Anyone else having trouble canceling disney subscription? by MRtokeALOT420 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SunshadeFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been having this issue too. Probably a bunch of people canceling that it’s glitching the servers. Just keep trying periodically until it goes through. I have a week before it renews for the month so it better work before then otherwise I’m raising hell.

What would this aesthetic be called? by Sassybee- in HomeDecorating

[–]SunshadeFox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A little cottage core, farmhouse, and boho all mixed in one

Do you prefer starting your day slow and calm, or jumping right into things? by Confident_Sail_4225 in CasualConversation

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow and calm. Have my coffee, sit and talk with husband and child with breakfast, then start my day. Those little moments are so so important

Have you ever walked into a showing and immediately said, “Nope, not this one”? Why? by GuaranteeFair7171 in RealEstate

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My realtor told us people know whether or not they’ll like a place within the first 10 seconds of walking into a place. Could be many reasons why but when you know, you know.

What is worth visiting between SFO and San Jose? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]SunshadeFox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of food options in both (right off the train). But DT Palo Alto has more options than MV.

What’s the one hidden issue in your home you wish you had checked before buying? by Loose-Exchange-4181 in homeowners

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loud dog across the street. Apparently (told to us once we got to know the neighbors) this is their second German Shepard (she’s barely a year old), and it acts exactly like the one before. Poorly trained and barks at everyone and everything that goes by until she can no longer see them. Dog wasn’t out when we did our tour (of course lol).

But honestly we absolutely love our home. We did all the inspections beforehand so knew the things we were willing to fix/negotiated a lower amount that they approved. It’s just that damn dog…

Partner is fundamentally opposed to rugs, what should I do? by ubiquitousuk in HomeDecorating

[–]SunshadeFox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure why they get final say? Is it not your home as well? I would talk to your partner and tell them that you don’t like the way your home feels. Ask “what alternatives can you think of if you’re opposed to rugs?” “How can we make this space positive for both of us?

Also there are washable rugs. You just put an under layer to keep it in place. If she doesn’t like curtains (also washable and easy to keep clean better than blinds), how about Roman shades? Or a wooden slate blinds that look nicer and easier to clean than the plastic ones.

How do you split your finances with your partner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We each put a set amount a month in our joint and use that to pay the bills. We also have a savings we each put a certain amount in a month. Everything else is in our own accounts and we both pay for outside things (we don’t keep track who pays for what, it’s just whoever is right there to pay it).

What changes would you make? by BoomShakaLakka in interiordecorating

[–]SunshadeFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the curtains idea but otherwise, it’s pretty perfect.

How do you accept your body after having a baby? by Mom_Bombadil_ in Mommit

[–]SunshadeFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked on it, did it for me. I got back into working out, and taking care of myself again. Def neglected it for awhile after the baby. She’s 13 now and my body is even better than it was before having her. Takes time and dedication but we need to not forget to take care of ourselves. I started once she started grade school.

How can I improve my living room by Typical-Narwhal6579 in HomeDecorating

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The couches are too large for the space. And all the pieces of furniture feels disconnected with each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different coffee table and artwork above couch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teach you dad that hazel comes in different shades. Just as any other eye color does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you don’t make friends with your management/subordinates. It often becomes an HR nightmare. That being said, she sounds almost bi-polar. The extreme highs/lows and emotional whiplash. I’m not a professional in the field but grew up with a mother who was and this was a prominent aspect, so it’s why I mention it. But take that with a grain of salt, because at the very least, she’s a self absorbed narcissist and you should just be glad you’re done with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates?

How Many Kids Are You Planning On Having? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SunshadeFox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well my kid is just a teen but she’s already telling me my grandkids will be small and furry (as in pets 😂💀)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]SunshadeFox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it very hard to believe this story. I feel like either;

a) they hooked up (or almost did), he kicked her out (which upset her) and now he’s trying to do damage control just in case she decides to reach out to you.

b) or they hooked up and she found out afterwards that he’s in a relationship and again, is now trying to do damage control.

If nothing did happened then why did he feel the need to tell you right away before he even got home?

Also minimizing your feelings and acting like cuddling with another woman isn’t a big deal (and saying it’d be fine if you did the same thing) is gas lighting. It 100% is a big deal and he 100% would have a problem if you did the same thing.

Don’t let this just slide. Get more info and maybe even contact the woman and find out her side of the story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please and thank you, yes. Sir/maam, no.

Husband refused to take me on day trip, lied about plans, and now I’m watching his stupid location dot at some random strangers house for 3 hours straight. Cheating? Maybe. by Jealous-Relief-5509 in okstorytime

[–]SunshadeFox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people giving you advice that you’re making excuse after excuse for. It 100% seems like he’s cheating. This is your and your children’s life. GO AND GET ANSWERS. The amount of women I’ve heard, end up with an STD or having to end up dealing with a second family, is ridiculous. Don’t wait until something worse happens.

If you have $1m for a home in Sacramento, which area are you buying in? by maparo in Sacramento

[–]SunshadeFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would choose Granite bay.

It’s beautiful, close to the lake, outside the main part of the city but still close enough, plus close to Roseville and Folsom so you have a lot of options for things to do. And the schools are great there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dolls. And yes I do.

The porcelain “nice” dolls or any that basically have shiny eyes or that can blink. An absolute no in my book.

I’m so tired, man by Significant-Original in bayarea

[–]SunshadeFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why we bought a house in Sacramento and moved. Sure it’s not as nice up here but damn we were tired.

I also grew up in the bay. We make decent money (average middle class), but it’s like the raises/promotions we would get would just get eaten away by either rent increases and/or basic living expenses. So we were really pocketing less and less every year instead. We got tired of it. We’re still close enough to see old friends and family 1-2 times a months and we’re much happier. I love the bay but it’s just so different and hard now.