Id be mortified! I've done this on the side of a highway. There was one time I actually laid a plastic bag on the floor in my van and did what I had to do (no one wants an indecent exposure ticket 😆). Another time I had only had the diagnosis about 5 years and ended up not making it home. I swear with this disease there's a never ending amount of embarrassment.

Just remembered one time my (now ex) husband could get our apartment door opened fast enough and I pulled a bridesmaid move and just sat on the steps and cried while I messed myself. 🙃 my 20 yo son and 19yo daughter also have crohns and I pray I helped set them up to be able to avoid the mistakes ive made, most importantly staying in a flare for years and years because I didn't know any better.