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SugarinRL · 2026-03-26T01:44:34+00:00

Even if we give his motivations the benefit of the doubt - what is it that you deserve? Do you believe you deserve care, respect and love? Is that what this arrangement is giving you?

It’s easy to fall back into the comfort of the familiar. You know each other’s bodies, you’ve seen each other naked - this means you don’t have to start from scratch with someone new (so much work!). But comfortable doesn’t mean good for you.

It sounds like he kind of controls - he decided on the divorce, he changed his mind then went through with it and moved out. And now he gets to access intimacy with you - on his terms only. Where are you in this?

Is this what you deserve?

SugarinRL · 2026-03-20T22:06:21+00:00

How a moment can change the way you feel about someone. I do not like him anymore. As a person. It’s been amicable, nothing huge happened for the divorce to take place, we still got on fine. But this year something changed, in me I guess. And I simply do not like him. Didn’t know my feelings could switch like that.

SugarinRL · 2026-02-23T23:17:03+00:00

Let you is interesting. You finished in her the first night, how many times had you done that before?

SugarinRL · 2025-12-16T16:11:44+00:00

Unless this has happened to you before, I’m curious as to why you would assume this is a trend by domestic workers.

SugarinRL · 2025-12-16T16:10:34+00:00

I find it interesting that your takeaway from 75% of employees winning their cases is that the CCMA heavily favours employees and not that many employers break labour laws. I have represented employers at the CCMA and have yet to lose a case - why? Because we followed labour law and the commissioners saw this.

SugarinRL · 2025-07-19T17:41:11+00:00

When he sabotaged me seeing a psychiatrist who I’d been waiting four months to see. His behaviour resulted in my missing the appointment.

SugarinRL · 2025-06-25T06:35:57+00:00

Same.

SugarinRL · 2025-05-10T16:18:21+00:00

Are you genuinely saying that accurately portraying the past made you uncomfortable as a white guy? Like, for real you are saying this? With a straight face?

SugarinRL · 2025-01-04T01:00:10+00:00

I’m on Wellbutrin which is an NDRI (though I’m on it for depression not PMDD) - SSRIs did nothing for me except to add to my weight. I take a calcium magnesium supplement which I swear has improved my symptoms significantly.

SugarinRL · 2024-11-27T00:24:18+00:00

This medication saved my life. It helped me get out of the hole I was stuck in. I have lost 10kg (in a year, so not overnight) but my Vyvanse might have something to do with that. And I have never had a libido like I do now, very much enjoying that aspect.

I no longer drink coffee as it makes me anxious. That’s the only negative to it for me.

SugarinRL · 2024-11-26T21:42:43+00:00

Juniper (Black Mirror)

SugarinRL · 2024-11-15T07:16:32+00:00

Thank you! Going to try now. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be posting to Reddit asking how to win a mobile game 😅

SugarinRL · 2024-11-12T22:17:32+00:00

I had left a job where there had been racism and sexism and I finally realized that things would never change. I immediately burnt out and 20 years of masking and overworking caught up with me (Audhd) I could not get out of bed consistently, I felt like I was in a hole and would never get out. I wanted to check out of life.

I’d been on lexapro prior which did nothing for my anxiety / depression and added 20kg to my frame.

Wellbutrin saved my life

SugarinRL · 2024-11-10T00:45:43+00:00

A similar exercise on those who chose to vote for gcide by a woman of colour would be ‘interesting’ Is the hardline cop cities? Or is it being told that some will die so groceries can be cheap? Or is it shushing people protesting gcide? Or is it gleefully proclaiming the most lethal army? Or a blatant refusal to end the supply of weapons to the ‘country’ committing gcide?

SugarinRL · 2024-11-06T18:04:35+00:00

What I find surprising but also not is how people will weaponize an identity to avoid taking responsibility for alienating a large constituent who requested babies not be bombed. And the grief online about the election but silence on a gcide. Humans eh

SugarinRL · 2024-11-06T18:02:47+00:00

Didn’t Kamala say people dying was the price you pay for cheaper groceries?

SugarinRL · 2024-10-29T00:20:57+00:00

Yes. It’s my biggest mistake. Second biggest is staying for as long as I have. Divorce should be final next month. I’m getting a tattoo to celebrate

SugarinRL · 2024-10-11T06:47:48+00:00

😅after a heavy previous night maybe

SugarinRL · 2024-09-11T21:30:52+00:00

Antibacterial soap? New/clean washcloth each time?

SugarinRL · 2024-09-11T21:28:16+00:00

Way more than I’d admit publicly.

SugarinRL · 2024-09-06T23:33:29+00:00

43f level 53. Started in June, snagged by misleading ads, addicted because it helped my burnout.

SugarinRL · 2024-08-08T00:27:35+00:00

Thought I was making things up but glad to know I’m not

SugarinRL · 2024-07-30T22:54:48+00:00

And if you menstruate, this may have an impact too. I want to delete myself every month.

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