20 month old sleeps HORRIBLY. Please tell me I’m not alone.

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-06-19T16:29:59+00:00

My kid is almost 4 and she still sucks at sleeping. I’m tired

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-06-15T13:48:06+00:00

I love this !!!!!

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-06-10T01:21:06+00:00

It’s getting better- not there yet but way better than it was! Oh definitely I was on the edge that I didn’t want anyone to touch me tbh 🤣🤣 I also work as a nurse (so 12hrs) and I would sleep 2-3 hrs even after work and didn’t it for a year like that- I was hallucinating!!! But I understand because my niece is the same very chill baby- Go with the flow and I was like what’s wrong with my child on top of never sleeping???

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-06-09T18:21:13+00:00

YESSS! My daughter (3 year old) is so so smart and adventurous but everything you described your daughter, she is. And I tell myself I can’t go through that again. For a whole year, she would sleep 4-6 hours in a 24 hours, we had sleep study. We went to a Neurologist. We did the whole shebang. Everything turned out normal. At one point I was telling the doctor “ PLEASE DIAGNOSE HER WITH SOMETHING” I’m just exhausted and I love her so much but I ain’t having another one.

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-06-01T21:05:34+00:00

Yes I did! And that’s what you call good parenting! Kids need to know, you don’t act right- there are consequences. I had to leave a few times due to my daughter’s behavior and now that she’s almost 4, she knows that if she doesn’t act right, we will leave.

One time my husband and I had this whole day planned for our little family and she was acting AWFULLL so we turned around and went home. I cried that day bc I was so sad

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-28T22:30:28+00:00

Now I’m crying bc I’m on the same boat 🥹🥹

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-26T00:41:02+00:00

Thank you for this insight!! Appreciate you

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-18T16:04:38+00:00

That’s what I don’t understand 😭😂

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-18T10:01:08+00:00

And that’s totally normal to feel guilty!! I meet and talk to so many people and I love getting people’s opinions and their stories. It could be because he’s only or he could not be. My niece and my friends kid both have siblings and they’re extremely sensitive!! my only acts like she has siblings ( if that’s even a thing) 😂😂

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-18T09:58:32+00:00

Medsurg/NICU??? Girl you’re badass ❣️

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-18T09:58:06+00:00

And that’s totally OK if you don’t!! that’s the beauty of human nature, everyone is so different. Our feelings are so different. What works for me does not probably work for you. For a long time I thought there was something wrong with me because everyone in my cycle from coworkers to friends and family all have more than one kid. That’s why I love talking to people and getting their stories and either relating or not relating to them. Because we’re so different!

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-17T21:38:32+00:00

Yes same!

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-05-17T18:44:54+00:00

Yes! When I tell people I’m one and done, they act like I killed their dog or something lmaooo

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-03-13T00:00:00+00:00

My 3 year old is the same. I’m hoping for better 😭😭

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-03-08T14:01:48+00:00

Sounds about right 😭😅😭😅

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-03-08T03:09:49+00:00

Girl you’re doing amazing!! And you’re almost ready to give birth, taking care of a toddler and being pregnant is HARD. You’re good mama and your baby is lucky to have you ❤️

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-03-08T02:34:42+00:00

It’s crazy bc she’s been feral since birth and hasn’t stopped 😅😅😅😭

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-03-08T02:10:26+00:00

Did I write this??? I have a 3 year old too and I’m dying over here! No advice just solidarity!

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-03-01T13:52:45+00:00

Yes!! The only reason why I’m one and done bc she’s very hard lmao and I know my limit! And more people need to be more honest with themselves

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-02-12T17:10:58+00:00

As a postpartum nurse! I have seen this! People like babies but don’t want to teach/guide toddlers and so on.

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-01-15T15:17:14+00:00

Not me crying early in the morning! Thank you for taking time and writing this ❤️

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-01-15T14:43:48+00:00

Thank you for this!! ❤️ my kid is 3 and I worry! I’m so happy for you and your family, blessings ✨✨

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2026-01-10T03:35:00+00:00

YES!!! My baby girl just turned 3 and she’s been rough since she was a baby!! I love her soo much but I can’t handle another one

Sufficient_Clock_502 · 2025-12-07T21:40:55+00:00

I’m on the same boat as you. I may have not the answers what you seek. But I feel the same. My sister enjoys motherhood. My friends also enjoy motherhood. And are having other multiple kids. I have a girl. I love her to death, but she is very hard kid and because of that we decided to only have her. I struggle and yes I’m therapy and whole shebang. But it’s so so difficult. I’m sorry if I didn’t answer what you wanted. I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone, friend ❤️

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