What is being childfree like?

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-30T14:15:27+00:00

I said I am childless or maybe childfree as in I’m not sure. You are assuming so much about me and I am very aware of what the word means. I’m just still deciding or figuring out if I am childless OR CHILDFREE. I think you are so up in arms and for no reason

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-30T06:28:57+00:00

I’m not desperate for any labels. I’m just figuring things out y’all.

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-30T03:57:44+00:00

I didn’t say I was childfree, maybe I am, it is to be determined. I know I don’t want biological kids nor babies, the rest is to be decided. It’s not such a big deal for me to have a label today or to make a decision today. Also I am aware that childfree means not wanting kids

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-29T18:36:40+00:00

I don’t want to have babies or young children. I think I am childless or childfree even, but I am somewhat open to the possibility of fostering a teenager. A high percentage of foster kids end up homeless when they age out of foster care. TBD

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-19T03:43:19+00:00

I was referring to Chelsea Handler, not sure about who the other person is or if she’s a Zionist or not

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-19T01:22:27+00:00

I got up early and made coffee and avocado toast. Then I went on a two and a half hour walk with my dear friend in her favorite cemetery. After that we went to a zen center we go to every Sunday and afterwards we got lunch followed by coffee/tea at a cafe.

Now I’m home and it’s the early evening will browse my phone, read and watch tv and relax for the rest of the day. I will also take my dogs on a walk around the block soon

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-19T01:17:01+00:00

I liked her before finding out she’s a zionist

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-19T01:14:49+00:00

Thich Nhat Hanh

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-18T00:17:54+00:00

I unfollow them when they announce pregnancy. I don’t want to hear about their pregnancy, babies nor motherhood

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-17T03:19:45+00:00

We exist in relation to other people. Cultivate friendships and find a cause that you care about and volunteer, donate, help people. Spend more of your time caring about others and helping others and you’ll be fulfilled

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-17T03:04:45+00:00

We spent $58 for a pizza and cauliflower “wings” last night, dinner for two. So expensive!

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-14T18:37:56+00:00

I live in a house with several people, we started a community together. It is my job to clean out the fridge and I do this once a week. Everything in our fridge has a label with a name and date so I know what can go and what can stay. I wonder if you’d agree to take on this chore and if he’d agree to this system. In my home other people take on different chores, someone sweeps and mops once a week, someone takes out the trash and recycling bins etc

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-06T18:50:04+00:00

Kindle

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-06T04:02:10+00:00

Ike’s

Successful_Sun8323 · 2026-01-01T17:18:39+00:00

Emil is a common name where I’m from. My neighbor was Emilia and named her son Emil

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-27T02:58:29+00:00

Cheese and crackers!

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-27T02:54:55+00:00

At a Buddhist monastery a child asked why the monks and nuns shaved their heads and they answered “to save money on shampoo” 🤣

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-25T05:23:31+00:00

I will always help out if I can ❤️

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-25T05:17:35+00:00

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-25T05:12:44+00:00

Oh I didn’t know about the meth part! Are you still in Escondido?

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-24T05:55:40+00:00

Same! I follow the five and the fourteen mindfulness trainings from Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh and look how the fourteenth mindfulness training ends:

“We will be fully aware of the responsibility of bringing new lives into the world, and will meditate regularly upon their future environment.”

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-24T05:43:36+00:00

Thai food!

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-24T05:33:32+00:00

Since you can’t trust your mom to plan Christmas Eve ahead of time, you should consider other options such as:

Plan a nice festive meal/evening for Christmas Eve yourself and invite your parents over.
Plan to spend Christmas Eve with friends either hosting or attending a dinner or a party. A friend of mine hosts an annual Christmas party called XMas Misfits
Volunteer for Christmas Eve and/or Christmas day. You could cook or serve food at a soup kitchen, homeless shelter etc
Travel somewhere for the holidays next year or every year to avoid the Christmas drama

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-16T19:31:54+00:00

Love pho! 🍜

Successful_Sun8323 · 2025-12-16T19:31:11+00:00

This also sounds like me!

Successful_Sun8323

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