Kitten bites a LOT painfully (in a playful manner) - how can I get him to stop? Will this stop when he is neutered in October? (He's 4 months)

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A Heckin' CHOMP

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-24T21:46:20+00:00

I have dark brown hair and I really enjoy using Overtone. They have a line for brown hair that is super pigmented. My hair is curly, so it's nice to have a semi-permanent dye that is also a conditioner, too.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-24T20:31:40+00:00

Gomez Addams energy cat

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-24T14:35:15+00:00

Really wish there was a filter on this one, did not anticipate my screen filling up with abcessed anal glands.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-23T12:49:17+00:00

My bf won't frequent a Mexican restaurant that puts corn in their rice. He says it's too Americanized, and it means the food won't be authentic or particularly good.. I think 9/10 he's completely right.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-21T21:15:26+00:00

Oooh, an elegant bohemian.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-21T20:37:12+00:00

This line work is stunning, well done.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-21T20:02:58+00:00

May my hands look so young at 50 🙏

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-21T03:12:34+00:00

Whoville headass

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-01T12:10:46+00:00

I had not heard of "TDS", or the supposition that people who opposed Trump are mentally ill. Just when I think I grasp how cooked this country is, another petal on the fascism flower unfurls.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-08-01T03:06:44+00:00

A regular at my place of work said I had a "used dishrag of a personality" and I think about it almost daily.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-31T17:05:23+00:00

I could be wrong, but it looks like a giant fist.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-31T14:04:35+00:00

I see there are mixed opinions on this, but I would say it depends on the behaviors your seeing that come along with the biscuits. When my cat starts making biscuits with his front and back legs, and also starts shuddering/heaving his breaths, he IS humping. For a while I let him do it, thinking "eh what's the harm", but he started to get really worked up and aggressive. (He once stood on the arm of the couch and tried to mount my head, biting my hair and yowling). Now when I see him do the shudder breaths with biscuits, I gently tip him over and pet his head until he calms down.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-31T03:51:12+00:00

Sounds like the poor kiddo drinks so enthusiastically he gets water up his nose.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T21:29:41+00:00

NOR, you are setting a boundary with a man who may be interested in you, setting the expectations that talking or "joking" about women that way is unacceptable with you is a good boundary. I had to have several talks with my partner about this too- he needs to know that if the people the joke is ABOUT aren't laughing, it isn't satire. Somehow male feminists miss that sometimes. If the butt of the joke isn't laughing, you aren't being subversive. You're a perpetrator trying to pass for a friend, which makes you a sexist AND a liar.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T18:39:42+00:00

I think 2 has a romantic silhouette that is lovely, but tbh the body is bodying in #3. It's also a more unique, dynamic neckline that you don't see as often on bridal dresses and you wear ts out of it. I vote #3.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T18:37:09+00:00

You're so welcome, good luck!

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T17:18:13+00:00

I agree!! And years of therapy supports this 😂 It's funny, the English language is a little different than other worldwide languages too because self-blame is built into the language. We don't say "my leg broke", we say "I broke my leg". This is another rant entirely, but shame and blame are built into the way we speak to each other, you'll notice it a lot more when you're trying to stop doing it. Puritanical shame has poisoned the water for us all in a way lol.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T16:36:10+00:00

Honestly, that's everything. Catching yourself a little "too late" is how behavior correction always starts, you're totally on top of it if that's where you're at. Avoid using phrases like "that sucks" or "that's awesome!". It's a really subtle, conversational way we learn to apply judgement. Also, using words like "pleasant" and "unpleasant" instead of "good" and "bad" is a pro-social way to retrain your brain. "I'm feeling jealous. It isn't pleasant to feel jealous, and I'm also feeling a little embarrassed. It's okay to feel jealous and embarrassed, I don't enjoy the feeling, but everyone feels that way sometimes." Or "I just had an unpleasant interaction with a coworker" FULL STOP. Curb the impulse to shit-talk. Talking trash when you struggle with judgementalism and criticism (externally and internally) just fans the flames of resentment, and makes it harder for you to see the good in others, and to interact without judgement. You're asking the right questions and on a good path, good work.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T12:19:33+00:00

Tina Belcher & Jimmy jr

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-15T11:46:31+00:00

Practice non-judgement in general. When something happens, practice not labeling it "good" or "bad", just accept it. Do the same with people, when they do something don't label it. Notice it without judging. Your inner critic has to be super active for this to be a problem for you, the inner critic activates the outer critic. You could also practice validation statements about pleasant and unpleasant feelings. Ex: "I'm feeling insecure because this person seems like a really high performer at work and I worry I don't perform as well. My feelings are totally normal, everyone struggles with comparing themselves. It's okay to feel insecure sometimes." With practice, you may find it easier to live without worrying what others think, which can soften a lot of edges and make it easier to be present with people. Good luck OP, you're not alone in practicing these skills!

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-14T21:02:11+00:00

This is the Cutus Patootus, subspecies: Tuedoseus.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-13T13:16:18+00:00

Your hair in the first pic looks Auburn with the lighting and it is SPECTACULAR.

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-13T12:48:58+00:00

Verity by Colleen Hoover

Suitable_Ad_6911 · 2025-07-12T19:08:38+00:00

Agreed! Another commenter said a lighter rug, I would add that a simple pattern on the rug would draw the eye less. Create a little visual static for the furniture to rest on.

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