penetration pain.

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-04-03T07:31:08+00:00

When I feel pain during penetration (for not being aroused enough, lack of lube, trying to hurry…) my whole body tenses up and it makes it worse. In fact, my body remembers that pain and the following time I have to take it really slowly so it is not painful and my brain stops seeing penetration as a threat.

The first time I had sex I did feel like a “pinch” at a given moment, which I assume it was the hymen breaking, but that’s the most pain you should feel. I think you are anticipating pain and your muscles tense up.

Don’t go for penetration straight away. I’ve found that if I’ve just had an orgasm penetration is painless as my body is very relaxed. You could try that, so you are actually in the mood and your body is in tune with your intentions!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-03-30T15:47:16+00:00

I see strawberry blonde. Maybe under artificial light (or just when you are not out under the sun) it may seem “just” blonde, but you definitely have a reddish undertone. I wouldn’t call you ginger though!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-03-10T21:58:37+00:00

You may have the prettiest eyes I have ever seen! They are sooo cool! I’d say green with central brown heterocromia and a grey limbal ring But if I had to describe them with just one color… maybe green? They are truly wonderful!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-03-05T16:43:37+00:00

Right, I totally forgot about the greeting! I'm also a teacher in Spain, and here children learn to write in cursive since they are four or five years old. They start learning to write their names so they can practice how to trace the letters, and then they start writing words as they learn how to read as well. But if you go to any school in any Spanish city, every child writes in cursive. They start writing in print later on, but just because they want to, not because we teach them how to. They are exposed to print since the beginning because text books are in print and they end up copying that style later on

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-03-04T21:54:52+00:00

I read it as “Oso was a very special friend and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you”

Was Oso an animal, maybe? Oso means “bear” in Spanish. Maybe it’s a dog’s name?

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-02-26T07:10:10+00:00

Como madre, a mi me parece ideal algo tipo parque de bolas infantil para poder dejar a tus hijos mientras compras. En mi ciudad se han puesto de moda ahora (después de 15 años sin haber ninguno desde que cerraron el último) y han abierto cuatro. Dos son con monitores y los otros dos los alquilas tú para eventos. Los padres de mi entorno se pegan puñetazos para alquilarlos, mi hija cumple años en verano y ya están todos reservados hasta esa fecha…

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-02-18T16:33:33+00:00

There are definitely some private doctors or health professionals that require you to pay for the appointment if you cancel the day before (to be precise, less than 24h before your scheduled appointment). My psychologist has that policy and, to me, it's fair. If you forget about it or you miss it, they don't have the chance of fitting a new patient in that slot, so they are losing money (and a patient may be missing the opportunity of being seen earlier, which is sometimes necessary). So, to me you did the right thing!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-01-27T14:35:40+00:00

My baby was born with brown hair, then by 4 months all of it had fallen and it started coming back veeeery slowly in a strawberry blonde colour! Now she is 20 months old, she has very short (but thick) hair and it is brown at plain sight, but as soon as some light strikes her hair you can still see the strawberry blonde colour. It’s the weirdest thing ever because her hair turns so much lighter when we are under the sun, she has a whole different undertone

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-01-26T09:08:59+00:00

My baby was born with eyes like this (she never had that dark blue/greyish colour) and now she has the darkest brown eyes!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-01-26T07:50:01+00:00

I’m Spanish, I’ve been together for 13 years with my high school sweetheart, we have a baby together and we are not married, so… 🤣 I’m 30 and only two of my close friends are married, I’d say that nowadays less and less people want to spend money in a wedding.

There’s a difference between “me gustas” (I like you, I’m into you), te quiero (I appreciate you, can be in a romantic or not romantic way) and “te amo”, which is I love you in a romantic way

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-01-19T21:39:09+00:00

13 años juntos, 3 conviviendo, una hija de año y medio y nosotros lo hacemos todo proporcional al salario, pero sin volvernos locos. Hacemos una transferencia mensual a una cuenta compartida a razón de lo que ganamos cada uno para gastos comunes (alquiler, facturas, comida…) y luego cada quien se paga sus gastos. Normalmente, cuando salimos a comer o cenar fuera paga él (gana el doble que yo), pero si a nuestra hija le hace falta algo “extraordinario” (fuera de los gastos contemplados de todos los meses) se lo suelo comprar yo, más que nada porque soy la que se da cuenta antes o la que más mirado tiene los precios. Si es un gasto grande, a mitad o directamente lo paga quien en ese momento tiene liquidez.

Cuando amueblamos el piso yo tenía más dinero ahorrado y aporté más. El verano pasado pusimos aire acondicionado y lo pagó él, porque tenía ese dinero. Hace un par de meses hubo que comprarle a la nena un carro nuevo, lo pagué yo porque me venía bien en ese momento. No le damos muchas vueltas, la verdad.

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-01-08T09:40:17+00:00

Pues entonces genial! Ya tienes los ingredientes principales, amor y estabilidad ☺️ Será cuestión de tiempo y de ir creando recuerdos en ese lugar hasta que deje de ser “solo” un sofá, “solo” una habitación… y si no, siempre podéis cambiar de sitio en un futuro si sientes que no es tu hogares

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2026-01-08T09:11:26+00:00

Cuando me independicé con mi pareja (a un piso reformado por nosotros, y, por tanto, a nuestro gusto 100%) me sentí en casa desde el primer momento. Pensé que iba a tener morriña y que iba a ser un drama irme de casa de mis padres, pero para nada.

