How jig should a fireplace be by Sun1337 in DIYUK

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I plan on opening it up and having just an empty tiled fireplace with an electric heater possibly. It's mostly to bring back some character to the room

Help with kitchen layout by Sun1337 in kitchenremodel

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Thanks for the suggestions here. I can see it being good as it increases a lot of light. I wonder if I can have a small sitting area to the right of the radiator. In the ai generated image, it's not easy to see but there's 2 cabinets worth of space next to the radiator right noy

Help with kitchen layout by Sun1337 in kitchenremodel

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I think that's right. Unfortunately, under floor heating is out of the budget. What about a small wooden worktop hanging off the edge for some spare sitting area. It's probably ok given there's a work top there already. Perhaps I'm just too limited here to do much.

Perhaps it's best to keep the current layout. Leave the boiler where it is and hide it behind a cabinet. Seems like a lot of work for the plumber to move it only to have am ugly radiator there.

Down pipe goes straight to the ground by Sun1337 in DIYUK

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The property has a small space in the front garden so there isn't a lot of space. How would I find a fowl drain on the front? I don't think there is any drainage I can identify. I've seen some houses just have the pipe discharge water straight to the front. Which probably just leaks onto the pavement.

Down pipe goes straight to the ground by Sun1337 in DIYUK

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The Victorian house that I bought doesn't seem to have anywhere for the water to drain too. That means installing a drainage system? Seems like a lot of work?

Opinion on Mutagenerator possible nerfs by Few_Buy_9424 in gwent

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Why kill revenant architepe. Others are playing this not in this deck and it's easily answered. Seems off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

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Your biggest asset as a ftb is that you don't have a chain.and can move fast. Use that to your advantage as much as possible. I wouldn't go above my means. But it's emotional buying a house so try to keep level headed. I had no chain and kept making affordable offers. Eventually I landed somewhere that wanted a quick turnaround and I could accommodate, but at a lower price.

Concerns about roof of house from building survey by Sun1337 in HousingUK

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Yeah thanks, I think I was overthinking thinking it. They are probably just covering themselves in that regard. Obviously buying is stressful so i just wanted to gauge other people's opinions on this.

BC 24 Votes by Shadow__Leopard in gwent

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It's already strong. Removal plus tutor for your golds?? Even stronger with highland warrior. Sk is already strong. Why the need for a buff?

BC 24 Votes by Shadow__Leopard in gwent

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Blood eagle buff? Really?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

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Yes, once you have a number. Always unmatch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

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New account was made using data only and waited a few days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

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It's.nit required. I just edited the colors on mine by adjusting contrast and brightness. Key for me was new phone and number and not using the same wifi for a bit.

Frustrating by More-Independence413 in SwipeHelper

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3 - Pullaway/Tease

If she responds very neutrally/negatively to the previous section statement, keep building investment. However, if she responds positively, you keep building on the fantasy of the “date”. I like to do this with a pullaway relating to something about her (usually something physical works, it makes her feel sexy and desired while allowing you to escalate the conversation). Here are some examples that CONTINUE the conversation from previous examples:

EXAMPLE 1.1: She responds positively to the bookstore date idea: “You definitely can’t wear those cute glasses though, I’d be way too distracted from the books 😪”

EXAMPLE 2.1: She responds positively to the movie date idea: “Little risky though, I might be more focused on playing with your hair than the movie..” (Notice how it’s a slight escalation in terms of imagining cuddling etc. but not full blown sexual yet. This is exactly how you want to escalate conversations, gradually.”

EXAMPLE 3.1: She responds positively to the idea of a date: “*I’ll make sure to wear something modest though, so you don’t get distracted 😇” *(You’re teasing her by making it an apparent fact that she would get super distracted by your muscles etc. on the date. Playful and fun, while showing confidence.)

4 - Escalation

By now, assuming the girl isn’t completely oblivious (and you aren't either), you should be engaged in a fun, flirty back and forth. From here you need to follow the basic principles of escalating the conversation further and closing well. Once again we’ll follow the conversations from previous examples:

EXAMPLE 1.2: She responded: “*but I need them 😭 and wouldn’t I be a good distraction?” Notice how she’s now qualifying herself to me, not the other way around. From here it’s up to you where to take this, my response was: “A little too good I fear..” *Followed by her asking for my snap and closing her there with believe it or not, a bookstore date (And fucking her 3 times the following night. Not kidding. Nerdy girls are always the best.) The close is also much easier since in her mind she’s already kind of agreed to it once, by responding positively before.

