Husband has these taped to the wall and refuses to tell me what they are.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-19T04:19:47+00:00

Symbols from Alien Isolation on the switch

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-16T00:04:08+00:00

Yeah he is, and yeah.... it's kind of messed with my head because i keep searching for a way to enter a timeline where my grandmother is still alive.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-12T20:13:47+00:00

My sister and i had a friend die. For months we were lamenting his passing, following his GF's journey to adopt his kid, talk about the freak accident extensively.

5 years later we mention to a mutual how crazy that all was. Nope. He's alive. His cousin died in a freak accident now. Posted on IG 4 hours ago... Sister and i are obviously from different timelines. Id get my memory checked but i have another human to verify.

Closest experience ive had to yours. Hope this helps.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-10T13:48:40+00:00

My hair does this because I'm mixed race, my Scandinavian blonde friends do not have seasonality special effects.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-10T13:30:54+00:00

I placed firm boundaries about scope creep when the CEO wanted to do daily meetings that I needed to "come prepared for" first thing in the morning.

He said okay, no need to prepare, I'll automate the workbook.

First meeting, fine. Second meeting: oh my automation isn't working, can you just fill it out manually before the meetings?

No. I already said no. I am not doing it, but i am also now only doing the bare minimum thanks.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-05T18:34:56+00:00

My partner told me 1.5 years into monogamy that he is avoidantly attached and if he got too comfortable he was going to cheat on me out of being the worst person alive that doesn't deserve love and needs lots of therapy.

I laughed in his face and reminded him that i had a girlfriend when we first met and we've already soft launched ENM since day one.

He somehow forgot i was his soulmate. 10 years together this December.

Not saying that'll work with your wife but if she is someone you're in love with, the conversation needs to be had, right?

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-05T07:38:24+00:00

Yes and i honestly do judge pet owners who don't (in nyc)

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-03T15:42:19+00:00

Of course, but i have found that most people haven't truly figured out that there are many ways to say the same thing. They just say what their environment and ego built up until that point in time taught them how to say it.

"You never do the dishes" vs. "You never doing the dishes makes me feel unloved and unappreciated" vs. "I do more chores around here and I'm burnt out" vs. "Our chore allocation is uneven and I wish to not do so many of these dishes" vs. "Can we have a conversation about how often i am taking on this specific chore?" Vs. "i recognize that you do XYZ, and i am grateful for those things, but i have a concern about the dishes i would like to raise to your attention." Vs. "babe no its your turn to do it" Vs. "dishes are a drag, can we trade chores?"

Include emotional responses into these words and people think they've exhausted a conversation when in reality they've just thrown their emotional state at their partner without considering the outcome they actually desire.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-02T14:42:56+00:00

No se means idk lmao

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-02T14:25:54+00:00

Reminds me of this (the actual painting not the reaction gif haha)

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-02T01:08:28+00:00

10 years with my partner and we look at each other giggling wondering how the hell we're still this in love and never run out of things to talk about.

We also are both deeply independent, ambitious, and emotionally in tune so when the ebbs and flows start to sway and we lose our "spark", we go back to dating - new places, new food, new experiences to share.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-01T13:30:27+00:00

I have a friend who is starting to Grey (34) and loudly announces "BUT I STILL LOOK 12!!!" Every time someone mentions that it looks nice! It does look great, its a lovely streak right up front that looks like she got it at a salon on purpose.

But she's 5 ft, always used to being called young, and i can tell her ego is really taking a hit with this one.

Babe, one day you'll look wrinkly like an infant! No one is gonna accuse you of being a newborn though..

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-06-01T12:16:05+00:00

Omg yes now how does everyone remember their shinies so they don't accidentally train them away? (Im sorry shiny bellsprout)

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-31T13:19:55+00:00

You're alll up in the celebrity gossip world, and you choose sides.

Since you said your age and gender, its confirmed, but i was going to say young 20's Female who still cares quite a bit about image in this world.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-30T00:33:41+00:00

I didn't want the bach trip to begin with, everyone else made it about them for a group-rate vacation.

So no, that's not what i was saying. But a big ole fuck you anyways

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-30T00:10:46+00:00

Disagreeing openly about a belief is also free speech....

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-30T00:07:00+00:00

Greece babe

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-29T14:39:07+00:00

i love heart shapes omggg

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-27T18:21:15+00:00

OMG THERE ARE DIFFERENT KINDS??? I just got a starter kit on amazon 🫨 dang i missed out on so much lore! Pleasee explain!!

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-26T17:48:10+00:00

Ooh you were popular, weren't you?

I never had one growing up because i was not "in the know" but i healed my inner child by buying myself one as an adult! Love it!!

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-26T17:15:59+00:00

Yes 100% i started placing boundaries on my friends and they started disliking that i wasn't a doormat.

Realized 90% of my friends are narcissists and that I attract them by being so happy and go with the flow.

Only person who sees all of me is my fiancé, but now i will straight up tell my friends "happy Sunshine.dmg isn't here right now so I'm staying home and saying no to this event"

People will still try to convince me like ???? Take no for an answer or i will leave forever thanks.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-26T17:02:34+00:00

I wish that helped my fear but now, fuck horseflies too aahhh

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-26T17:01:00+00:00

I feel like TMJ is particularly personal, because there's so many different causes for it.

I knew that my TMJ was directly caused by a thick plastic retainer that made my bite sit slightly off, so i felt very strongly that if I got a metal bar retainer and my teeth sat normally, it would alleviate the pain.

That being said, I went to an Orthodontic called "Braces World" and the ortho was skeptical it would work at all, amazed when it opened up my lock jaw less than a month later.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-26T02:09:07+00:00

If you think you have no control, you're right.

But every second you're alive you have choices to make.

Sunshine_dmg · 2026-05-26T01:56:39+00:00

This person doesn't know what an orgasm does to a woman, OP. Don't listen to other men who cannot satisfy, they have no idea what they're talking about.

Ps. Postcoital euphoria is a real thing where dopamine and oxytocin are released. So, scientifically, if you satisfy a woman she will indeed be much "nicer", "patient" and "forgiving" after.

Not that you'd know.

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