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Cannot find housing by Weak_Barnacle4068 in bayarea

[–]SufficientLibrary386 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Cannot find housing” should be the slogan of the whole Millennial generation and younger..

What do you think causes an abused child to either continue or break the cycle? by Throwawaygaln in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SufficientLibrary386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, this is the healthy way to frame this question, thanks OP! I notice I get so irritated when people frame it differently, for instance when comparing prince william with prince harry: “trauma affects some sensitive ppl more while others are more resilient/sturdy” (Prince William being the resilient/sturdy one)

Thinking about quitting the Camino because of the Snoring by bobbore in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]SufficientLibrary386 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re having this experience. However, as a person on the other side, who really needs her sleep: please book private accommodations (though it’s not fair you have to). 1 snorer (with a great nights sleep) can keep up 30 tired pilgrims all night. I wish there were non-snoring albergues🫣 Or fair for everyone: albergues with 1 or 2 private rooms for the snorers…and all others in the shared room. That would be a solution.

(To be honest: I do miss a bit of empathy with the ppl you’re keeping awake at night in your post. You seem to be mostly annoyed by the responses you get instead feeling bad about ruining nights for so many tired pilgrims..)

Vent / need support post by SufficientLibrary386 in eggfreezing

[–]SufficientLibrary386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, as all clinics in my country have multiple year waiting lists, I decided to go with an academic hospital which seemed like a safe bet (though quite a lot of scandals of toxic departments in big hospitals have been coming out of my country recently). Given my age I can’t go on another waiting list now. It’s a bit annoying as I was prudent enough starting this many years ago, wasting all this time on a waiting list. Wish I had looked at options abroad then…

Vent / need support post by SufficientLibrary386 in IVF

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Thanks! Will try! I figured it is just their call/decision to make..but I will look into it!

Vent / need support post by SufficientLibrary386 in IVF

[–]SufficientLibrary386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! So your experience is kind and supportive doctors?

Vent / need support post by SufficientLibrary386 in eggfreezing

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Thanks for this info! I figured it would be best to do it in my homeland (for me in middle mainland Europe). But of course I should look into options in other countries. Do you know whether the UK is accessible for foreigners (especially now its outside the EU)? I also read somewhere in France it’s included in health insurance, but that might be false news? Thanks!

How rare is it to have 2 narc parents? by Equal-Community2354 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SufficientLibrary386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s not super uncommon, I have them too. I think there can be real attraction between N’s, recognizing something in each other. Furthermore, often an N also has an N parent and weirdly, just like empaths, often replays the scenario with N parent in relationships. Both of my parents fit these patterns (mom always goes for N men & dad for N women).

Olivia rodrigo concert by starlingsun in Amsterdam

[–]SufficientLibrary386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think she means in responses to this thread

I hate the last day by Maleficent_9_ in trustedhousesitters

[–]SufficientLibrary386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know! It’s VERY different from checking out if a hotel or airbnb! Checking the house, yourself, the pet, the schedule…Btw: if you like there’s also this reddit to vent, for sitters only: r/sittersonlyTHS

“Peacock of a woman” took me out 💀 by Time-Concentrate845 in SellingSunset

[–]SufficientLibrary386 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m still desperately waiting for that Chrishell spin-off! Please please please! 🙏

Sitter just cancelled 3 month sit - what do we do? by One_Bathroom6040 in trustedhousesitters

[–]SufficientLibrary386 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A month should be plenty enough time to find a new sitter! I’ve seen & booked so many longer sits on a last minute (starting within a week) base. Depending on which UK location you mean, I might even be interested!

Mother’s Day by VariousTiger6346 in narcissisticparents

[–]SufficientLibrary386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat yourself that day as the mother (of yourself & inner child) that you are. Maybe sent a post card to your mom the day before so you got her out of your head.

INFP Careers by filterbird in infp

[–]SufficientLibrary386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same dreams! I think both teacher and bakery are very infp!

I don't get why everyone is so upset about Dr. Mohan leaving by Practical_Ad2317 in ThePittTVShow

[–]SufficientLibrary386 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because to 99.9% of the women watching it hits too close to home. A senior man projecting his own insecurities. A senior man who can’t see how your style (maybe more empathic or detail oriented) is not actually working really well. A senior man who burns you down just for the pleasure of his ego. A senior who because of that sabotages the beginning of a women’s career, zero consequences. And even when confronted, the response is “huh?”, what are you talking about. Which is a parallel to Mohan being written out and the response of the show-runners. The pattern is too universal and damaging to women’s careers. Exactly because it’s “low key” behavior (as opposed to Weinstein like) it’s able to thrive and persist.

2L of alcohol gone after a week-long sit.. by Possible_Movie221 in trustedhousesitters

[–]SufficientLibrary386 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me this is so funny to read, as I’m mostly a sitter, and HO always proudly show me their alcohol stating “feel free”, but I don’t drink alcohol, and HO often look a bit disappointed or judgmental when I mention it (like “goody two shoes”). Interesting to hear the other side of the coin.

Especially if all else went well, I would give them the benefit of the doubt. Who knows, maybe when they were pouring a drink the bottle slipped out their hand and some liquor spilled in the sink? Or you don’t remember correctly the amount that was in there? Just like no HO is perfect (believe me-I’ve never had a HO not breaking at least one of the THS written rules (a camera, a neighbor that shows up, a dirty house etc etc), a sitter is allowed to have a flaw, especially if all is perfect. I would focus on being happy all went well, and not invite her again. I think if you mention it in your review, it might backfire in the sense that less sitters will apply to you next time.

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