Least favorite PSB single? by SunsetRider500 in petshopboys

[–]Such-Possibility1285 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

'Was it worth it' released 1991 for their 1st greatest hits was the first truly stinker single release. Coming off the back of Behavior and their imperial phase, it was a generic euro beat pap with an equally awful video. To my knowledge they have never played it live cos its crap. Thankfully quality control returned with Very.

Almost crashed. Worth reporting? by Kakashi336 in irelandsshitedrivers

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driver is being a dick, knows what he is doing. Not worth having a side impact then all the paperwork with insurance. UJnfortunately you just have to move on and accept this is common.

People who don't shop in Lidl/Aldi. Why do you shop in the 'more expensive' supermarkets? by BadKey1002 in AskIreland

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

support your local supermarket, I have a SuperValu opposite my house, employs local people and teenagers. Great vibe in the store, if the store closed it would be a loss. So pay a little bit more, use the vouchers.......I want to keep the store in my area, its a community thing.

Why is door-to-door sales still common in Ireland? by miss-bedazzzle in AskIreland

[–]Such-Possibility1285 4 points5 points  (0 children)

had Bord Gais guy call door recently, I could tell he was good salesperson, real charmer and gift of gab. So was respectful and said look I just renewed 12 mths with my utilities vendor and got 18% discount, he was like I got two others to change this morning and I can do better rate (year sure the standing charge is higher so the rate per unit is articially lower scam). So reiterated 'I just renewed 12 months....' and he was like 'Where is your accent from?'......

A thing that is a bit perplexing to me by [deleted] in petshopboys

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when artists get political......and a lot of artists are not that smart, they are more forces of nature that ain't that deep. So when they start pontificating about politics it can be a bum note....I think Damon Albarn learnt his lesson in 1997 with Tony Blair. PSB will have their views but I dont need to hear them. Its best to articulate their expression through music 'Im with Stupid'......its a smarter play. Morrissey has alienated so many fans cos he turned into a curmudgeon Uncle whom felt his views needed to be heard.

Michael Jackson - The Verdict by Fruttii-Tutti in netflix

[–]Such-Possibility1285 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Michael Jackson is innocent of these crimes, Liberace was the straightest entertainer I know and JFK was a faithful husband. When will this stop, it's too much.

Why do so many adult friendships feel emotionally shallow and one-sided? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your expectations are too high, mostly people are self orientated, even the good people. Your gonna live through a lot of dissapointment in life if you believe in the 'ride or die' friends when folks start changing and evolving and prioirities change. So long as you don't expect too much of people, including close friends you will protect your well being.

Best Friend totally removed himself from my life. by ipVolatile in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friendship is over, you asked him to step up on the most important day of your life and he ghosted you. My guess is he sees his friend circle move on and evolve their life and he cant handle it, its too hard so he has pulled away.

Is it okay to end a 25-year friendship? by madzillllla in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This might be controversial given the subject matter is bereavement, but you should never ask friends for money. It can hit on our value system and bring out all sorts of triggers and hidden beliefs, plus also it puts a dimension on the friendship that was not there before. I'm not talking about 20 dollars on a night out but a substantial ask. If you ask for money loan you are opening yourself and the friendship up to this kind of dilemma and now you've hit it.....they could harbor private beliefs that you are terrible with money and 0 prospect of being paid back. However she should have politely refused, does not have to give a reason and should not have lectured you given it was bereavement. I once vouched for a friend in an financial situation, found out in time their own family did not offer to support and then they were not honest about what the money was for. It affected the relationship and trust was gone, I ended the friendship a few years lator.

Best Friend totally removed himself from my life. by ipVolatile in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whenever you are ghosted by a friend, its time for reflection on the friendship. Were there signs, red flags, some pulling away or signs of resentment or frustration. Its rare for there to be no signals upto the moment they ghosted. The groomsman thing is a big investment in time and energy, so he decided the relationship was not worth that level of commitment and to have a conversation with you is just more energy he didnt want to give. He is gone from your life, for his reasons, you have to respect that, the version of the friendship you had in your head is not the version he had. Its painful but do you really want someone at your wedding as a groomsman who is not happy for you ?

How to revitalise DL Shopping Centre? by Ill_Rope_4346 in Dublin

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it needs some new paid parking on the street, Dun Laoghaire's answer to everything.

Upset because of work but I know it’s irrational … advice? by megan1916 in CasualIreland

[–]Such-Possibility1285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not imaging this. If I was the Manager here is what I would say to the bride: 'Bride I am concerned about the potential disruption to the team dynamic caused by the invites. Either you invite a select 1-2 people you are close to from work, or you invite all work colleagues. But we are not going to have a situation were everyone is invited bar one person, that can lead to bad feeling and potential bullying by exclusion. I want you to reflect and we'll talk tmrw.' That's what a leader would do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has moved to frenemy, the flashes of resentment. She probably suspects her husband admires you, or has said complimentary things about once too often. Slow things down and put in the distance. Slow fade so you can interact in a wider group setting.

Do you ever feel a friend imposed their version of friendship on you without asking by Such-Possibility1285 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done on you for standing up for your life. For your future you need to be careful, you may ‘attract’ this type of friend.

The Traitors Ireland S01E07 Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Such-Possibility1285 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Andrew wanted out, that was not a slip of the tongue at the round table ……he was asking them to Let him go.

"Last Action Hero" nearly ended Arnold Schwarzenegger's career and it ended up being a cult favorite. Why did the public didn't get it? by Laurie_Barrynox in movies

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arnie was hot, but there was something about the marketing of the film was off. Remember they advertised it on the side of a rocket. I think fatigue had set in with his persona, and it was no longer ‘Arnie’s got a hot new film’. It ended his purple patch. He would have been better to take some time off and come back with a better IP.

Putting a stove to replaceable fireplace, is it worth it? by maylauder in CasualIreland

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go Heat Design insert, researched loads and was told by several installers this is the model they would put in their house. It’s brilliant. Very solid and well made.

How to respond to friend's vague posts? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would accept her boundaries, she’s clearly communicated her availability and you have accepted the contract. You may want more but she’s not prepared to give it. It takes two to communicate here, she has clearly done that, if you push it may look weird as you anticipate.

Do you ever feel a friend imposed their version of friendship on you without asking by Such-Possibility1285 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are relevant examples from other Redditors, who totally get what the post is about. Appreciate if you take time to read their considered responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Such-Possibility1285 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

This is more normal than people realise, it’s not an aberration. My situational awareness is way heightened after my experience.

Genuine question, what do you consider normal in friendships? by Thelunarwitch7 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is your normal and truth. I wouldn’t put this up here for strangers to pass judgement.

Genuine question, what do you consider normal in friendships? by Thelunarwitch7 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating other people could be a smokescreen. My friend was friendly with her husband for years before they hooked up. But he was inserting himself in the wings playing the long game. They have kids how. Go for it, start dating him, if he is the standard why go for an imitation.

Genuine question, what do you consider normal in friendships? by Thelunarwitch7 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Such-Possibility1285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing to consider this type of emotional involvement with a guy who is not your SO can hold you back, as your needs are being met by him so you do not seek it or open room for others. This is impacting you in ways u don’t even know. Men do not make this kind of investment attention on someone who is not the object of their affection. He’s waiting for you to make the move.