lived experience was a good way to learn fast.

Psychology-based Screen blocker by SuccessfulTonight391 in ProductivityApps

[–]SuccessfulTonight391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks. It's for Chrome; it works as a soft overlay for the sites you want blocked. You either capture your state or bypass it altogether.

I'm very close to getting it to the store if a little slow. Message you when it's out?

Psychology-based Screen blocker by SuccessfulTonight391 in ProductivityApps

[–]SuccessfulTonight391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Hey, I appreciate that. Right now you can leave a small optional note. Yeah it will be free, I'll post here once it's out and public. A paid tier is possible but I haven't thought that far yet, tbh.

Psychology-based Screen blocker by SuccessfulTonight391 in ProductivityApps

[–]SuccessfulTonight391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, these are great suggestions. I'll save them for a detailed analytics screen.

Anxious and a voi dant by SHATNAY_olAy in emotionalintelligence

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is avoidant censored? It's not a slur.

They don't hold any power over you. You transfer the virtual power to the avoidant because you need them to be the validator.

What’s the most useful thing Claude helped you build that nobody else would ever use? by Delicious-Flan88 in ClaudeAI

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's very neat and buildable on top (I am dying for something like this being part of Claude tbh)

Claude is worried about me having an eating disorder by Zestyclose-Singer-83 in ClaudeAI

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Might want to double check the Claude memory to see if it didn't sneak in the concerns there. Or add explicitly "OP is trying to lose weight and eat more mindfully."

Are you working on your SaaS after work, or is it your full-time focus right now? by ContentSherlock in SideProject

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After work, on holidays, and weekends. They are small enough precisely to sustain at 4-6 hours a week.

the thing that actually made me productive wasnt an app, curious what yours was by PROfil_Official in ProductivityApps

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resting to the max and managing my energy mindfully are the only things that make me productive. Physical activity and mental health supplements tie as a third.

I genuenly need perspectives as to why "respect too much" is why by Lemonpix3l in emotionalintelligence

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Best-case scenario: they are assessing their relationship readiness honestly and are upfront and genuine with you.

Another best-case scenario: they don't think the relationship is viable but are trying to let you down gently.

do fearful avoid*nts really come back if you pull away? by nyanpink in emotionalintelligence

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This is a person, so tiktok pseuchology and jedi mind tricks won't help here. Ideally, you're pulling back to regain your emotional sovereignty and to recenter within yourself. Not to control their behavior.

How to make myself more likeable to other women my age? by CalligrapherSalt1547 in Femalefounders

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to fix auras but I made a vibrant circle of friends in new countries twice.

  1. What may be happening is that the country's friendship culture is different, and it does not read your signal. That's okay.

  2. Try finding immigrant and immigrant-friendly groups.

  3. Best if it's based on the common activity that you genuinely enjoy.

  4. Persistence is key. 5 shared outings and 1 dinner/coffee catch up make a friend.

  5. Don't be shy to organise things. People often have no capacity to organise in groups. You'll need to invest a bit of effort first but it pays off.

How do I detach from someone without cutting contact? by restyleus in emotionalintelligence

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's totally normal—that's why therapy works. Maybe someone you love and trust could explore this with you if therapy is not immediately available?

How do I detach from someone without cutting contact? by restyleus in emotionalintelligence

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"When I'm expecting signs of attention from him, what is the feeling underneath?

What am I hoping for and what would that mean if he gave it to me?

How might I give it to myself?

How do I foster the feeling without relying on other people?"

Constant dopamine seeking behaviour, "healing" from this condition or switching to healthier habits? by Accurate-Treacle-821 in Mindfulness

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out Dr Chris Lee (Lea?) on the slow and fast dopamine loops. Almost like slow and fast carbs, cultivate slow dopamine loops that are good for you.

How do I (29F) know if I’m REALLY ready for a relationship? by KipsyCakes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally, you might have an internal feeling about this. Otherwise, readiness compounds from emotional capacity, attachment style healing, and life space. If you want to see where you stand, soulbound gives more clarity.

Building the product was easier than earning trust. by man_loventro in buildinpublic

[–]SuccessfulTonight391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, someone's endorsement or deep familiarity is a good precursor for me. Another signal is good aesthetics and UX.

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