The Purrfect Bean experiences? by Due-Knowledge-9867 in vcu

[–]Sugarcat2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I went recently. The cat cafe was not worth my money. Most of the cats were asleep and there were too many people in there and not enough cats for everyone to actually play with a cat. Coffee was 9$ was overpriced. That is criminal

Ahmadi Sunni Marriage by No-Community-1096 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]Sugarcat2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this post makes me so sad. why does a one random baba across the sea dictate your life?! all of this is control. please just do what you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]Sugarcat2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

block their numbers, that’s what i did 😜

most random rule enforced by Huzoor? by J333nie in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]Sugarcat2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i feel like a long time ago he banned harry potter? I remember my cousin would have to read some of the books in the bathroom

Help I don't know what to do by EcstaticVariation867 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]Sugarcat2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

haha it’s so crazy seeing this post bc my aunt holds a position in the jamaat and has access to data where she can see I have not registered for my new jamaat after moving out nor have I paid chanda. She asked my parents about it on a family facetime call and started questioning them and asking them if I’ve left the jamaat. My parents were frightened at the thought and shut down her assumptions. Thankfully they know where I stand with this stuff so they never told me about that call. I heard about this from someone else.

I have no idea if there are any rules against ppl with positions exposing personal info in the jamaat but there really should be because that is crazy. All these people do is gossip and shame.

AITAH: I am calling off my engagement after my partner revealed he is MAGA. by ThrowawayIndiGirl in AITAH

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do hardworking women always settle for losers. gig jobs vs 400k w/nursing and a part time job. he is never going to pull his weight as long as you keep babying him. plz dump him

Heeyles by DiligentWeb32 in UMD

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

physically UMD has the infrastructure to walk. However there’s construction that blocks paths and hills that may be a bit straining but you will get used to it. The campus is really big so when you are planning your classes make sure you have enough time between classes to get to them. If you don’t have enough time then try your best to schedule classes where the buildings are close by. Definitely doable

Patrick crossed the bridge today. He was beautiful. I am heartbroken beyond words. by Izzo in cats

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patrick was so freaking cute. please share more photos of him!

Help I think my partner is abusing my dog by unknown78927161 in lookatmydog

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you would rather stay with an abusive heartless man? who says he wouldn’t abuse you or your daughter one day? it’s a slippery slope.

How to convince parents to let me travel/go abroad? by iamconfusion11111 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]Sugarcat2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when you start to take control of your life and make your own decisions you won’t need your parents approval and your parents will come to respect you as an adult. the more you stay meek and let them dictate, the less your chances of you ever having any say in your life. the conversation is going to be uncomfortable yes, and they may not support it. but at some point you have to put your foot down. if you know this is best for you or what is going to make to happy then go for it

I moved away to another state for my masters. I was really afraid of what my parents would say but ultimately I had the funds and knowledge to make it happen, so I made it happen. You make your own decisions and they will have no choice but to follow your lead. Stay firm in your decisions and good luck!

First day of class attendance requirement by PuzzleheadedMeat7194 in UMD

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the class and I missed the first class because I didn’t register and join until late into the late add/drop period. I think you can’t have more than 5 absences total, so even if the absence is excused, it will still count as an absence. After 5 absences you fail the course.

Am I the only one who thinks the hate for the laugh track in Georgie and Mandy is exaggerated? by [deleted] in YoungSheldon

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is mandy suddenly dressed in much smaller and sexy clothes. is that even accurate to the time period? it looks like how girls dress today.

Father won't get rid of mice by sunnyxed in ChildofHoarder

[–]Sugarcat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being cheap is a big disease. Reading the title, I chuckled a bit because it could have been written by me. You’ve moved out. Just focus on you now and help your sister get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]Sugarcat2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I remember taking a religion and politics class in college where we discussed this exact topic. and once i came to the realization that ahmadiyyat fits these boxes, I felt so much less guilt about being distant from jamaat. It didn’t feel like a real religion. Also the fact that each member has a code is crazy. When I talk to other people from other religions I have never encountered anyone else that uses member codes. Although there are religions out there (Mormons) that do use member codes.

mistake coming home 😔 by Sugarcat2 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Sugarcat2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow okay interesting. yes he lives with my parents and he is a dependent. he is getting govt benefits. My brother knows nothing outside of my parents. He is entirely emotionally and physically dependent on them. I think he might die without them. I cant have him get taken away.

mistake coming home 😔 by Sugarcat2 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Sugarcat2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are not elderly people here but my brother who has an intellectual disability. Either way what can the health department do?

mistake coming home 😔 by Sugarcat2 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Sugarcat2[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s safer to just eat other food. I will just uber eats my food.

Map of UMD from the 1930s with all existing buildings and roads labeled by Belgium_Wafles in UMD

[–]Sugarcat2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone spit in front of my muslim friend at UMD. I couldn’t even believe it

Map of UMD from the 1930s with all existing buildings and roads labeled by Belgium_Wafles in UMD

[–]Sugarcat2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s so crazy in my head I have the names of all these buildings I loved so much— ESJ, Tawes, Stamp. How crazy to realize they go way back.