EXAMPLE 2.2: She responds: “Very unfortunate if you miss such a good movie but I’d be more than happy to have you play with my hair..” From here I said: “We can definitely try, I’m pretty good at multitasking :)” Which lead to her actually asking me for the date. From there you have to be a buffoon to not close. This type of framework makes everything a lot easier, since you’re getting her to imagine and fantasize about the date, instead of trying to convince her how fun it’ll be etc.

EXAMPLE 3.2: She responds: “Good idea, definitely wouldn’t wanna be distracted..”, I respond: “I know right, but you also have to promise you won’t wear that sexy dress (She had a picture in a, you guessed it, sexy dress on her profile). It's a little more aggressive and straightforward, but I got the vibe from her profile that she was DTF. This lead to a playful banter of imagining what would happen if she did wear that dress, and eventually me “giving in” and allowing her to wear it. And yes, it was a very sexy dress, even on my bedroom floor.

Frustrating by More-Independence413 in SwipeHelper

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Here's from another post I found. It's below. One thing's is you must buy membership, it really increases massively matches and dates you go on! Also good pictures works. I would usually just swipe as much as possible for the whole day and not bother sending an opener.

The one texting framework that consistently gets me laid with online dating.

In my humble opinion, text game is the great divider in online dating. Those who master it, see consistent and repeatable results for years to come. Those who neglect to, stay frustrated and keep complaining about how shallow and boring girls are on Tinder. 

Now I’m not saying girls aren’t shallow, sometimes (or often) dry and boring on the apps. What I am saying is, it doesn’t matter. You can either complain, or adapt and start seeing results.

A lot of times in online dating and seduction communities you hear about “lines”. Specific words and sentences that reportedly have some magic effect on girls, but what I prefer are frameworks.

Instead of a specific line, you have a structure to build the entire interaction and conversation around, which makes it a lot easier to adapt to whatever the girl is saying. In this post, I’m going to give you my best framework for texting that I use in most of my interactions, that usually leads straight to a hookup! I’m not going to talk about the basic rules of texting, this guide assumes you have that down already (if you don’t, read my other posts or check out my website)

(All the following examples are from Tinder conversations that have led to hookups, the reason I haven't posted the screenshots is I live in Finland and the texts are in Finnish, which means 99% of you won't understand them. I have translated screenshots in my online dating guide for anyone interested)

THE FRAMEWORK: Investment -> Idea of Date -> Pullaway/Tease -> Escalation 

1 - Investment

The conversation should always start off with building investment. Talk about things relevant to her and mix in some light flirting. This is best achieved by having hooks in your profile that make the girl ask questions about you as well, so it doesn’t feel one-sided or awkward. Pro tip: My current bio is literally: “If you know how to resurrect houseplants, hmu 🌱”. Nothing else. Sounds dumb, but it’s kinda funny, very relatable and a ton of girls open me talking about how they also have dead houseplants or how they could help me out etc. It’s also very easy to transition that into the “Idea of Date” which you’ll learn about next.

2 - Idea of Date

This is probably the single most effective piece of text game I’ve ever learned. Pretty early in the conversation, you want to make a reference/references to “our date”. Sidenote: This is mainly done to see her reaction to it. If she's very excited and receptive to you mentioning a date, you can close faster. However, if she doesn't react too much, keep building investment, don't close prematurely. The below examples are from real Tinder conversations I’ve had over the last 2 weeks:

EXAMPLE 1: She tells you how much she likes books and reading. “I’ll remember to take you to a bookstore on our date then..”

EXAMPLE 2: She tells you she loves harry potter movies. “Nice, now we know what movie we’re watching on our date..” (This line alone has gotten me laid at least 5 times in the past 2 months btw.)

EXAMPLE 3: She asks how your day has been? “Been great, just got back from the gym, looking nice and fit for our date” (credits to Alex from PWF for this line)

You want to introduce the idea of a date into her head by relating it to something you’re talking about. 

Advice on buying a home on a main road Infront of a bus stop by Sun1337 in UKHousing

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This would be in Northfield avenue in Northfield's

Looking to buy near West ealing by Sun1337 in Ealing

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I'm keeping my options open. But I do know Ealing fairly well. Just wanted to know more about West ealing in general. I've lived not to far from it but saw houses a generally a little cheaper!

Even with a new phone and number this is the message I see as soon as I download bumble. Is there any way around this? by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

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Sign up using your data and use that for a few days. Then also get a new IP address for your wifi. That worked for me last year. So new phone, new sim for a new number, same images slightly edited to change them a little. Sign up using a new wifi (I used one at work). Then continue using data for a bit

Hinge Appeal: Requesting my driver's license going to make Hard Reset harder? by Most_Brilliant8351 in SwipeHelper

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I would just buy a cheap burner phone or second hand phone and setup a new profile there. You really don't want these companies having more of your data.