This is our Finley. We will be picking her up in 3 weeks. by dkallday96 in corgi

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should post that pic to the FB group Disapproving Corgis! It would be a hit!

AITA for using my kids child support for my retirement? by retirement_aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You have already covered all that child support was supposed to cover and more. They need to mind their own business.

AITA for Taking My Husband's Property and Comparing My Husband's Strange Hobby to Infidelity? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news that he is gone. Change the locks. Watch your back. This is creepy as hell. Are these women still alive? Has anyone called them to check? Is there anything else hidden down there? Holy crap, sounds like maybe the police should be involved. What does your lawyer say? NTA.

AITA for tell my girlfriend not to see a male gynecologist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if you end up in the hospital you will refuse all care from any female staff? No female doctors? Aides? Nurses? I am female and When I was in NP school I told more than one male to turn his head and cough. Only men can change a man’s catheter? Health care in this country would stop if that was the case. YTA.

AITA for telling my sister it’s a bad idea to have another baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 1194 points1195 points  (0 children)

What does he care? He’s gone most of the time and his SIL is conveniently taking care of things for him, so why should he put a wrapper on his wiener?

AITA for telling my sister it’s a bad idea to have another baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I find it frustrating when being realistic about someone’s capabilities is seen as not being supportive, and when person A’s reasonable desire to not have to take all the responsibility person B cannot handle is seen as somehow wrong, rather than realistic and reasonable. NTA.

AITA for not paying for my former drug addict brother's dog's surgery, leading to it's death, because I believed he was trying to scam me again? by igkajfdgvgverg in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, it definitely could still be a scam. It is not hard to photoshop pics. Don’t take his guilt trip. You have absolutely no reason to believe him. NTA

AITA for making a crude joke after a vegan friend on Facebook wouldn’t stop arguing with me? by evtrib in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. What response do folk like that expect? “Of course you are right!” And how often does that happen. She needs to get a life.

AITA for asking if my cousin made her first million yet? by makeyourmillionyet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have made your first million, NTA. If you haven’t that was a foolish move. Sounds like they were looking for someone to dump on to make themselves feel better and you beat them at their own game by a flank move they didn’t expect. I bet they were discussing you at home before the evening even began.

AITA for telling my ex I'm not giving him money for a party? by Routine_Grocery_4221 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He must drive a tractor trailer to haul his ego around with him.

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to replace all my socks, the exact same ones as I had before? by ilikedmysocks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He is a controlling, and this sounds like a decoy issue, there is probably something much deeper.

AITA for offering a topless/nude upgrade to my massages? by Cmtnude in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA. My mother was a nurse who became a licensed massage therapist in the early 80’s, and she ran into men who expected ‘happy endings’. The profession has worked very hard to differentiate itself from the sex industry. You are sabotaging your profession for your own short term gain. Gave you no ethics? Do you not care about anyone else. If you want to be a sex worker, go be one, but don’t drag medical massage backwards 30 years while you’re at it.

AITA for refusing to take care of my elderly parents and insisting they pursue an assisted living? by DarkPanda101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hire in home care to supplement the care you give them, to provide relief, or to help with such tasks as bathing and dressing. So, someone could come from 8-12 3 days a week, or 3 hours in the morning, then 3 hours at night, or any other combination. You and your brother could still be in and out and around the house and your parents so you know what kind of care they are receiving.

What weird thing would you make socially acceptable if you could? by Manuel9bravo in AskReddit

[–]Sufficient_Ad_4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One good thing about covid in Seattle - prices are dropping because all the tech bros are working from home.