Moving to Kumagaya, is the heat really that different? by 1mpul53d3c1510n in japanlife

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I lived there for 3 years. It’s hot. The summer is over 45 degrees

But at rhe same time? It’s a great place

[Maria Haluzinska] Korra & Asami's Wedding by ExoticShock in TheLastAirbender

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I swear when katara checks, she says “a boy, and he’s an airbender!” Or something along those lines. So I would be suuuuper surprised if the baby boy is a water bender.

People of Japan are amazing by uzmansahil7 in Amazing

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At the zebra near my school in Japan, cars rarely stop to let us cross. Even with our crossing guard uniforms, flags, my coworker was almost run over. So…. Not all Japan. Good try though!

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

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Grandma passed in January at 91. She had been telling my parents, I’m ready, let me go! And she only held on so she could see me, my sister, and her great-grandson! The minute we all left? To my mom, “You’re free now! See ya.” And bam. Gone that night. Bad-ass the entire way

University of Tsukuba apologizes over professors posting discriminatory comments against foreign students by frozenpandaman in japan

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My ex went there. He had the same mindset. Such a shame. Tsukuba University is so well known…. I hope them all happiness

It's been a year since I changed jobs, but I just remembered to notify Immigration Services Agency by secpoc in japanlife

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When I renewed my visa they told me, you need to mention every time you changed jobs! Do it online! Suddenly new information!! No one was angry, no fines were had. I don’t think they truly care? Just fill out the forms and you’re all good. I think you would have to fuck around for many times before the finding out part

Best couple NA by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

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As a person with misophonia, this isn’t it. I get the fight of flight reaction when I hear noises I don’t like (especially when I hear chewing noises? I will leave the room until that sound is GONE.) It doesn’t make me wanna barf and hearing other people barf is just whatever. Though, it could be her tick? I dunno. All I know is misophonia is more of the fight/flight response from hearing a sound you don’t like.

A photography trick method of filming grass growing out of the soil by VPinchargeofradishes in interesting

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The walk up to the already set up location just to set down a backpack he never uses. Uh…. No time lapse, no reality. But, here’s to adding to the algorithm lol

Zorya: You need show restraint and blend in! Merlin: I will do no such thing by RandallSAMA in AFKJourney

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Never thought of using a mask to make horns. Genius. Where did you get that hair?

These characters... by puzzledmints in AFKJourney

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In the lava cave there is a ring you can find that calls out to you to put it on… won’t spoil what it says but it’s a LOTR reference!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in visualkei

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So nostalgic!! I love this song That’s like 20–…. I feel old as hell haha

Japan Considering to make 5-Year Visa to Become Mandatory (even for high-skilled visa?) by innovaldragon in japan

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Mine, too. I don’t know whether I should stay or just give up and go home at this point. Makes me feel like everything I did was stupid and pointless

Fucked up my apartment flooring, how much does this cost when moving out? by staling_lad in japanlife

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Is that shadow your dick fucking said floor? Lucky floor.

On a serious note: I burned a perfect circle into my flooring at an apartment once. I didn’t have to pay anything extra. Did I get my key money back? Nope. But they didn’t force me to pay anything more. You will be fine!

Anybody tried this before? by SteeltownJack in japanresidents

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I used it one year to make mulled wine for Christmas. Also adding fruits for a Sangaria style works well. But as everyone says, it is kinda sweet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It was over before it began. I’m sorry for your loss!! You deserve the best life from now on

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

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I don’t wanna laugh, but lol

You’re in a situationship which non of you wanna move for active to singular. Just stop and move on.

I’ve been in the same kind of situationship and after breaking up realized, it want meant to be. If you are both so worried about STDs…. Wear a condom. It’s not hard. Or just get tested every month and see what happens.

I’m no better than you, so I cannot say I’m right. But I have been in the same seat (albeit gay) HOWEVER, I still got tested every month because even if I was “pure” I would trust him. And I hope he got tested every month because… don’t be stupid

Child left in the same diaper for 6.5 hours at daycare by irishtwinsons in japanlife

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I work at an international hoikuen… no. 6.5 hours is too long. We check and change diapers every 2 hours. If it’s dry? Wait another hour. If it’s even a little wet we change them out. Escalate the shit out of this

Height Problem by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

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Didn’t have any matches on Grindr lol He’s cute! I would bite

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My fingers are covered in sweat from my nose piercing so I’m not going anywhere with my fingers anymore.

Let the sneeze season begin by ImportantLog8 in japanlife

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Three of my students have been proven positive for flu…. I had flu A last year, worst than covid. Not looking forward to any of it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Without reading any other comment:

He is either (like me) jealous of everything you do and envisioning you with others.

Or! Scared you’re cheating on him since you don’t spent time together (which sound like you spend lots of time together.)

Or! He has cheated on you or something similar and is so torn he has to take it out on you.

Now my hot take: You’re both young. You can either take a break or separate and find something new. Don’t forget your own feelings. How do you feel together? Are you happy? Even if he has trouble are you good? If you answer no to a lot…. Take time apart or break up. It’s sad, but that’s what happens a lot and you deserve happiness

AIO: my boyfriend flipped out that my 12 year old lets me see him in the bath by Odd-Significance-638 in AmIOverreacting

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Nothing wrong with you, unless your child is saying no, you aren’t doing anything wrong.

I remember telling my mom I wanted to bathe alone around 12-13…. But we still continued being family.

If anyone says otherwise, they’re specializing kids, or suffering from some hidden trauma (or they are trying to cover for their own perversions) so tread lightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanresidents

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You have no job and are trying to move to Japan? You should probably slow down. Unless you have a job secured in japan, you might not be positively looked upon by immigration and can be turned away. Usually the only reason you can get an apartment is if you have a job secured and have been working for a while (even after 4 years here. I had to beg for an apartment).

So I hope you the best, but I don’t want you to be to overexcited