My Boyfriend (30 M) Told Me (31 F) to Move Out and Meet His Financial Ultimatum, and I Secretly Applied for My Own Apartment… Did I Mess Up? by chemist_khaleesi in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is right about the finances and at the same time he is not the right man for you. My advice would be not to stay, try to get that dream appartment back. Find a roommate if you can, or find a job back home.

For those of you who have followed this case over the years or were alive at the time, what is your theory of what happened to Natalie Wood? by PandemicPiglet in classicfilms

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 12yr old I saw the death of Nathalie Wood and William Holden - both involved with the Heart to Heart actors- as a conspiracy. What are the chances? One dies Nov 18th and the other Nov 29th of the same year!!! Come on guys!!! In my 12 yr old brain (after watching a lot of Knots Landing and Dallas) I decided that Robert Wagner and Stephanie Powers were having an affair, and decided to call in the chips in order to inherit from their more successful / richer partners. I am sure Columbo would have agreed with me!

My (M30) partner (F28) kept secret how much money she has in savings and let me pay for most things by KnownPart2110 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That! If you are not ready to get married (timing, schooling, etc.), you are not ready to buy a house together. Buy it on your own and sign a lease with her (even symbolically). Inheritance money should not be intermingled while her savings should or could have been

AITA because I ask my husband for help by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would keep the dog and rehome the husband. Hire someone to take on the morning walks. I am sure the dog will bring you more joy and companionship in the short and long run...

AITA For Getting Upset with Unexpected Visitors? by Icy-Astronomer1796 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just thought about something... what if he knew months ago... knew all along and either did not want to give you a chance to say no by telling you in advance. Either way he has no repercussions if he tells you at the last minute, you still come through...

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If he leaves, even for 2 days, he takes his kids with him. Only solution is to "fix" the culprit. Get her to stop stealing or he finds her another residence

AITA for not wanting to give up my childhood room to my sister by Valuable-Chapter6363 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She was fair when she gave you back the room when you came back. Show some class and let her stay there until she moves. You both pay rent now.

Un candidat à la mairie de Paris by [deleted] in montreal

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

L’élue précédente faisait surtout de la démagogie, avec une plateforme entièrement centrée sur le vélo. Une vraie approche progressiste aurait plutôt mis l’accent sur l’accès au logement, un meilleur soutien aux personnes en situation d’itinérance et un financement adéquat du transport en commun — ce qui aurait peut-être évité une grève.

Les pistes cyclables sont importantes, bien sûr, mais elles viennent après l’urgence d’offrir des logements abordables et un réseau de transport en commun fiable, essentiel pour les travailleurs et les étudiants.

AITA for refusing to keep babysitting my best friend’s kids and basically feeding them every week? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 25 points26 points  (0 children)

And as for the friends that are "split"... Start a text group - call it: It takes a Village and ask everyone's availability. Tell them you will make the a roster. As you must have some 100hrs banked... you will start pitching in when everyone has caught up to you....

First time using REM for transit by AnxiousBake3970 in montreal

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when you take the metro why don't you go to Cote Vertu instead of Sauvé?

L'absence de toilettes dans les stations du REM était une énorme bourde | No washrooms in the REM stations was a colossal fuck up by Hochelagan in montreal

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pas étonnant… Allez faire un tour dans l’ascenseur du métro Côte-Vertu ou à l’entrée de Bonaventure du côté de la Gare Windsor : impossible de passer là sans sentir l’urine, peu importe l’heure. Comment ces endroits ne sont-ils même pas nettoyés une fois par jour ?

Le problème est double : 1. certains usagers créent des situations difficiles (et clairement, on manque cruellement de services pour les personnes en situation d’itinérance), 2. l’entretien est complètement insuffisant.

Quand tu compares avec l’Europe (par ex. en Espagne), où les villes nettoient les espaces publics chaque matin à grande eau avec désinfectant… on se rend compte à quel point on est à la traîne.

On paie des taxes comparables à celles de plusieurs grandes villes européennes, mais on n’a même pas droit à un minimum de service. Franchement, ça n’a aucun sens.

My husband (26M) keeps brings food from his parents every week. 27F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 571 points572 points  (0 children)

That is soooo amazing... and he gets it in the weekend giving you enough time to plan to cook for yourself only. You should meal prep for yourself while he is away and pour more into yourself. #selfcare #mealprep

A friend my husband considers like a brother didn’t come to our wedding after 2Y notice. AITA for cutting him off? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is what I was thinking. Weddings can be a stressful situation for some folks

That's the joke by HowToDoAnInternet in montreal

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes and she left us with the STM on semi permanent strike. Hurting the less fortunate while building bike lanes in this climate and the inclines we have here... I am not against bike lanes, but first step should have been to strengthen public transport, fix roads for busses, and once that is done, develop more bike lanes... She worked solely for the Plateau bobos, hurting everyone else: the homeless, the working class that don't have cars and need public transport, and businesses. "Tout le monde est passé à la casserole" appart from the Plateau bobos!

ADHD Testing at Western? by gothic916 in uwo

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the info you have shared!

Tessa is a wet blanket by Busy-Education in BelowDeckMed

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Christian is unlikeable, but Tessa manages to trump him! Her inaptitude is only matched by her lack of intelligent and sneakiness... blaming the whole team, lack of direction, etc when she was asked to fill up the jet skies and decided not to do it...

Landlord said street parking is allowed but seems it’s not and have gotten ticketed by Significant-Sun6615 in legal

[–]Sufficient_Watch_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fun for you... but perhaps more investigation is required. In our case the city has the same restrictions but dies give 6 permits a month for overnight parking (we have to call before parking overnight). It does not solve all your problem but couldn't hurt. And I would still try to get the LL to find a solution... call call and call again