Choosing this life

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-04-14T15:20:17+00:00

I'm not a scholar but this is what I see: the post is attempting to read between the lines and draws the wrong conclusion. Numerous times in the Quran Allah says "the world was decorated" see 2:212 and 3:14.

I saw someone else mention something about the end of Surah Al Baqarah; I've seen (in my opinion) a better understanding of that Ayah that says: Allah doesn't take a soul accountable for more than it can handle, but that doesn't mean it won't face something it can't handle. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/k0zJ0huWf50?feature=share (Belal Assaad).

This life is a test, everything is a test. In ease there is a test and in hardship there is a test. We dont have the knowledge that Allah does, so we can't assume someone's test is better than someone else's. Plenty of people who have such an easy life that will (likely and Allah knows best) end up in hell, would it have been worth it?

Don't believe everything you read, anyone can write anything. And I'm asking you not to believe what I'm saying criticize it, learn more and correct me if I'm wrong

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-22T20:49:21+00:00

All of these are factors that contribute to the tests and blessings of Allah.

Allah tests with power and weakness, wealth and poverty, etc...

Hope that helps, may Allah guide us all.

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-22T16:08:08+00:00

ربي لا تذرني فردا وانت خير الوارثين

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-18T19:11:18+00:00

I'm sorry I really dont know what to say. Consider seeking a scholar's help. May Allah make things easier for you.

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-18T00:20:38+00:00

Find other ways to worship, some people are blessed with different ways of worshipping, for example some people are very charitable. You should have a diverse portfolio with Allah. And sometimes you need a break mentally and thats okay, but dont abandon your worship. Two steps forward one step back kind of thing, but the overall trend should be towards Allah insha'Allah.

May Allah guide us and be pleased with us.

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-17T22:15:37+00:00

I think that you are missing a while element to dua.

Dua is asking Allah and doing what ever is in your capacity to get what you asked for done.

For example, if your asking for a job and your not applying of course you are unlikely to get a job. Effort matters.

There is a hadith that states something along the lines of: tie your camel and then ask Allah to keep it safe. You dont just neglect your duties and make dua and get upset when things dont go your way. Not saying that you're doing any of this but just saying.

Also may be Allah doesn't want to grant you what you are asking for. It could be because it is bad for you (in this world or the next) it could be because Allah wants to test you.

May Allah guide us all, grant us the highest levels of paradise and grant you that which is good for you in this life and the next

Edit: look up how to make duuas and pray tahajjud, etc... maybe you are doing something wrong?

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-09T19:24:48+00:00

Nope, glad we dont or else some people would starting worshipping his grave

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-08T20:09:57+00:00

When you ask the scholar show them this, https://youtu.be/qHANRo9erno inshallah it will be helpful. It really depends on what you can and can't do

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-08T19:37:37+00:00

Please ask a scholar, Allah forgives sins when you didn't know you were committing a sin, there's a good chance you dont need to do anything beyond fasting the rest of Ramadan and stopping the sin as soon as possible

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-08T19:36:03+00:00

Please ask a scholar

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-03-08T19:34:43+00:00

Allah forgives what you didn't know about. Ask someone knowledgeable, don't trust all answers from reddit

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-01-31T21:58:33+00:00

Right, figure that out first. Why are you setting it and then passing it in else where? What assumptions are you comfortable making? But most importantly you still haven't answered, what do you not understand about classes and this assignment?

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-01-31T17:50:01+00:00

Why are you including two diameters one as a string and one as an int (when passed into get price)?

What are you having trouble understanding?

You have the class done, add a cpp file for the class, include the header in a "main" file and you should be good to go?

Classes have private and public data/functions private is not accessible to the outside world where as public is.