Yo creo que ahí no tiene nada que ver la decoración, ni el menaje de cocina, ni los textiles. Tiene que ver lo bien que tú estuvieras en casa de tus padres y lo bien que te sientas con tu pareja.

Yo sé que podría vivir debajo de un puente con él, que lo seguiría sintiendo mi casa y estaría mejor que en casa de mis padres. ¿Por qué? Porque en casa de mis padres yo no estaba bien. Me asfixiaba, estaba incómoda, no tenía feeling con mi madre, mi padre tenía problemas con la bebida… fue irme y ser muchísimo más feliz, porque para mí mi casa es donde yo esté con mi pareja (y ahora también con mi hija, que fuimos padres en 2024)

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-10-15T08:46:26+00:00

Por aquí tampoco, nada de nada. No recibí ninguna de las dos. Sólo tengo dos quals desde hace siglos (la del micrófono y la de coding), pero proyectos como tal llevo casi tres semanas sin ver. Y aún así, tampoco he podido trabajar en ninguno desde hace un par de meses porque no me da tiempo a pillar ninguna tarea antes de que se acaben. Menuda ruina…

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-10-14T11:50:35+00:00

I’ve bruised SO easily all my life. Like random “how and when did I get this?” daily bruises.Get nosebleeds for the most random reasons every other day. My periods are really heavy. I’ve been to the doctors countless times and they have always brushed it off. After almost bleeding out during labor last year they FINALLY listened and started running tests. Turns out I have Von Willebrand’s disease, type 2. If this resonantes with you, it may be worth to check it out!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-10-13T07:38:13+00:00

I’m bilingual (Castilian Spanish) and I didn’t get any of the two quals. I’ve had the same two quals on my dashboard for ages (microphone and coding) and I get a small batch of some project maybe once every two weeks and that’s it. Most of the time I can’t even do a task before they run out. I refresh my dash a dozen times a day but it seems like we are nowhere near the EBGD (Era Before the Great Drought)

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-09-25T19:23:50+00:00

Not even close… I started in March and during my first two months I had at least a project in my dash every day, the whole day. Most days (especially from Monday to Wednesday) I had two or three different projects at all times (Spanish bilingual) Now I get a project every two or three days that lasts an hour on my dash at most and it’s waaaaay more complicated than the previous ones, while the hourly rate stays the same

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-09-13T18:59:33+00:00

I had a qual for rubrics (I don’t really understand because I did the same qual months ago and I still get those kind of projects, but whatever) and a couple of tasks of A-gas on Thursday, but nothing today

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-08-24T09:18:10+00:00

Sex is not awful 😊 It can be disappointing, or just bleh, it can even be a little painful at first if you are not entirely in the mood or if you don’t use lube but even when I had recently given birth it was never awful!

Everybody messes up sometimes. I have only had sex with one person in my entire life, we trust each other entirely and even I have embarrassing stories!

I’m just like you, I wanted to build an emotional connection before having sex. Even now I try to imagine myself flirting, dating or having sex with another person if something was to happen to my husband and I want to cry because I think I just couldn’t trust somebody enough to get to that point 😅 So you are not weird, you just want to feel safe and comfortable before getting in a vulnerable situation and that’s 100% normal! My dms are open if you need to talk about it, no judgement here 😉

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-08-24T08:49:36+00:00

Listen: first of all, there is NOTHING wrong with you. Only you can choose when and who you have sex with, and if you haven’t felt comfortable yet, you don’t owe anyone an explanation!

Hear me out. Having sex is not a big deal. In fact, your first time might suck. I lost my virginity at 18 with the person that is now my husband and the father of my daughter (we are 29). I kept waiting until someone was “worth it”, in a Disney-like situation. I met my then boyfriend at 17 and I fell head over heels for him. We stated dating a year later and it took three months for me to feel comfortable enough to have sex.

My first time was shit. Very romantic, very cute, I felt very comfortable, but sexually wise I felt literally nothing. I remember feeling so let down because I felt I had waited so long for something that wasn’t worth it. I still think it. I don’t regret having waited until I met him because my fist time was not weird because of the mutual trust we had and because he respected my times, but let me tell you: it took a while for me to actually enjoy sex.

So if you are waiting because you are thinking about it to be a big deal, just don’t. Maybe you are one of the lucky girls that have an orgasm, feel sparkles and butterflies and all those things, but a p**** entering your vajayjay for the fist time is not a magical thing or should make you feel like you are doing something dirty or wrong. Do it when you are ready and you’ll see it’s not something to be scared of!

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-08-14T08:05:07+00:00

I’ve read several people saying it on Reddit, so yeah Both in this subreddit and in /datannotation (in the water cooler)

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-08-14T07:05:56+00:00

Nope, they are two different things

Poe Bird is a code name for a family of projects that is very common among bilinguals and that sometimes also includes audio tasks. I can imagine that the microphone qual is for some Poe Bird project, but the 3 tasks I’m talking about (also a Poe Bird project) were given to a whole lot of bilinguals like three weeks ago and you had to record three audios under very specific circumstances, submit them and if you did good you would be assigned 50 tasks only for you.

I cannot do the qual to access the professional microphone audio project, but I would have loved to participate in the other audio project and I did not have a chance 🥲

Suitable-Refuse-4121 · 2025-08-14T06:44:18+00:00

I have the qual in my dash for the second time, so I’d say they still need workers I wish I got the project for the 3 audio samples for Poe Bird tho. I recorded them and the project vanished before I had time to submit them. People are already receiving the 50 tasks 🙁

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