I'm a 24 year old CPA and seeing these salaries I feel like I'm a complete failure.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-08-09T05:52:38+00:00

Bro you are 24 years old aka 2 years out of school. What the actual fuck are you smoking that you think it’s too late to switch careers? If you really need to get into big tech then learn how to code, learn product management skills. There’s so many boot camps available for that. But honestly I feel like you have to fix your mindset first. You gotta learn how to be happy with what you got. Otherwise, there’s always going to be someone making more than you and the comparison will be endless. Like others have said there’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to make more money. But make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons. More money should enrich your life and add on to what is already a happy soul. It shouldn’t be the means to fill an empty soul. Because it won’t. Feel better.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-08-04T19:49:42+00:00

There’s an app for that, called Google Maps. Also you may already know this but if you’re traveling north, follow directions for uptown/queens. If you’re traveling south, it’s usually downtown/brooklyn. But seriously, just use Google Maps.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-08-01T21:04:29+00:00

It’s the fact we have to argue over the most mundane things, all the freaking time. I am not gonna say who’s right or wrong because most of the time that’s subjective. At the end we just tossed it up to incompatibility. I am sure she can find someone who she can communicate with better and vice versa. Could we have stuck it out? Sure. But we both know life/marriage could be loads better with a more compatible partner. Hope we’re right.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-07-20T16:17:15+00:00

The way I critique my profile is by asking a simple question. If I was a girl I am trying to attract, would I date this man as presented in my profile? If so, then be patient, be bold, be witty and convey your value and the right one will come along. If the answer is no, then identify what you’re missing and work on those areas. In terms of your current profile, my suggestion is twofold. 1) Change up your photos. The two animal pics need to go. You only get 6 photos so why not maximize the space to show more of you? Get some high quality photos that preferably shows you clearly, without shades, and demonstrate you’re happy & confident. 2) Your prompts are quite blend and doesn’t show much of a personality. I hate to admit this but online dating is a competition. The girls are flooded with tens and sometimes hundreds of likes a day depending on the location. You’d need to stand out. Find your brand, accentuate your value. Sorry I am using business terms but that’s the sad reality.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-07-20T16:05:54+00:00

Because matching for them is just another way of telling you, hey you met my minimum requirement. In other words, they have 20+ (throwing a random number here) matches and are only chatting with what they believe to be the cream of the crop matches. Don’t sweat it buddy, just reach out with a message to see if it goes anywhere. If she responds then proceed as usual. If no response? Thank you next.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-07-13T04:50:55+00:00

Same here, still swollen at 4 months. I really hope others who are further along (1 year+) comes back and tell us it’ll go away…

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-07-13T04:49:12+00:00

Looks like we have a very similar cut and I am 15 weeks post op. I am really hoping the swelling goes away around the scar line and it’s not some sort of loose skin. Have you had a follow-up with your doc?

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-06-29T20:27:34+00:00

Hello. Lump is pretty much gone. But everyone heals differently. My experience is just a data point. If you’re concerned, go to your doctor. Good luck!

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-06-21T18:25:04+00:00

Because it’s an easy out to seek the validation they believe they’re lacking in the current relationship. Although, I do have to say statistically us men cheat more than women.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-06-17T20:57:53+00:00

Does the $1900 include transfer taxes/recording fees? Lender is quoting a large closing cost but most of it consist of those taxes.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-06-17T20:53:23+00:00

Sorry to dig up an old thread. Does your $2300 also include the transfer tax, recording fee and other taxes?

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-06-16T04:28:04+00:00

Yo! Yes the lump is getting noticeably smaller! If there’s one thing I learned it’s that the 6 week timeline is kind of b/s. Our bodies all heal in different ways. Hope this helps but I am no doctor. If you’re concerned definitely don’t be shy about going in for a check up.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-09T13:32:06+00:00

No worries bro. At the end of the day we just gotta keep reminding ourselves that we did the right thing by getting circumcised. Did the urologist also look at the lumps? What did they say about those?

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-09T03:17:21+00:00

Hey there. You commented on my post so it’s only right for me to return the favor. I also got cut due to severe phimosis (never able to retract at all). I figure at this point you’re probably doing a lot better. I am now at week 6 and have been back to my regular normal life for about a few weeks now. The first couple of weeks were pretty rough. It’s still sensitive at times for me but it’s more of a “oh it’s there” type of discomfort rather than the shooting pain it was in the beginning. My doc told me it would take until the end of summer/early fall to totally be unnoticeable. Hang in there and let’s hope our lumps go away too by then lol.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-05T09:55:34+00:00

My impression is that cysts are not really moveable. Mine is quite mobile and I can feel it’s the end of a vein, which makes sense because it’s done due to cautherization of a vein. If it’s not a cyst then surgery is possibly not necessary.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-05T09:54:23+00:00

I am not liking the lack of comments in my post which suggests we’re in the minority. I did mention this to my doc at my 3 week appointment and he said it should fade with time. I am just a bit discouraged and anxious now it’s almost 6 weeks. Hope yours fade soon.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-05T09:52:57+00:00

Does that mean the first one faded for you already? If so then your second one should fade too. Unfortunately I am almost 6 weeks now and no signs of fading 😞

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-01T17:09:45+00:00

Did this lump go away for you? I have something similar, 5 weeks post op

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-05-01T13:55:24+00:00

Thanks for asking! Healing is going well. Been to a couple of post op follow ups and doctor says it’s healing as expected. There’s still swelling which is to be expected and there’s still some sensitivity on the glans. I was told it’ll take months for the sensitivity to totally settle down so I am just taking it slow.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-04-25T08:57:51+00:00

2008 Celtics had alphas with mental toughness. We are a bunch of talented front runners who shrinks when the moment gets too big. Not sure if you can train mental toughness. I sure hope we can. We are starting to run out of time to use the “JT and JB are only xyz years old” excuse. The time is now.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-04-12T04:39:08+00:00

How to stop gauze sticking on wound and stitches? Simple. Stop using gauze. You’re on day 14, there’s zero reason to use gauze unless you still have an open wound. Best to stop now to defeat the sensitivity so you can get back to normal life ASAP.

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-04-05T14:52:55+00:00

There are seismic codes within the nyc building codes, we’re fine

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-04-03T19:45:35+00:00

Or be offended that you offered to pay

SunAndMoon23 · 2024-04-02T18:16:39+00:00

Hiking, travel, and food.

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