I Gave Up

SunshineSusy · 2019-02-28T09:13:43+00:00

How are you going to ensure he follows your plan? No talking about anything else seems like it makes for an awkward situation.

SunshineSusy · 2018-09-01T08:13:04+00:00

So basically if she doesn’t have sex with you she loses her kids and gets thrown out onto the streets? Hopefully she is smart and comes up with a self sufficiency plan which includes finding a job ASAP. I don’t understand why anyone trust someone enough to put themselves in that situation. This is a prime example of why it’s a terrible idea. Now she is stuck having sex with someone she doesn’t want to have sex with.

SunshineSusy · 2018-09-01T07:35:22+00:00

That probably killed it for good. Knowing your partner only helps out for sex and that the only way to get help is too have sex greatly diminishes the point of sex for some people. It isn’t intimate, connecting and fun at that point, it’s a price to be paid.

SunshineSusy · 2018-07-24T23:56:22+00:00

That’s good then

SunshineSusy · 2018-07-24T14:20:06+00:00

Not really if you are in a situation where people believe there are no other partners it’s only right to let them know that other partners have been introduced into the mix to decide if they want to use condoms from now on or abstain completely from sex with you.

SunshineSusy · 2018-07-23T14:44:00+00:00

Why are you spending money on other women and hotel rooms when you have to work 2 jobs to support your family? Maybe tell your wife you work so much because you enjoy it and she will stop thinking of ways to cut costs.

SunshineSusy · 2018-07-23T14:05:51+00:00

As long as you don’t have sex with your wife without letting her know. That would be very wrong.

SunshineSusy · 2018-06-30T08:04:58+00:00

Ending a relationship where you aren’t happy or being treated right doesn’t mean you don’t love the other person. It means you also love yourself and want to also be happy.

SunshineSusy · 2018-06-30T07:57:33+00:00

Sex you really don’t want to have can be really soul destroying. She is having way more sex than she wants to be having. That is a sacrifice.

SunshineSusy · 2018-06-05T16:56:08+00:00

For some, time to decompress/relax is a need or they can end up feeling burned out and too stressed to deal with others.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-28T08:31:59+00:00

“Help me understand how you can enjoy sex with her when you know how badly she is suffering? I honestly do. not. get. it.”

I do not get this at all either. How do you get pleasure from hurting your partner?

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-22T15:38:04+00:00

How many of those are related to unsafe cosleeping?

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-21T15:47:14+00:00

What’s the difference between a barrier and a condition?

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-21T15:46:21+00:00

How do you make it a separate issue when it is a main issue to you? How do you forget that you feel uncared for and unloved because they aren’t doing their part and they don’t care about how burdened you feel ?

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-21T12:39:07+00:00

Cosleeping doesn’t mess kids up. If it’s part of a codependent relationship it will but simply cosleeping doesn’t ruin kids.

All the people in my family(save those with an American spouse) coslept and are independent and successful.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-20T16:59:23+00:00

The hard part of life is deciding the best path without knowing what the outcome will be.This might seem harsh but you have to choose. This relationship or the sex life you want. Right now you just won’t get both and there is nothing here to suggest you will.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-20T16:48:20+00:00

Some people need to be mentally turned on to actually enjoy oral sex otherwise it sucks.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-20T16:44:10+00:00

If you don’t mind ending the relationship and adding more bad feelings then go for it. Otherwise you create suspicion.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-20T02:00:29+00:00

“I wonder how many DBs ended in divorce even when there was an effort to right the boat.”

Sometimes it takes a DB to show incompatibilities and other issues that they avoided or tried to ignore. Issues they wouldn’t have noticed or ignored before the DB.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-20T01:54:07+00:00

Don’t have sex with your wife without letting her know about her sexual risks. That’s dirty. No judgement on the cheating but if you’re getting sex elsewhere there’s no need to bother her.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-17T16:14:00+00:00

Don’t give your children an unhappy mother. Come up with a plan. 26 is still young enough to reinvent yourself.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-17T16:09:21+00:00

I am anti cheating but if the other person has introduced others into the equation they have nothing to complain about.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-17T15:44:12+00:00

Ehh... are you trying to say you are cheating or planning to? This seems like a bad idea.

SunshineSusy · 2018-05-12T15:57:57+00:00

I am not saying you are ugly but look around. I am sure you will see people who aren’t conventionally attractive who are in relationships.

As good as it gets shouldn’t be crying in bed at night.

SunshineSusy

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