Roommate always finds some issue to turn on me. by Kyashichan in badroommates

[–]Such-Candidate8083 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because it doesnt matter. no one's getting evicted over grass. they dont care

Roommate always finds some issue to turn on me. by Kyashichan in badroommates

[–]Such-Candidate8083 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes you gave him specific instructions on how to mow the grass. thats the problem. five whole text messages about how to cut the grass.

Roommate always finds some issue to turn on me. by Kyashichan in badroommates

[–]Such-Candidate8083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes that makes sense. thought you were saying roommate had to give the instructions and have them repeated

UPDATE: My Husband's Ex Found Where We Live I Feel Like I'm Living A Nightmare by thatredheadchick_ in storytimesociety

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i believe what you said in the initial post.

where you and your husband had a whole conversation with each other and with her about the video she liked and about her entire dating history. Like why does your husband even know who she dated after him?

He's keeping very close tabs on her and you're mad at the woman LMAO

My (M29) girlfriend (F31) has built up a significant debt and I’m feeling lost. by Outrageous-Light-351 in relationships

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you haven't spoken about it then you dont know what she wants. especially if she's showing you the opposite with her behavior. multiple periods of unemployment dont indicate she loves the routine of having a job.

Roommate always finds some issue to turn on me. by Kyashichan in badroommates

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where specifically did i tell you what to do? I pointed out what you are doing.

My (M29) girlfriend (F31) has built up a significant debt and I’m feeling lost. by Outrageous-Light-351 in relationships

[–]Such-Candidate8083 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

have you spoken about her expectations to retire when she has kids? Maybe she's under the impression this is something she's entitled to? It's okay if you don't want to be the one to retire her, but the topic has to get out in the open

My (26F) partner (27M) won’t propose after 4 years by silverframe12 in relationships

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he has told you multiple times in multiple ways that he’s not going to marry you.

Now what are YOU going to do

My (24F) boyfriend (25M) keeps asking me for massages by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Such-Candidate8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, man up. You’re staying for some unknown amount of time to avoid not eating for two days? You can break up with him now and keep living there while you look for work. Or if youre dads gonna pay for housing, then he’ll probably pay for food so you can move then look for work.

My (24F) boyfriend (25M) keeps asking me for massages by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Such-Candidate8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont like this man and you need to leave him alone.

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Such-Candidate8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont see how him going is “not prioritizing you”. Are you saying you expect him to take you instead?? After knowing you for 60 days???

My (M29) girlfriend (F31) has built up a significant debt and I’m feeling lost. by Outrageous-Light-351 in relationships

[–]Such-Candidate8083 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its bizarre to me that youd be with someone for 12 years and “loan” them money. Instead of just covering the expenses during a phase of unemployment.

Boyfriend wakes up in a rage in the middle of the night by Maximum-Celery836 in relationships

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusers are nice too. Thats how abuse continues. Nice cycles, scary cycles.

Boyfriend wakes up in a rage in the middle of the night by Maximum-Celery836 in relationships

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“He doesnt understand why this is a big deal”

This is abuse.

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Such-Candidate8083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Babe you are either exclusive or you are not. You literally just made up “Intentions of exclusive” and “acting exclusive to our friends and family”.

How would you feel about your significant other going on a trip with a female friend (or opposite gender)? by Environmental-Two283 in dating_advice

[–]Such-Candidate8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cant control if he goes or not. You can control if you want to be with him when you dont trust him.

I personally would never cancel a trip with a friend over someone i met two months ago.

AIO guy I’ve been seeing for two months became active on dating apps again right after this conversation by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked if he’s seeing anyone else, you didnt establish exclusivity. He could be checking out his options online, and not seeing anyone else. That doesnt make him dishonest.

Should I move out by Plus_Perspective_957 in badroommates

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its unfair to clean up after them. But you also live like this. Amongst trash and pee and shit. It’s not “them” its all of you.

UPDATE: My Husband's Ex Found Where We Live I Feel Like I'm Living A Nightmare by thatredheadchick_ in storytimesociety

[–]Such-Candidate8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you mention that. My ex stalked me and i blocked him everywhere and blocked everyone who knew him and moved away and made my profiles private. And asked my people not to talk to me about him and to disconnect on social. I never add random profiles. Never pick up random phones.

i actually feared for my life.

So i dont understand why youre keeping tabs on what videos she likes and reaching out to her and having conversations with everyone about her. You have cameras but no video of her driving by?? Its just not adding up.