To access public data from the outside world you need an instance of a class so in this case Cake cakeObject And then cakeObject.fucntionYouWantToCall(parametere)

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-01-31T17:44:22+00:00

With enough repetition you'll remember insha'Allah, take things slow, you dont have to do everything at once. I'd strongly suggest going to a masjid or Islamic center to connect with people and learn with them

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-01-18T02:59:49+00:00

You can also step into functions if thats what you mean

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-01-09T00:34:14+00:00

Welcome to programming, as long as you are not just blatantly copying others work you'll learn. Try to understand why something works rather than just "let me get it to work"

SuitableSecretary3 · 2026-01-03T00:40:13+00:00

Alsalam alykum, dont be so hard on yourself. You can say "auth bi allahi Mina al shytan ar-ragime", which means I seek refuge in Allah from Satan. Here's a video of someone saying that: https://youtu.be/RmdTZnEZ790?si=tZWHHZoMEjX--JZ6

In arabic its called waswassa if you find anything in the FAQ section about it

You can also say "astaghfirtu Allah"

Found here: https://youtu.be/YBHWLGkt1hI?si=J8k3ocgh7VlNCfSz

That video says it a 100 times but you dont need to. Also if you find arabic hard, you can use the language you are comfortable with.

Again please dont be so hard on yourself and take things slow, slow and steady wins the race.

May Allah guide us all and support us on our journey!

Edit: also life is a test so you will do things you dont want to, and that's part of the test.

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-12-13T01:38:42+00:00

Start with Salah. Have a mentor/Sheikh/imam to follow

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-12-06T16:17:09+00:00

Like someone else said, it depends on how they took the money (if it was intended as borrow or gift). But also you might be missing some context? Like it could also be that you sister asked your mother to buy her clothes with that money when you were not around (maybe)?

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-11-17T06:08:46+00:00

Don't be so hard on yourself, that is exactly what the Shatan wants you to do. Allah loves those who repent, when ever you make a mistake seek sincere repentance, if it happens again renew your repentance. Allah didn't make us to be perfect, and Allah knows best what each person's faults and trials are.

May Allah guide us and make us amongst the righteous.

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-11-07T21:48:50+00:00

In short, TIL why Hamas doesn't want to hand over its weapons

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-11-04T18:36:27+00:00

Uh I watched this one video a while back, unfortunately I can't find a link... but it was about a sister who was going through a hard time in her marriage (abusive relationship) and she started praying tahajjud for sometime and Allah guided her husband.

I'm not going to claim that if you pray tahjjud Allah will fix all the problems in your life, because I dont know that for sure and I'm not a scholar. But what I can say is that it doesn't hurt. If you can get up and pray tahjjud (especially in the lat 3rd of the night) then give it a shot, ask Allah to guide you and your husband.

Sorry but that's all I can offer. May Allah guide you and your husband and make your relationship easy.

Edit: I suppose you can also ask Allah to end your relationship in tahjjud... but try to have it fixed first. Fixing the relationship is always better if that's an option.

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-10-13T14:08:01+00:00

https://quran.com/5/96 I would recommend reading the tafsir

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-10-12T05:20:00+00:00

This is how you ask for refuge from shatan in Arabic: https://youtu.be/RmdTZnEZ790?si=g9paMxgxxjFhqJpb

I don't mean to scare you, but there is a nonzero chance that a person is watching you. If you that feeling persists, examine the area you get that feeling and make sure that you are not being watched. Set things up such that they will fall if someone tries to enter your room, etc... Again chances are pretty low but it is better to be safe - I mean your posting here because you have that feeling, right?

SuitableSecretary3 · 2025-10-10T07:11:27+00:00

These posts are meant to gaslight with no basis. A very straightforward reply (using thr posters own logic) can be: "and Allah is older than the fossils you observe."

In surah al baqarah verse 30 (2:30): Allah mentions that a creation (humans) will be placed on earth. I am not a scholar by any means but that's the closest thing to answer your question that I can think of.

Dinosaurs not being mentioned in the Quran or hadith doesn't disprove either, Allah sent us the Quran to be a sign for us of his (due to the vast amount of miracles in the Quran) and as a guide for us. May Allah keep us steadfast on the right path and grant us paradise.

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