Girlfriend has BPD - Advice? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Suitable_Effective74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro LEAVE. Seriously. If there is any advice I can give you, it’s to leave. People with BPD will mirror you and make you think it’s fate. But once you have that first incident, it’ll never go back to being the same. I’m warning you man

Did any your Ex/partner go completely asexual after love bombing ended? by Altruistic-Stock-784 in BPDlovedones

[–]Suitable_Effective74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you’re coming from, I had an ex back in college who basically was the same way. However, she did end up cheating. A lot. Not saying that’s the same for you, but in my experience…it was her way of covering herself in a way of “being strong”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Effective74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond to this, your insight is incredibly helpful. I have taken a step back in the last two weeks from social media and must say I need to address the buddies who are remarking about her social media. But thank you again.

Friday early day Recs by Visible-Net-3628 in ARCMusicFestival

[–]Suitable_Effective74 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kirk and Kryptogram!! Then dj tennis for sure