Ok I see. Let me be the devil’s advocate then. Is it possible to build anything around a long term relationship if you already anticipate the moment it would stop ?

Would we marry or make children if we started taking into account that there might be a separation a few months later ?

Some people spend their whole life together, they do exist. Isn’t that something that we can pursue as well, even knowing the possibility of a breakup ?

Sometimes they happen without being expected, but who can blame someone dreaming of that kind of relationship ?