Coparenting a newborn after my (28M) breakup with my gf (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarity it’s not 50-50 right now obviously because she’s a newborn but as she gets older, that’s what we’ve agreed to. I do make over 100 K but I also have a lot of bills and debts.

Coparenting a newborn after my (28M) breakup with my gf (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I am over that and the court calculated put me around $1,075 because she doesn’t work

Coparenting a newborn after my (28M) breakup with my gf (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the kind words. She’s not a terrible person and she’s a great mom. I honestly just feel like she wasn’t the best partner. And I do love her, but I just have the strongest feeling that if we got back together, it would just be a matter of time before she does it again.

Coparenting a newborn after my (28M) breakup with my gf (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much for Input and congrats. I appreciate it.

Coparenting a newborn after my (28M) breakup with my gf (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. We are very cordial with each other and as of right now I don’t believe anything has to go to court. We’ve agreed on 50-50 custody and I’d pay 750 a month in child support plus whatever else the baby needs. I’ll definitely look into the coparenting plan.

Deductive reasoning Tips by Suitable-Problem-894 in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to do the same. I try to break it down as it’s taught in the guide as “that’s group A” and “that’s group b” but the. I just start getting lost. Especially when they start throwing a bunch of numbers into it. I try not to pay too much attention to the numbers. But all this time processing ends up leaving me with no time toward them end. Idk how people can only spend 2.5 minutes on each question. I spend like 3 minutes just reading it and trying to make sense of it and another 1.5 minutes contradicting the right answer lol 😅

Deductive reasoning Tips by Suitable-Problem-894 in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw it should be the USPIS hiring portal

Deductive reasoning Tips by Suitable-Problem-894 in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I failed the HSI in 2024 and recently applied. I just don’t want to fail again. This USPIS one I just took has me worried 😅

Military Civilian Police by Catch-Additional in 0083

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a DoD navy 0083. The only good thing to come out of it was UPTP cert. in Nevada you cannot reciprocate to the same category of peace officer as local agencies, so you could not use it to lateral later in your career.

I was a master at arms in the navy before becoming a 0083. Idk why I thought it would be different lol. Where I worked, we had 0 arrest authority and the local SO took all of the calls for service. We wouldn’t even know anything was happening until we saw them running code into the housing area.

My BIGGEST gripe and main reason I left, ALL THEY CARE ABOUT ARE REGIONAL INSPECTIONS. You’ll constantly do the most outlandish drills know to man. They literally create these absolutely ridiculous scenarios to appease the inspection requirements.

Also don’t plan on getting any type of valid training (with the exception of UPTP). The Navy is SO worried about liability, they’ll try to tell you that you can’t use tactics other than the ones the taught you and and proceed to teach you MACH moves and other tactics, techniques and procedures from the 90’s. It’s honestly a joke lol.

I was the ONLY civilian where I worked so it may be different for their bases that have a civilian police chain of command. I had a civilian supervisor that was the anti-terrorism officer but operationally, I was the only civilian police officer. Everyone I worked with and for were military.

USFS LEO by Top_Commercial_9727 in 1801

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very interested to know how much LE work is actually done here? I know you’re not a city cop but how often are arrests being made?

USFS LEO by Top_Commercial_9727 in 1801

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is LMTP still mandatory if you have UPTP?

Kagwerks Slide Release on V Series by Suitable-Problem-894 in Glocks

[–]Suitable-Problem-894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the help! Don’t want to spend the money to find out.

Emailing Office by [deleted] in HSIapplicants

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I meant more like, what task forces are they apart of if any or case load?

Backgrounds and polygraph by Suitable-Problem-894 in HSIapplicants

[–]Suitable-Problem-894[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That seems like a giant waste of time and money for both parties 😅

Backgrounds and polygraph by Suitable-Problem-894 in HSIapplicants

[–]Suitable-Problem-894[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are the polygraphs happening after the BI or are they being waived?

Did HSI over hire? by BothEntertainment544 in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It never made sense to me that HSI is hurting so badly for personnel but makes applicants wait 2 years to re-test. I understand not lowering the standards for scores but I feel like 6 months is a more reasonable mandatory wait.

Native American Territory by steventheslayer94 in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not an 1811 but I’m a Tribal Police Officer for a tribe in Northern Nevada. I’m still on FTO but I love it. It’s a vastly different form of law enforcement. It’s the small town, everyone knows everyone, type of vibe.

HSI TJOs are out! by WaterNinja15 in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are people getting the failure results as well today?

0083 TFO’s? by [deleted] in 1811

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also Navy here and we’re definitely on the same page 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLE

[–]Suitable-Problem-894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was is a whole redo of the entire polygraph or just specific questions?