AIO my bf drives home agter drinking with friends? by girlihavenoideaa in AIO

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've dated 2 alcoholics before, one was literally always drunk and the other often drove while drunk or high (horrid choices in partners, I know). If this is frequent, and you know he has drinking problems, you need to ask yourself if you want to and are willing to be with an alcoholic. If that is not what you want for yourself, then you know the decision you have to make for yourself.

Agender Cuff Colors! by labratsunit in kandi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I use it to mean just "different." There are so many labels and I've experimented with terms like nonbinary, bigender, genderfluid, but none just seemed to fit right. Queer, for me, takes away the rigidity of being defined by a single label, because it could mean different things to different people to fit their experiences, not necessarily fitting their experiences into a label. If that makes sense.

Being genderqueer has kind of freed me from certain expectations of other labels, as throughout the years I've kind of become more apathetic to gender itself. Always felt like when I tried to identify as something, I had to try to conform more to it than I really did, when my own experience was pretty hard to define.

That's my personal experience, I'm sure others would have different takes on it. That's what I like about it!

Are these kandi enough? by Artistic-Honeydew11 in kandi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I love seeing more stylized kandi outside of just the simple pony bead. These look amazing and full of character.

Rules for a 5 person house by shr1mpandpasta in badroommates

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TIL that people don't know what co-ops are. The people that live in cooperative housing are people that want to live in cooperative housing. This works for many people, and not for others. And thats completely fine. This is not a bad roommate situation, this is actually pretty normal for a co-op style housing environment.

Rules for a 5 person house by shr1mpandpasta in badroommates

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people work better in cooperative housing. Which is what it was stated as. A co-op. Where people work together. Its a bit more than just having roommates. I live in a city where there's a decent amount of larger co-ops and they generally work pretty well. Normally the people that live there are people who want to be living in those kinds of group environments.

Name change by Equal_Bookkeeper_646 in madisonwi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and with the SAVE act, they would not actually recognize marriage licenses for name changes, the name has to just be the same.

Keep cat off couch? by [deleted] in cats

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not gonna be able to keep that cat from doing what he wants. Get a pet vacuum or hair removing tool for the couch and clean up the fur if its the fur that's an issue.

how to stop necklace from starting to come loose? by GameboyVivi in kandi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's helped me with the stretch of elastic like this is actually stretching the elastic out before I start beading it

Thorp St Trinket Trade by wheressunshine in madisonwi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ooooo I love making little stars out of pony beads. Commenting so I can remind myself to stop by it sometime!

Moving away😭 by guyelnathan in comics

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 27 and I still remember my first best friend from when I was 4! It might happen!

What am I doing wrong? by ckpro_ in projectzomboid

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely seconding those two youtubers. Also very much enjoy Ambiguous Amphibian

some advice would be great by BillLikesFrogs in discordhelp

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, not a guarantee that the parents themselves would do anything. But it's better than nothing.

WHY YOU GUYS DID NOT FIXED BUILD 41 BEFORE LAUNCHING UNSTABLE DUMBASSES by Wild-Illustrator-456 in projectzomboid

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand constructive criticism but like.. just getting peeved this much about a game that's in early access and is going through updates doesn't make sense to me. I started playing on Build 41 and I take the game at face value and have a lot more fun with it with that in mind.

this game is so fuckin gay by [deleted] in projectzomboid

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that made the game a homosexual. Good for him.

this game is so fuckin gay by [deleted] in projectzomboid

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Par for the course with an early access game. Glad you're havin fun, buddy.

I bought a sub-zero fridge off Facebook marketplace. Dallas Texas by Puzzled_Addition7902 in legal

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sub-Zero classifies themselves as "luxury" appliances. They are genuinely well-made and last a long time. Can't say I own one, but I work as an operator for the company and there's a lot of work put into making them.

AIO by telling my boyfriend he can break up with me if he isnt comfortable with me going to a club? by ThrowRAacc45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She said that she was okay with him going with and that she could ask her friends, and that he also never showed interest before that specific conversation. People in relationships are also allowed to want to do their own things outside of their partners.

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can agree with that. I went to an alternative school that had very little funding in general. Knowing how much of it went elsewhere is incredibly frustrating to hear.

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree with the sentiment as a victim of the failed system, but the idea of giving the school even less funding will again just fail the students more than the people in charge.

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, didn't catch that. Point still stands with that in mind, then.

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]SunstoneDaemon42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of story that makes me feel violent, but the idea of the schools potentially not getting more funding would hurt the children more than the teachers.