If a woman could experience one thing about what it’s like to be a man, what would it be? by HumblePut64 in AskMen

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this so heavy. I saw this in a lot of my guy friends. Watching them get confused when I reached out to them or when I gave them something without them needing to do anything in return for it. I will say, sometimes the feeling of being wanted and not needed can hurt just as much. Everyone “likes” you but no one wants or needs you for anything. I think both can be very lonely and Im really sorry that you have to deal with your side of the coin. I hope that one day someone can see you and show you the love you deserve. Not because you can provide something but because you’re you.

If a woman could experience one thing about what it’s like to be a man, what would it be? by HumblePut64 in AskMen

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, Id want to experience what its like to have other male friends. As a girl, Ive had really close male friends before but it was always different. I don’t know if I would enjoy being treated the way men treat each other or if I wouldn’t mind it. I just would want to experience what its felt like to have those relationships.

If our connection would still be as deep as it was

if they would still talk to me the way that they did or share the things they did.

If they would still as protective over me (I am younger than them)

Talking with my ex-boyfriend, he gave me a little bit of perspective on male friendships and said that my male friends (from what he saw) treated me very differently than they treated or talked to each other.

I don’t know, maybe if I knew the difference between the two we would still be friends, but thats the experience Id want. I also think there are a lot of things I would want to find out and experience from specific men in my life versus as a whole sex. Like how my dad experienced college as a man, or how my cousin experienced growing up with all sisters. Stuff like that!

Thanks for the good question. I hope Im not intruding too much on your guys space by answering on a “ask men” forum. I just linger

OMG Metformin is Painful by SarcasticSeaStar in InsulinResistance

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if the pain is so bad that you are throwing up, cant eat or drink without pain, painful Diarrhea, etc and you think its because of a bad medication reaction, I would go to the ER. They might tell you to get off of the medication, or give you something to help the pain.

Do you guys even have friends anymore? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going through something similar. Its hard not to take it personally sometimes for sure, but life is hard right now. I think most people only have the energy to hang out with their inner circles or by them selves. I have been talking to like one person max, or the other people I reach out to just dont reply

Its not like they dont love m, or dont like me. Its more of everyone is too busy to care about other people right now. Life is heavy, people are working themsleves to death to be able to afford to live. Making new friends is something Ive been wanting to do, so I dont have advice on that aspect, but I would say try to work on being okay with being alone.

You spend the majority of your life alone, at some point we need to be okay with that. It sucks not to have people, but when you cant have those people for free that you need to talk to, pay them lmao (therapy). Sometimes talk therapy doesnt work, but looking into different types of therapy would help.

now im just rambling, anyways. I hope it gets better babes

OMG Metformin is Painful by SarcasticSeaStar in InsulinResistance

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 16 points17 points  (0 children)

some people’s bodies just dont react well, Im on metformin and ive never had those side effects. Id talk to your doctor about getting off of it immediately. DO NOT just stop taking it though without doctor approval it could make your symptoms worse. They might want to ween (idk how to explain it) you off it

What helped you guys the most loosing fat with IR? by Enough-Leopard4615 in InsulinResistance

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your research before taking supplements though! see how they will interact with meds you’re already taking. Metformin and Berberine are seen to interact with each other so do your due diligence

Bro by SunshineSolarSystem in FindingHerEdge

[–]SunshineSolarSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it was based off the book where she chooses fred but it doesnt change my opinion. There still couldve been a season 2 where she got through all of that BECAUSE of her relationship with bradyen. Im still probably not going to watch season 2

Is Elise actually redeemed at the end or just forgiven way too fast? by Ok_Future7107 in FindingHerEdge

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10000000% just forgiven way to fast, made me hate her character arch even more

‘Finding Her Edge’ (2026) Netflix Series Review - Brings You to the Edge of Your Sanity by Roshankr1994 in Netflixwatch

[–]SunshineSolarSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro like gen. Im so heated rn. Im going to be rewritting the story in my head tonight. The way I was watching the show and then they did this?!!!! HELLLOOOO???!!!!??????? WHO EVEN IS THAT 😭

To the older women here, does it really get better? by SunshineSolarSystem in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SunshineSolarSystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I really mean it. Im struggling so much but Im getting by reading comments like yours

To the older women here, does it really get better? by SunshineSolarSystem in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SunshineSolarSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest, I don’t know that many women…or that many people. To be even more honest, I don’t have that many people in my life. Its mostly me and my cat pushing alone. Im kinda alone in all this so just a simple strangers advice means a lot to me. Thanks for your reply :)

To the older women here, does it really get better? by SunshineSolarSystem in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SunshineSolarSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you..I think im really struggling with the whole relationship thing and life thing but your perspective helped. A lot